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How is it Being in the Beautiful People Club?  "Beauty is how you feel on the inside. It reflects in your eyes. It is not something physical" Sophia Loren Being beautiful isn't a bowl of ripe juicy peaches with whipped cream on top. It is probably difficult to grasp that having advantages would be difficult. It's likely to be double difficult to imagine not appreciating the perks of being attractive - Or, denying it to the point of despising one's own looks and feeling as if the burden society heaps is unbearable. From Disney on up, we are indoctrinated that to be beutiful is to be successful and loved. However, most attractive people do not necessarily feel they are and might even dismiss any compliments given to them. If you are beautiful, you will: 1. Never have many friends, nor be able to gauge if they are loyal, true, and reliable. 2. Never be able to have a harmonious work place without drama, jealousy, and power struggle 3. Always be pressured to the point of discomfort by men/women who want to have relationships/sex with you. 4. Always have to prove your trustworthiness of girlfriends who have men and avoid their improper advances 6. Be the target of people trying to hook up with you with no commitment to a relationship. 8. Cause your love interests to be insecure in your shadow in public, with no intention to do so. 9. Get positions in companies that others can't get and make more, but you will likely lose those jobs because of jealousy and deceit from those around you 10, Cause others to automatically assume your intelligence will be less Statistically the beautiful people will make 4% - 8% more in their careers and be hired first, But, they will also be 10 times more likely to be treated poorly. They will experience more harassment and stalking by interested people who will turn on them like a snake in the grass, unexpected and too much to handle. Beautiful ones will also suffer a great loss mentally when they start to show age. It is so much harder to know privilege and have it stripped away, than to never know privilege at all. " You see, anyone can see a pretty girl, but its takes special people to see an old lady, and to be able to see the pretty woman she must have been. " Anonymous Its time we start giving merit to those who are beautiful inside rather than outside. This would solve both sides of the equation's challenges, Song for this post Beautiful People -Ed Sheeran & Khalid |
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We are, we are, we are L.A. on a Saturday night in the summer Sundown and they all come out Lamborginis and their rented Hummers The party's on, so they're headin' downtown Everybody's lookin' for a come up And they wanna know what you're about Me in the middle with the one I'm lovin' We're just tryna figure everything out We don't fit in well 'Cause we are just ourselves I could use some help Gettin' out of this conversation, yeah You look stunning, dear So don't ask that question here This is my only fear, that we become (hey) Beautiful people Drop top, designer clothes Front row at fashion shows "What d'you do?" and "Who d'you know?" Inside the world of beautiful people Champagne and rolled-up notes Prenups and broken homes Surrounded, but still alone Let's leave the party That's not who we are (We are, we are, we are) We are not beautiful Yeah, that's not who we are (We are, we are, we are) We are not beautiful (beautiful) L.A. (mmm) drove for hours last night And we made it nowhere (nowhere, nowhere) I see stars in your eyes When we're halfway there (all night) I'm not fazed by all them lights And flashin' cameras 'Cause with my arms around you There's no need to care We don't fit in well We are just ourselves I could use some help Gettin' out of this conversation, yeah You look stunning, dear (ah) So don't ask that question here This is my only fear That we become (hey) Beautiful people Drop top, designer clothes Front row at fashion shows "What d'you do?" and "Who d'you know?" Inside the world of beautiful people Champagne and rolled-up notes Prenups and broken homes Surrounded, but still alone Let's leave the party That's not who we are (We are, we are, we are) We are not beautiful, yeah Yeah, that's not who we are We are not beautiful (beautiful) We are, we are, we are We are not beautiful
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I had a friend who's daughter was a contestant in miss this and that, and the first time I saw her while she was just out of college, I thought, I've never seen anyone that beautiful. It was like there was an electric light shining just on her. Super nice kid, but it's membership in a different world. I think guys will put up with alot more from a beauty, just to be near them, but ultimately it's the inner beauty we see and embrace.
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reminds me, if one married a really good actor - how would you ever believe them if they said they loved you, or cried...
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well i think you're so right. beauty starts inside! more people need to appreciate that
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Beauty is an inside job however most short fugly people probably do not reap the rewards of being tall, handsome and dominant. Just saying... Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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lol well l never have experienced that!
