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It is a difficult question because for me its the desire to want to play is so big but at the same time it takes so much trust and understanding that it is worth the wait. Personally I do not play in person very often, its more of waiting for someone that you have that connection with where the trust and understanding is not a question, its just a given.
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I did meet some people, but not by alt, that was via Fet or that Dutch site. i dont like to let people "play" with my body, without any emotional attachment. it had 2 men do things to me.... Thát had nothing to do with bdsm/power, Authority transfer. When spring comes a long, i might be going to munches again, just to talk. Trust is not part of a sex game. casual pick-up sm is something i cant do. It is not about fetishes, or fantasies, but about the connection.
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2/22/2020 2:19 pm |
dating on alt and elsewhere should be the same in my mind, sometimes it takes meeting a variety of people before you find something special!
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I did meet some people, but not by alt, that was via Fet or that Dutch site. i dont like to let people "play" with my body, without any emotional attachment. it had 2 men do things to me.... Thát had nothing to do with bdsm/power, Authority transfer. When spring comes a long, i might be going to munches again, just to talk. Trust is not part of a sex game. casual pick-up sm is something i cant do. It is not about fetishes, or fantasies, but about the connection.
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dating on alt and elsewhere should be the same in my mind, sometimes it takes meeting a variety of people before you find something special! 
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Good for you! I hope you stay happy for all your days
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2/24/2020 4:29 am |
I don’t’ know what you mean by “dating”. I meet people that I hope to have a relationship with, but that is just a meet and greet and goes no further if a connection is not made or an interest expressed. I find that if you have an interest, a connection and relationship will quickly follow. And that connection and relationship, whatever type it is, grows deep extremely fast in a vacuum of feelings and emotions.
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I don’t’ know what you mean by “dating”. I meet people that I hope to have a relationship with, but that is just a meet and greet and goes no further if a connection is not made or an interest expressed. I find that if you have an interest, a connection and relationship will quickly follow. And that connection and relationship, whatever type it is, grows deep extremely fast in a vacuum of feelings and emotions.
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luv to know
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Guau, wo
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Met some great ladies here. Had great conversations.
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3/1/2020 10:44 am |
For me dating in the lifestyle is the same as any other dating scene.. I get to hand over my hard earned cash and get nothing in return. But as i am slightly mad i am also an optimist and a realist. For a woman is much easier to find a play mate then for a man, face it it is so specially if the woman is good looking. I find a lack of respect, trust and selfishness going on, most of the older generation still have respect, lots of the younger ones completely lack any form and they believe it's all about them. Not only in the lifestyle but in general. Do i still love dating.. yes do i think i find the right one here on ALT or general..no. I take it a date at the time and see where it goes. Been hurt too many times to trust and it will take a long time to trust again. Just my thoughts.. sorry for the rant.
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Good sex is good sex
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My 2 cents, for what it's worth... Meeting people through Alt, is no different than meeting someone casually at a bar, or wherever... You chat, develop thoughts and feelings about them and pursue the relationship or, for whatever reason, don't.. It's networking and putting yourself out there in a semi-safe way, hoping for the best...
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3/2/2020 12:49 am |
lots of different flavours, I like to try them all
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3/5/2020 8:49 am |
I suppose I am a sub husband, not cuck just a frustrated husband who would like to try new thing but the wife is just vanilla.
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I love art...
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I could not find it I tried to find your entry by that name can you please link it here
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I love art...
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3/12/2020 5:00 am |
Dating in the Lifestyle It's an interesting question. I find alt provides superficial fun, but few actual deep connections that go to the next level. I find it easier in RL to connect and to explore from there.
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Dating in the Lifestyle It's an interesting question. I find alt provides superficial fun, but few actual deep connections that go to the next level. I find it easier in RL to connect and to explore from there.
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I do have a lifestyle relationship, but it was he who introduced me to Alt instead of the other way around.
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I do have a lifestyle relationship, but it was he who introduced me to Alt instead of the other way around. 
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5/10/2020 3:13 pm |
I have met a few people from here. I am open to dating, but not looking for it. I am one of those women that it takes a lot of work to establish that trust relationship. And I do not nor have I ever played. When I first came here I was hoping to find the one. (This is my third nic) I have made some great friends and most of support network meets here in the chat rooms. I am here for the conversation. And the cookies. NOM NOM
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