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infinitepoetess 54F
6329 posts
8/5/2021 6:16 am
Living Is Evolution




Life is a moving, breathing thing. We have to be willing to constantly evolve. Perfection is constant transformation.

Nia Peeples


As I have said on my profile, labels have no place but to pigeonhole people into categories that they are comfortable with. Because of this comfort zone, we Now face gender designations even when they are not designated. We are faced with accepting people for what they claim to be, and yet isn't it the same thing? I personally have no issue with calling you whatever you wish to be called. When I say no judgments, I mean it.

However one of the things that struck me as irritating about Colorado, was the fact that everybody Is walking around on eggshells afraid to upset anyone in any manner. Surely as we have evolved we should have figured out that you cannot please all the people all the time. That's what one would think, but that hasn't happened. Instead, in our polarized environment, we have turned to Uber sensitivity.

Here is a concept... What if we're not allowed to use labels at all?
What if the only thing we can claim is that we were evolving?

This year has taught me a lot of lessons and one of them is that in the grand scheme of things, life moves on no matter what category or label we create for ourselves. I get it that most of the time I have placed Labels upon myself to deter unwanted contact with those who don't have the same goals or desires as I do. It's easier to do that when you're faced with constant contacts from people that you really don't want to know. But, I now recognize that by doing so, I am just feeding the whole problem.

I've been in this lifestyle for over 25 years now. I have evolved into what I am.
Without the limitations of A label I am able to transcend all the old parameters that I placed on myself.
This is what freedom feels like and it feels good.

Song for this post
Everyday People- Sly and the Family Stone



Artschoolgrad 47M
8803 posts
8/5/2021 6:34 am

totally agree!


infinitepoetess replies on 8/5/2021 6:39 pm:
Good to see you here

MujerdeNeggro 49F
1105 posts
8/5/2021 6:52 am

De acuerdo totalmente
Buen día

Y quizás un instante sirva para trazar el camino que me guíe hacia tus ojos.


drmgirl622 68F  
26156 posts
8/5/2021 7:10 am

Such wonderful insights into how we should live our lives. I will admit there is no chance of me getting away from one label I put on myself but I have definitely seen the evolution in other areas.

I love your hair


infinitepoetess replies on 8/5/2021 6:41 pm:
Thank you but it changes like the wind. Its a hairdresser prerogative 😁

Wicked_Tongue 61M
690 posts
8/5/2021 7:45 am

Good to see you posting again...


infinitepoetess replies on 8/5/2021 6:43 pm:
It's good to be back

JohnnyLightning 65M  
9693 posts
8/5/2021 2:54 pm

You look great! I'm not so sure I agree with your concept. I'm not wired to wear handcuffs or get kicked in the jewels. Perhaps my thought process is too rigid.

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.


infinitepoetess replies on 8/5/2021 6:43 pm:
Perhaps it isnt just about dominant and submissive?

designmaster69 58M  
111 posts
8/5/2021 8:19 pm

Looking Great!! Evolving in SC looks good for you


infinitepoetess replies on 8/9/2021 5:35 am:
Thank you


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