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infinitepoetess 54F
6327 posts
9/9/2021 4:08 am
To Munch Or Not Munch



Have you ever wondered where the word Munch came from that signifies a meeting in our communities? I did. So, I did what we all do, I googled it....

The Kirk's Burger Munch attracted a large and often spirited crowd, some of which participated in discreet play. As time went on, the atmosphere became more overtly fetish and BDSM play oriented, and people started bringing in outside food. Ultimately, the management insisted that the group stop meeting there. Many of the original participants organized another social gathering just down the street, though STella requested they not use the name "burger munch". The name was shortened to "munch".The term "Burger Munch" was also used in Boston in 1993.

Munches often take place at a restaurant, bar, or coffee shop, the organizer usually reserving a large table, a back area, or a private room. People are free to arrive and leave within the specified hours. The primary purpose is socializing, although some munches also have announcements or demonstrations from local organizations or individuals. Munches are meant to help those who are curious about BDSM meet others, become more comfortable, and better informed. Munches can also be a place to get advice, or pass on anecdotes about BDSM experiences. Some come with food, and there are now some "Liquid Munches" that are held, usually early enough for conversation to be possible, in bars. "Liquid Munches" are known as Sloshes in many areas.

We decided to call our casual KinkConnect events a social instead of munch. The next event is KinkConnect South Carolina Social, Monday, September 13th at Hurricane Maggie's Upstairs in Myrtle Beach from 7 pm until 10 pm. Tp attend, you must send me a message here.

The reasons we chose Social instead of Munch are as follows:
1. We allow social drinking to happen as this is a social and a casual atmosphere. Excessive drinking will not be tolerated, nor any behavior not suited to a friendly positive atmosphere.
2. Socials are for socializing and not kink play
3. We play games that are ice breakers and involve everyone so people can get to know one another
4. Those new to the lifestyle can stick their toe in rather than their whole foot, without any added pressure from a play party
5. We figured that after a couple years of not socializing and in light of the current pandemic, a more casual affair is a good place for all of us to start.

We are currently discussing play parties and how we will integrate them in the near future. If you have suggestions, you may drop a line here

Song for this post
Master & Servant - Depeche Mode


infinitepoetess 54F
3499 posts
9/9/2021 4:09 am

There's a new game we like to play, you see
A game with added reality
You treat me like a dog, get me down on my knees
We call it 'Master And Servant'
We call it 'Master And Servant'
It's a lot like life, this play between the sheets
With you on top and me underneath
Forget all about equality
Let's play 'Master And Servant'
Let's play 'Master And Servant'
It's a lot like life and that's what's appealing
If you despise that throwaway feeling
From disposable fun
Then this is the one
Domination's the name of the game
In bed or in life, they're both just the same
Except in one you're fulfilled at the end of the day
Let's play 'Master And Servant'
Let's play 'Master And Servant'
Come on, yeah
Come on, yeah
'Master And Servant'
It's a lot (it's a lot)
It's a lot (it's a lot)
It's a lot (it's a lot)
It's a lot (like life)
It's a lot (it's a lot)
It's a lot (it's a lot)
It's a lot (it's a lot)
It's a lot ('Master And Servant'
It's a lot (it's a lot)
It's a lot (it's a lot)
It's a lot (it's a lot)
It's a lot (like life)
It's a lot like life and that's what's appealing (it's a lot like life)
If you despise that throwaway feeling (it's a lot like life)
From disposable fun
Then this is the one
Let's play 'Master And Servant'
Come on, 'Master And Servant'
Let's play 'Master And Servant'
Come on, 'Master And Servant'
Let's play 'Master And Servant'
Come on, 'Master And Servant'
Master, Master, Master
Master, Master, Master
Master, Master, Master
'Master And Servant'


drmgirl622 68F  
26159 posts
9/9/2021 4:14 am

I wish I were a little closer to Myrtle Beach.....I think I'd like attending a munch I knew you were associated with.


drmgirl622 68F  
26159 posts
9/9/2021 4:14 am

Ooops, I meant social


rosaenaluin 65F
11073 posts
9/10/2021 1:40 pm

I hope you have a very great social meeting.

Some 'socials'/ munches, here in Holland, have a item/ theme to discuss in the whole group, every one is free to participate, not an obligation,
or board games, or go eat together, mostly pizza...


MsJacqueline2 73M/74F
81 posts
9/19/2021 1:42 pm

We are new to all this and would love to chat with like minded people. We just started playing at home during the lock down and have yet to find others in the MB area or any means to meet them. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. We are very cautious about safety and security. Just want to meet chat, learn and explore all the taboo possibilies!


infinitepoetess 54F
3499 posts
9/21/2021 3:32 pm

    Quoting MsJacqueline2:
    We are new to all this and would love to chat with like minded people. We just started playing at home during the lock down and have yet to find others in the MB area or any means to meet them. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. We are very cautious about safety and security. Just want to meet chat, learn and explore all the taboo possibilies!
Please look us up on FB. We have a private group there KinkConnect
Or you can find me on FetLife under infinitepoetry



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