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fatnsub 52F
1 post
7/3/2022 12:41 pm

Yes, and I have....although she was still a "top"....she just wasn't kink defined.


slaveRam4MsM 42M
178 posts
7/4/2022 6:15 pm

yes..... on bed i just follow .. I enjoy to submit


aldompdx 62M
1074 posts
7/8/2022 11:22 pm

It all depends upon WHAT you love most.
Sounds like you are fishing for a "Sophie's Choice" answer; or, the difference between dependency/addiction (romance) and loving one's own self before that love can be unconditionally shared.

Via my handle ALDOMPDX, I communicate on the usual daught calm places.


alwaysassertive 64M

7/10/2022 9:59 pm

No fucking way. I am what I am. I'm not going to pretend to be something I'm not. The closest I'm going to get to vanilla is ice-cream. I have no interest in a woman that's vanilla.


Remraff 53M
23 posts
7/28/2022 5:32 am

I voted Yes but it is more complicated than that. If it is 'true love' then both parties will work to make each other happy. This includes some comprise on both sides, so while I would become more vanilla I would expect her to at least some kinks, and like a sane person would totally respect her limits, but observe her reactions and TALK about them.


imcre8ive 64M

8/3/2022 8:34 pm

I would like to think love would cum first but at my age??????


je65pr 58M
151 posts
8/8/2022 12:59 pm

No woman I've been with for any length of time was 'full on vanilla', most had a few minor, or even major kinks and were open to more, with one exception. This one had only one kink, and it was a fairly hard one, but it was all she would do, ever, and she wasn't open to anything else, even 'normal' sex. I'd rather have a woman with a few minor variations and an open mind, than a one trick pony with major kink and a closed mind.


BDSM50Trainer 63M

8/14/2022 12:07 am

Conversion too would be my thinking.
Hope u get the best of both worlds.



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