Reset Password
Reset Link Sent
| Blogs > sdwmseeking > The Journey of Submission |
|
There is no inferiority or superiority frustration is building with the majority of people I’ve contacted or whom contacted on this site. I guess people are not use a submissive telling them that Dominance does not equal superior any more than submission equals inferior as that mindset does not serve a practical purpose in real life. For if a Domme fails recognize this value and gift of a person’s voluntary submission then they have failed empower. A Domme must give her submissive something real respect. He needs feel that his submission is enhancing and improving her life as well as his own. This will make him feel better as a submissive and his submission will grow stronger for her. In the short time I have been on this site, I have seen more Dommes demanding that a submissive prove he is worthy submit her and how offended when a submissive request that a Domme prove she’s worthy of his submission. It’s like a literal missing aspect on this site of mutual respect on the basic human level. Submissive’s should never feel worthless, because that’s a lie. Everything in life has value. Submission has value, and a true Domme would recognize this value. A Domme would use her submissive’s submission empower and make him better man, not just for her, but for him as well. She can use his submissive desire help him accomplish his dreams. Dominance does not mean superior and submission does not mean inferior. Each has their own personal talents which add the complete relationship. Sure, it turns us on use erotic<b> dominance and submission </font></b>in this way in alternative , but that does not serve a practical purpose in real life. A Domme can still own a submissive completely and entirely, without degrading him a believe he’s a worthless man. It can be about so much more. A Domme simply needs give him something respect. A Domme must give a submissive something respect, something strive for, know his worth. He needs feel that his submission is enhancing and improving her life. Which will make him feel better as a submissive, accepted, safe, loved, cherished. He will be willing do anything for her, in a positive empowered way, as he can be true himself, feeling worth it. It’s time give birth a new kind of domme. Not a Domme that demands a sub prove his worth, but a Domme that gives him something respect and submit . This will change the standards that men have, and they will have raise their standards meet her. Instead of a Domme demanding he prove his worth, which degrades him by making him submit because it turns him on, she can offer him her dominance, which is equally as valuable as his submission: it’s not mentally abusive, and it’s not degrading, it’s empowering for him fully be himself someone respects and values his submission. Nothing is superior anything else in this life. A dominant cannot be dominant without a submissive. There is no inferiority or superiority, except what we decide believe. |
 |
 |
 |
| Become a member to comment on this blog | ||
 |
×
×