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Eliciting Responses From The Alt Community..... Eliciting<b> responses </font></b>from the alt community..... I would like to hear from members that have had experience with partners, male or female, Dom or sub that had minor to major health problems and how you handled those and worked with them. Our topics the other night in chat ranged from food allergies to quad bypass surgery and all in between. Some of the top questions were on MS, Parkinson, Cancer and some older ones chatting also asked about Polio. Lots of diseases and disabilities were spoken about. Anything you would like to give info on would be greatly appreciated. Lots of questions on the MS were from women that had it and lots on the Parkinson were from men that had it. Unless you have lived any of these and other scenarios you just really do not know what to say to someone when asked about them from an alt/bdsm relationship. You never know when you will pick up a bit of information that might help you or someone else when asking about some of this.....and it does come up in conversations......a lot! Also feel free to post a question to the group here on any of this that you might need input on. Thank you for your input in advance! In another blog later I would like to elicit info from members on different religions and how those have been dealt with between partners. |
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Eliciting Responses From The Alt Community On Diseases, Disabilities or anything else that might arise in an alt/bdsm relationship.
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That is a great topic. I think if a sub had what I do, a form of rheumatoid arthritis, I would be hesitant to engage in many bondage, s/m practices. I doubt many subs or bottoms would want to, actually.
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older, and submissive, there's just things I can't do.
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I developed CFS almost 30 years ago. To counter it, I have to keep scenes relatively short, so I don't slip into brain fog because of fatigue. Nor do I want to over do it physically, so I can stay away from fatigue that may take me a day or more to recover from. My submissive has been suffering from severe shoulder pain. So I modified any bondage or restraint we do to keep her shoulders from being stressed.
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As a breast cancer survivor and a sub, my biggest challenges were realizing that I am still able to do lots of things as before. I get a little hesitant when it comes to flogging the breasts or clips but I have learned that a lot of the fear was just a body image problem. This is something that the doctors simply do not address for the most part, the mental aspect. The fact that just because you were ill doesn't mean you suddenly lose all sexual interest. If anything mine has increased. I want to do more and try more than ever and I take care of myself better than I ever have.
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