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aliljaded 53F
8947 posts
9/19/2023 6:42 am

Nikki,

Please accept my condolences for your loss. It's difficult to lose a father, but remember that he will always hold a special place in your heart. Take comfort in knowing that he is no longer suffering. You will be in my thoughts during this difficult time.

XX,

M

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


Gowron 69M
3112 posts
9/19/2023 6:54 am

Fear no more the heat o' the sun

William Shakespeare

Fear no more the heat o’ the sun,
Nor the furious winter’s rages;
Thou thy worldly task hast done,
Home art gone, and ta’en thy wages:
Golden lads and girls all must,
As chimney-sweepers, come to dust.

Fear no more the frown o’ the great;
Thou art past the tyrant’s stroke;
Care no more to clothe and eat;
To thee the reed is as the oak:
The scepter, learning, physic, must
All follow this, and come to dust.

Fear no more the lightning flash,
Nor the all-dreaded thunder stone;
Fear not slander, censure rash;
Thou hast finished joy and moan:
All lovers young, all lovers must
Consign to thee, and come to dust.

No exorciser harm thee!
Nor no witchcraft charm thee!
Ghost unlaid forbear thee!
Nothing ill come near thee!
Quiet consummation have;
And renownèd be thy grave!

From Cymbeline, Act IV, Sc 2


Inyourdreamz1 62M  
2 posts
9/19/2023 7:02 am

I am sorry for your loss Nikki. Your Father's love will live in your heart forever. I wish you much comfort in this sad time.
R


Plzrmeister 67M  
10479 posts
9/19/2023 7:05 am

I have tears in my eyes after reading this. Please accept my deepest sympathies on the loss of your father.

I too have a huge lump in my throat and eyed welled up with tears. My sincere condolences on your loss.

Make Women Female Again


BlkBdsmMstr1 71M  
188 posts
9/19/2023 7:17 am

Nikki:

My condolences to you for the passing of your Dad. Your Dad's love for you shows trough in what you have written and in being around you. Take comfort in that your Dad gave you memories that you will always have with you.

Peace,
V


casio26 63M
2563 posts
9/19/2023 8:05 am

I was the last person my father acnolaged.
Your story brings heavy tears in my eyes.
Sorry for your loss.


rondiri 65M
11185 posts
9/19/2023 8:23 am

My condolences.


BillywildMartin 73M

9/19/2023 8:40 am

Condolences to you and your family for the passing of you Dad. There are NO words that can assuage the anguish of your bereavement, the loss of loved ones are just that way.
Lst my Dad a few years back, it was in November, and he was suffering the same way, his heart was failing, and couldn't pump the blood through his lungs fast enough for it to be oxygenated, causing fluid to build up in his lungs. The Hospital got him stabilized and we took him home, but they had told us the end was near, and he fought like HELL for several days, before finally expiring, surrounded by us all. He hadn't suffered, we were administering morphine to ease the pain, and over those several days he was alert and talkative, and the highs and lows of my life with him all came flooding back. But through it all, he was ready to meet his Maker, and be re-united with Mom! He was MY hero...
The fond memories are ALWAYS here for me to draw upon now, and although I miss him every day, the pain is still fresh now and then, especially when I read stories like yours, and I understand the grief you're going through, he'll live in you heart and memories for the rest of your life, "Poetess"...


Sirmakesuhot 60M
148 posts
9/19/2023 8:40 am

Very sorry for your loss


oralpleaser4all 63M

9/19/2023 8:51 am

Soo sorry


RobertBishop 66M  
2149 posts
9/19/2023 8:52 am

Condolences to you and your family.
I lost my father in 1985 and not a day goes by that I don't miss him.
Hopefully, your father, husband and the other dear departed will appear in your dreams and that you find that comforting.


ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
9/19/2023 9:15 am

Your words, your love, the way you communicated and felt each other... made me cry... I am so sorry for your loss...


roper2003 63M
511 posts
9/19/2023 9:43 am

Many of us have been through similar life transitions. It is so awesome, and rare, for you to had had the opportunity for a final spiritual bonding. You spirit and his will be together forever.


wildatheartnw01 59M  
6 posts
9/19/2023 9:51 am

What a moving tribute, so sorry for your loss


jenny14 75  
90364 posts
9/19/2023 10:02 am

poetess

I too am sending my Condolences!

A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


drmgirl622 68F  
26134 posts
9/19/2023 10:34 am

I couldn't help crying when I read this. The words so heartfelt and my past experience passing before my eyes. Your Dad loved you......of that, there is no doubt.


chameleon63 61M
203 posts
9/19/2023 10:47 am

My condolences for your loss.
There is no more pivotal figure in a girls life than her father. In spite of his humanity, he sets the mark against which all others will be measured.
You are his legacy.


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7021 posts
9/19/2023 11:57 am

It's something we all have to face. Sorry it was so rough for you and your dad.


MsJacqueline2 73M/74F
81 posts
9/19/2023 12:04 pm

Sorry for your loss . Sounds like you had a wonderful and special relationship. That's not the usual case these days. You are blessed for having such a close personal tie. After the initial morning you will have such meaningful memories that will drown out any of the bad and sad times at the end. Know you were loved and treasured as he was by you.


rosaenaluin 65F
11049 posts
9/19/2023 1:23 pm

I am very sorry for your loss.
I hope the memories will give you strength to carry on, even when it hurts soo bad.


subdude2Bsubdued 76M
350 posts
9/19/2023 1:24 pm

I'm truly sorry for your loss, IP. Your beautiful and loving words of tribute and praise and fond remembrance for your father on this sad occasion of his passing, quite moved me to tears. I have never been so touched to the heart as I was by your eulogy., which so clearly came from YOUR heart. You were so lucky to have been able to give leave, so lovingly and sympathetically, to your father to set sail finally and depart in peace. He clearly seemed to need and to be waiting for your final words of blessing, love, farewell, and of your resigned and understanding approva,l for his imminent leavetaking, Chin up, girl, for having handled things so well, under the circumstances.


Tckg12 69M
2519 posts
9/19/2023 2:18 pm

i am so sorry for your loss. i lost my parents and I was with my mother when she passed. although I was there your story and your dad waiting for you was like my mom waiting for me. Hang in there you wer e very stri=ong and gave him the help he needed God bless you


RavenousRaven777 56M
380 posts
9/19/2023 5:38 pm

He passed with your voice in his ear, and I’m sure that meant everything, and closed the circle for him. 🕊️


Solidman4U 77M  
40 posts
9/19/2023 7:38 pm

Condolences, it is never easy. Knowing that his time was short still does not little to prepare you. You did remind him of the good times, try to remember those, focus on these, it will bring some Solis to you and hopefully ease some of the pain.


boh99 68M
3154 posts
9/19/2023 9:29 pm

so sorry for your loss



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