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Figuring out what I need There's so much that goes into figuring out what I need. Honestly, I love when my Dom tells me what I need, but if he's way off the mark... that just doesn't work. Being told I need to be hurt and humiliated to know my place feels right. But ultimately I feel it in my gut when that isn't being handled correctly. Sometimes it's tempting to never totally submit. Maybe no one can get it right. |
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You and your Dom must talk regularly and openly about this. Doing so avoids the potential trap of topping and increases the likelihood that you (and he) will get from the relationship what satisfies and fulfills you. And, quite frankly, there is always a fail-safe beyond which you (or anyone) won't go, i.e. won't totally submit. Good luck.
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No one can say what another needs, and usually when they tell you what they think you need, it is invaribly all about them. Much more honest to say I think 'I need' to give you...
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its what you feel is right for you and your dom
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you have a mind you have opinions you have needs you have a mouth USE IT!
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12/26/2023 8:34 am |
seems to me you don;t want to be hurt but need to be told what goals you need to focus on. Love shouldn;t hurt you emotionally or physically.
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