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But, do you yell at them? Criticize by being too hard? These are intricacies that many leaders in this lifestyle fail on
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If a Dominant needs to yell, or criticize, he isn't a good dominant. A dominant needs to be even tempered at all times when dealing with a sub/slave. If anger rises, send the sub to a corner until an even temper is reached .  Best comment yet 
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I think dominance is like sitting at a potter's wheel and molding and shaping that clay into a work of art.
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"If you don't have control of yourself, you have no business controlling another human being, who is a living, breathing, feeling, creature" Spot on- the bar for leadership is rarely set high enough. If the notion that there are excuses for loss of self-control or abandonment of appropriate action under any circumstances seems plausible, it’s tantamount to saying that it’s acceptable to put a submissive in psychological or physical peril due to whim or wind. Reflecting a standard that’s any lower is pathological- and the bar you suggest is but the barest basis, de riguer for even contemplating a healthy exchange. The big “I” is a dangerous- even deadly- thing, and so often preens itself to be sold as worthy leadership. Every SRT should be so lucky as to have you as a guest speaker.
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"If you don't have control of yourself, you have no business controlling another human being, who is a living, breathing, feeling, creature" Spot on- the bar for leadership is rarely set high enough. If the notion that there are excuses for loss of self-control or abandonment of appropriate action under any circumstances seems plausible, it’s tantamount to saying that it’s acceptable to put a submissive in psychological or physical peril due to whim or wind. Reflecting a standard that’s any lower is pathological- and the bar you suggest is but the barest basis, de riguer for even contemplating a healthy exchange. The big “I” is a dangerous- even deadly- thing, and so often preens itself to be sold as worthy leadership. Every SRT should be so lucky as to have you as a guest speaker. 
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Dominance and leadership is like having a piece of string. Dominate it in the right direction and it follows nicely, push it too hard and you have a piled up mess. Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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2/11/2023 1:04 pm |
Nice writing, Love it. Yes, and that is why a lot of the men, on here, dont have what it takes, because they all, lack this knowledge, insight...... inner controle/power/leadermanship... If they cant even handle a rejection? Get all hysterical and foul mouthed.....?
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7/12/2023 5:44 am |
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