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infinitepoetess 54F
6328 posts
8/9/2022 2:21 pm
They Must Not Know What Experience Means



Someone recently commented that it must be hard being a little and being mature. Yeah....first off, I'm not a little, but thanks for assuming. It reminds me of a play party I attended, and a Dom proclaimed himself and his role and asked what mine was...Well it depends on who I am responding to. Energy is what I respond to, not labels. It is an instinctual characteristic in most of us.

In any case, there keep being challenges due to my experience level. I knew when my late Master died, that this was likely my last owner. Not because I can't let him go, or because he was so great, nor because I compare....
It is experience which means:
1. If you're bullshitting me, I know it.
2. If you're trying to minimize your insecurity and turn it around on me, I am calling you out on it.
3. If you are criticizing me and it is your bag to hold, I am reminding you.
4. If you think you have a golden cock and I am going to take anything to be with it, yeah don't flatter yourself. Yours isn't the only one that I have seen or felt.

The typical is the response that I am just a sub that wants to top from the bottom. Nope, I am a sub that knows my worth.
See, until I submit to you, I don't have to do diddly. You do not deserve any more respect than I do. I've seen behind the curtain of the puppet show, so instead of trying the same old lines....Realize that I know how you pull the strings. It makes you rise to the occasion and that isn't easy for most insecure men.

The one I love is: You just arent ready for someone else in your life and compare them to your late husband.
Um, here's a clue dingbat, he is dead. You can't compete with someone who isn't alive. That comment reeks of insecurity.

And here we are full circle...
Do you have control of yourself, or just winging it? Because otherwise you have no business trying to control me.

Song for this post
Irreplaceable - Beyonce



infinitepoetess 54F
3499 posts
8/9/2022 2:22 pm

To the left, to the left
To the left, to the left
To the left, to the left
Everything you own in the box to the left
In the closet that's my stuff, yes
If I bought it please don't touch
And keep talking that mess, that's fine
But could you walk and talk at the same time?
And it's my mine name that is on that tag
So remove your bags let me call you a cab
Standing in the front yard telling me
How I'm such a fool, talking about
How I'll never ever find a man like you
You got me twisted
You must not know 'bout me
You must not know 'bout me
I could have another you in a minute
Matter fact he'll be here in a minute, baby
You must not know 'bout me
You must not know 'bout me
I can have another you by tomorrow
So don't you ever for a second get
To thinking you're irreplaceable
So go ahead and get gone
Call up that chick and see if she's home
Oops, I bet ya thought that I didn't know
What did you think I was putting you out for?
Because you was untrue
Rolling her around in the car that I bought you
Baby you dropped them keys
Hurry up before your taxi leaves
Standing in the front yard telling me
How I'm such a fool, talking 'bout
How I'll never ever find a man like you
Got me twisted
You must not know 'bout me
You must not know 'bout me
I can have another you in a minute
Matter fact he'll be here in a minute, baby
You must not know 'bout me
You must not know 'bout me
I'll have another you by tomorrow
So don't you ever for a second
Get to thinking you're irreplaceable
So since I'm not your everything
How about I'll be nothing, nothing at all to you
Baby I won't shed a tear for you
I won't lose a wink of sleep
'Cause the truth of the matter
Is replacing you is so easy
To the left, to the left
To the left, to the left
To the left, to the left
Everything you own in the box to the left
To the left, to the left
Don't you ever for a second get
To thinking you're irreplaceable
You must not know 'bout me
You must not know 'bout me
I can have another you in a minute
Matter fact he'll be here in a minute, baby
You must not know 'bout me
You must not know 'bout me
I can have another you by tomorrow
So don't you ever for a second
Get to thinking, baby
You must not know 'bout me
You must not know 'bout me
I can have another you in a minute
Matter fact he'll be here in a minute
You could pack all your things, we're finished
(You must not know 'bout me)
'Cause you made your bed, now lay in it
(You must not know 'bout me)
I can have another you by tomorrow
Don't you ever for a second
Get to thinking you're irreplaceable


drmgirl622 68F  
26164 posts
8/9/2022 2:34 pm

The perfect song for this blog!


