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Dating in the Lifestyle |
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Come on over and vote 
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There are cookies?  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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I have met a few wonderful people through ALT, albeit with 3 different identities. I am still in contact with most of them. One or two broke my heart, and there have been a lot of c**k teasers and fakes. But clearly I am an optimist as far as ALT is concerned, although it does seem to be getting harder to find play partners. I still get a kick out of looking at profiles pictures and videos, and playing find the fakes, and of course reading your blog, Infinitepoetess!
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2/17/2020 1:18 pm |
You have coffee or milk to go with the cookies? Pretty much all I do is read blogs and every so often strike up a conversation on IM when it's working. I have found a kinky FWB for now and that works
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Using alt for dating does work, but it works better if you have a premium membership with email access. I identify as poly amorous, but that usually works out to being serially monogamous. Establishing trust in this lifestyle is a full time job and once you've put the work in you usually don't have time to play the field. Now do it get some cookies?
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open to dating
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I've met people from alt but only as friends. I've talked with quite a few Mistresses online but a relationship has just not been in the cards. One day I will get that Royal Flush.
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2/17/2020 6:39 pm |
most profiles on here are just scammers
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Cookies...It is Girl Scout selling time of year if you are seeking out those kind of edible cookies. I have someone on another site who refers to cookies as her orgasms. Therefore, which cookies would you enjoy having?
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You are a delicious looking piece of candy......yummy
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You are a delicious looking piece of candy......yummy 
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Thank you so much for your input. Love it!
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You have coffee or milk to go with the cookies? Pretty much all I do is read blogs and every so often strike up a conversation on IM when it's working. I have found a kinky FWB for now and that works
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There are cookies?
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When I first joined here I was single and mostly interested in just finding a FWB. I'm a one-man-woman, even in a FWB type thing, but I didn't make a commitment to the first guy I met. I dated a few guys from here before I met the right one. I didn't know anything about this lifestyle, that's just how dating works in general, right? U can't possibly know if someone is the right fit for u unless u spend the time to get to know them. I have discovered tho that a lot of the guys on here get super possessive super fast! Surprisingly fast. Like, before u have time to breath they seem to expect u belong to them. Even for a submissive like me that's a huge turn off. I think it takes time to develop that trust and chemistry a good relationship needs... and u need to have A LOT trust if ur gonna let a guy come at u w/ a whip and restraints! ;-p
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My 2 cents, for what it's worth... Meeting people through Alt, is no different than meeting someone casually at a bar, or wherever... You chat, develop thoughts and feelings about them and pursue the relationship or, for whatever reason, don't.. It's networking and putting yourself out there in a semi-safe way, hoping for the best...
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I have met a few wonderful people through ALT, albeit with 3 different identities. I am still in contact with most of them. One or two broke my heart, and there have been a lot of c**k teasers and fakes. But clearly I am an optimist as far as ALT is concerned, although it does seem to be getting harder to find play partners. I still get a kick out of looking at profiles pictures and videos, and playing find the fakes, and of course reading your blog, Infinitepoetess!  You are amazing
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Using alt for dating does work, but it works better if you have a premium membership with email access. I identify as poly amorous, but that usually works out to being serially monogamous. Establishing trust in this lifestyle is a full time job and once you've put the work in you usually don't have time to play the field. Now do it get some cookies? Thank you for your comment
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Cookies...It is Girl Scout selling time of year if you are seeking out those kind of edible cookies. I have someone on another site who refers to cookies as her orgasms. Therefore, which cookies would you enjoy having?
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When I first joined here I was single and mostly interested in just finding a FWB. I'm a one-man-woman, even in a FWB type thing, but I didn't make a commitment to the first guy I met. I dated a few guys from here before I met the right one. I didn't know anything about this lifestyle, that's just how dating works in general, right? U can't possibly know if someone is the right fit for u unless u spend the time to get to know them. I have discovered tho that a lot of the guys on here get super possessive super fast! Surprisingly fast. Like, before u have time to breath they seem to expect u belong to them. Even for a submissive like me that's a huge turn off. I think it takes time to develop that trust and chemistry a good relationship needs... and u need to have A LOT trust if ur gonna let a guy come at u w/ a whip and restraints! ;-p There are many red flags to be aware of but that's true in any relationship. And yes, trust and safe, sane, consensual is the way forward for you young lady. Please email me any time and I will help if I can in navigating. I was there one day a long time ago.
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I find it pure rubbish when people have issues in meeting , Its usually them . Dating is dating . Lifestyle or not ,Its not that hard ! Have a personality, do not be a dick , Do not stick your dick in someones face . Be a human being . A profile however elaborate or lacking is not the person in total , There is such a thing as getting to know another . So many jump to the one etc .Its fcking hillarious to me , most of them sit on the sidelines bitching . Dynamic builds ,it is not created by reading a profile . I admittedly have dated lifestyle and have had LTR ,its no ones business actually nor do I care what anyone thinks because in truth most real time folks have . Master Mentor PS ..lighten the fck up and get to know someone . who knows , It could actually be fun for both  remember consensual Don't be a dick, don't stick your dick in someone's face... 
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poetess I met some-one from here years ago and we are still friends but do not date I met another CD from her end it was a disaster! He was as "thick as a brick"! The Brain remains the most powerful sex organ A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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poetess I met some-one from here years ago and we are still friends but do not date I met another CD from her end it was a disaster! He was as "thick as a brick"! The Brain remains the most powerful sex organ I met my last 2 masters here and likely will meet one again, who knows?
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2/19/2020 8:00 am |
Alt obviously works for some but not for others. A lot must depend on the people and also their locations. It seems most I have got to know are at the other end of the country.
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Great comment thank you
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