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todays special email I received Lady expressed interest. she wants a long term relationship with a submissive man. she would be happy to make sure i am trained properly to become obedient to her in all things. She is however inexperienced and would be happy for another adominant woman to train me her.. response was. Thank you so much your interest. I do not believe we are a match. It is true i have strong submissive tendencies, training in view does not happen that way. I look a woman that not only understands me but understands herself. A woman should in opinion be capable of training her boy. although inexperience ishould not be an obstacle to train your own sub man is. We are not that one can send to obedience school. A submissive man understands he needs training and needs one lady he deems special to train him. A sub man needs the structure that a dominant woman provides as a dominant woman needs a man that will cater to her. A man cedes authority of the relationship to her and trust her judgement. Yes being trained to her needs, obedience to her and her authority to discipline or punish as she sees fit. this is his gift to her and she being the woman he needs is hers to him. While bdsm is a focus many a true D/s F/m is focus. A real 24/7 TPE makes the cement that holds a relationship together. I think there are other men open to your proposal, it is not me. Good luck in you search and thank you your interest |
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Jeah, i never understood that whole 'training' thing. What am i? A dog? And, how can someone else "train" you, or me? when that person does not have a mental emotional connection with me, you? Or does not know what the other person wants....? To me, that is totall fantasy talk. But, to each their own. You reaction was really very polite.
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agree 100%
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I doubt I would hav ebeen as polite! Outsourcing the training? Surely the point is to be trained to the domme's requirements and finding your connection along the way. Maybe I'm just old-fashioned!
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2/22/2020 1:12 pm |
Just when I thought nothing surprises me. I read this.
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2/22/2020 2:27 pm |
Actually, it sounds like she should pay a Domme to train her and then she can train you. Pretty simple. Besides, it might be good for her to be on the receiving end for a little bit before she starts taking subs. You might want to recommend that to her next time.
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2/22/2020 5:24 pm |
shouldn't there be a mental connection between a Domme and sub?didnt sound like she wants to create one.if one is in place ,then the kink is much better.hope she knows this.best f luck to you.
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That was a very good response. Good on you for standing your ground and watching out for your own interest, and not falling for crap just to get your kink needs met.  Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short  
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