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10/23/2023 6:33 am |
I don't think I've ever been accused of being "beautiful", so I'll have to take the word of those with more experience. I think it is common to lament our own struggles and romanticize those with whom we have less in common. The reality is though our struggles all may be different, we all have struggles. The challenge is in not assuming because our pain is so visceral, it is the only valid pain. I suppose the same goes for happiness. Thank you for the thoughts this morning.
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Members only? That's okay. 
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Yeah, I'm not in the beautiful people club......not on the outside, that is 
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10/23/2023 8:50 am |
“Thank you for the lovely tune, that funky music will drive us till the dawn. Let's go, let's bugaloo till we puke!”
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Beauty is only skin deep, my slut may not be much to look at, but she has a very beautiful soul. I think I will keep her. Lol
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I had a friend who's daughter was a contestant in miss this and that, and the first time I saw her while she was just out of college, I thought, I've never seen anyone that beautiful. It was like there was an electric light shining just on her. Super nice kid, but it's membership in a different world. I think guys will put up with alot more from a beauty, just to be near them, but ultimately it's the inner beauty we see and embrace.
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reminds me, if one married a really good actor - how would you ever believe them if they said they loved you, or cried...
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well i think you're so right. beauty starts inside! more people need to appreciate that
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Beauty is an inside job however most short fugly people probably do not reap the rewards of being tall, handsome and dominant. Just saying...
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lol well l never have experienced that!
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I don't think I've ever been accused of being "beautiful", so I'll have to take the word of those with more experience. I think it is common to lament our own struggles and romanticize those with whom we have less in common. The reality is though our struggles all may be different, we all have struggles. The challenge is in not assuming because our pain is so visceral, it is the only valid pain. I suppose the same goes for happiness. Thank you for the thoughts this morning. It is always good to see you here
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Members only? That's okay.
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Possibly so....but then perhaps your insecurities would not alow you to believe you were viable to be loved by one so pretty?
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FYI Of all the male CEOs in the world, 56% are 6 foot tall Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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10/24/2023 10:01 am |
We aways want what we do not have. Being in the beauty industry taught me that. No one goes without struggles, however we tend to think those who seem to have it all have no merit in being unhappy. It is always good to see you here
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10/26/2023 7:28 am |
Factually, the majority of men find it uncomfortable to be in a relationship with them as their insecurity will shine. They are fearful that she will not love them one day and leave. Sure they give in more s any man will do for a trophy on their arm, but they resent that as well I think people are aware of "fears", real or perceived, and act accordingly based on their abilities to overcome those fears. If someone thinks that they're "not good enough" to be with someone, then that 'FEAR" keeps them from even trying, even when that "SOMEONE" might extend an olive branch of friendship because they see something they LIKE in the person with the "FEAR", opportunity lost because of "FEAR". This subject has been discussed on here under different titles before, and ALL with similar responses and opinions. But, it boils down to each individual's abilities to face their fears and act accordingly, and if you get turned down, or ignored, walk away with dignity and your pride that the one that turned you down or ignored you was just not "your type", and continue on with your head held high. In MY life and in MY opinion, their LOSS, not mine...and I'm not, nor have I ever considered myself "God's gift to women", but hey, I've done alright in my lifetime.
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It’s a useful weapon and a mind fuck for most all at once- really a simple matter of symmetry and wiring. One of the fortunate things about my orientation is that throughout my life one of the most common and well-earned male stereotypes hasn’t applied- external beauty may at most buy the first moments of attention but it’s easily dispelled in seconds and attractiveness that endures beyond that is a far, far rarer thing that’s only emergent through the smallest details with little reference to what ripples at the surface. … also a handy thing whether running a sales team or juggling Kunoichi- best not to be subject to the thrall of the very spells you build teams (in part, at least) to weave. I knew someone who headed corporate sales at a Fortune 100 company before joining my team- she shared that her #1 qualification for hiring sales team members while with her former employer was “looks”. … ever the clownfish to the anemone of unresonant beauty.
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drmgrL, Your smile says otherwise!
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