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SociallyTwisted 57M
179 posts
1/25/2021 3:00 am
over the years...


a LOT has changed over the years in alt.com... I've had 3 accounts on this site over a period of 16 years. I even met My wife on alt.com.
I think the most disappointing change has been an ever decreasing sense of 'community' regional chat rooms have died; there used to be a time when regional chat rooms had anywhere from a few people in the early mornings to over 100 people during 'prime time'. now, every time I look.. it's '0'.
I blame the incorporation of 'Adult Friend Finder's' niche dating sites into a single data base.. I get emails from gals on one of many of there other dating sites here on alt, and this is also why there are so many 'vanilla' profiles and 'activities' on the home page.
I also NEVER received 'non filtered' search results or got mails from people I had filtered out.. now I get mails from Dommes all the time and I'm clearly not a submissive. I used to find that amusing.. now it's just irritating.
Alt used to be the premier D/s dating site... it's flatlined and become a generalized spam and scam site no different that many others.. I'll keep the faith simply because I've gained some real friends here who I value and esteem highly but I do hope that alt.com makes an effort in 2021 to return to what made them 'THE' bdsm site instead of a haven for scammers and 'anything goes' vanilla pervs.

Be well and take good care

MSV2U 61F  
83 posts
1/25/2021 6:54 pm

Well said!
I totally agree! ALT has changed to a scam and fuck site with newbies who have no idea the true value and meaning of BDSM!


Gowron 69M
3118 posts
1/26/2021 3:08 am

Alt used to be unique. Nowadays, there's no lack of options.
Not to speak of dating apps.


girl2019 54F
16 posts
2/14/2021 8:09 pm

So true and so well said! But the few true friends and acquaintances that have value make me hold out hope that things may recover.



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