ridermantel 68M

8/9/2022 2:43 pm


rondiri 65M
11196 posts
8/9/2022 2:59 pm

Well said. Too many "doms" think they are god's gift to submissives, and they really don't even know what they are doing in the first place. Unfortunately, there are more of them, than there are Dominants that actually know what this is all about. The scary part is, unlike you, who know the difference, many submissives just fall for the BS they get handed.


bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4215 posts
8/9/2022 3:40 pm

keep it real & them accountable...how l roll too!


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7021 posts
8/9/2022 3:49 pm

Assumption, as they say in the military, is the mother of all fuck-ups. \


OlderMaster2018 73M
301 posts
8/9/2022 3:51 pm

Oh so very true. . . . every word of it. . .completely true !


joseph19563 68M
198 posts
8/9/2022 5:26 pm

They need to earn the submission, not just demand it.


infinitepoetess 54F
3499 posts
8/9/2022 5:37 pm

    Quoting drmgirl622:
    The perfect song for this blog!
Why thank you sweet cheeks


infinitepoetess 54F
3499 posts
8/9/2022 5:39 pm


infinitepoetess 54F
3499 posts
8/9/2022 5:40 pm

    Quoting rondiri:
    Well said. Too many "doms" think they are god's gift to submissives, and they really don't even know what they are doing in the first place. Unfortunately, there are more of them, than there are Dominants that actually know what this is all about. The scary part is, unlike you, who know the difference, many submissives just fall for the BS they get handed.


infinitepoetess 54F
3499 posts
8/9/2022 5:41 pm

    Quoting bdsmDOMdaddy:
    keep it real & them accountable...how l roll too!
Yeah ^5


infinitepoetess 54F
3499 posts
8/9/2022 5:42 pm

    Quoting Dreamcatcher__:
    Assumption, as they say in the military, is the mother of all fuck-ups. \
And makes an ass out of you and me


infinitepoetess 54F
3499 posts
8/9/2022 5:42 pm

    Quoting OlderMaster2018:
    Oh so very true. . . . every word of it. . .completely true !
Thank you


infinitepoetess 54F
3499 posts
8/9/2022 5:43 pm

    Quoting joseph19563:
    They need to earn the submission, not just demand it.
Right?


Cloaked_n_Hooded 117F
1 post
8/9/2022 6:06 pm

drama queen and how many years old is your picture?


JohnnyLightning 65M  
9699 posts
8/10/2022 5:52 am

Unfortunately, there are many "wanna be-never be," angry men that called themselves Doms. Watching Fifty Shades of Garbage does not make a a man a Dom.

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.


ridermantel 68M

8/10/2022 7:25 am

A wise man once said


lovingcaring44 64F

8/10/2022 1:08 pm

Especially this sentence;

The typical is the response that I am just a sub that wants to top from the bottom. Nope, I am a sub that knows my worth.

How many time such a "d" told me this, because i did not want to play his little sexy ego games?
I lost count of it!
Great writing!


infinitepoetess 54F
3499 posts
8/11/2022 2:37 pm

    Quoting lovingcaring44:
    Especially this sentence;

    The typical is the response that I am just a sub that wants to top from the bottom. Nope, I am a sub that knows my worth.

    How many time such a "d" told me this, because i did not want to play his little sexy ego games?
    I lost count of it!
    Great writing!
Thank you for supporting my writing


SterlingCross71 53M
1 post
8/19/2022 5:16 am

All valid ways to view the comments. I would personally suggest thanking them for the self weeding. It's hard enough to find people that inspire, without wasting time on people that are shallow. The more troublesome types know enough to be convincing, but lack the character to be honest about the motives that drive them. Best of luck in all things.



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