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Or... some are wanting your email or phone number within the first 10 minutes of chat. SERIOUS RED Flag. If you can't start and keep a simple conversation on here without the need to move to another site, highly doubt the person you are chatting with is real. If they get upset because you will not give this info, they are just wasting your time.
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Or... some are wanting your email or phone number within the first 10 minutes of chat. SERIOUS RED Flag. If you can't start and keep a simple conversation on here without the need to move to another site, highly doubt the person you are chatting with is real. If they get upset because you will not give this info, they are just wasting your time.
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I understand your point and actually agree with most of it. However, I often move quickly offsite because, for standard members at least, Alt is not always reliable to chat on. Unless I get a message from a gold member that I can respond to, standards can’t really communicate in Alt. Even on IM, I have to use points. So, if I connect with someone today and chat and then see them later that week. I may not be able to say anything to them again because I don’t have enough points. Even if they reach out to me first. So I can understand why some folks want to get an offline contact at times.
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I understand your point and actually agree with most of it. However, I often move quickly offsite because, for standard members at least, Alt is not always reliable to chat on. Unless I get a message from a gold member that I can respond to, standards can’t really communicate in Alt. Even on IM, I have to use points. So, if I connect with someone today and chat and then see them later that week. I may not be able to say anything to them again because I don’t have enough points. Even if they reach out to me first. So I can understand why some folks want to get an offline contact at times.
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scammers are paying for Gold. Or begging someone to upgrade them to Gold.So can't even trust them/us folk! LOL
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scammers are paying for Gold. Or begging someone to upgrade them to Gold.So can't even trust them/us folk! LOL
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I’ve only found a couple of females on here that were legit. I don’t get nearly as many scammers now since I added that “I don’t give money away ever” on my profile. Also I tell them to reach out to me on my blog. If someone emails me, likes or flirts with me and doesn’t leave anything on my blog they are either a scammer or too stupid to read. Neither are good in my opinion. So I don’t bother with them.
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I’ve only found a couple of females on here that were legit. I don’t get nearly as many scammers now since I added that “I don’t give money away ever” on my profile. Also I tell them to reach out to me on my blog. If someone emails me, likes or flirts with me and doesn’t leave anything on my blog they are either a scammer or too stupid to read. Neither are good in my opinion. So I don’t bother with them.
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I appreciate your post twisted... And I received a message like that yesterday... Probably will blog about it to... And I agree with many of the fake pics... Since mine was taken off my blog, I am bit more cautious these days what pics of mine I post.. .. ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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I appreciate your post twisted... And I received a message like that yesterday... Probably will blog about it to... And I agree with many of the fake pics... Since mine was taken off my blog, I am bit more cautious these days what pics of mine I post.. ..
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I’ll throw in My 2 cents, if I connect with someone who I think is real and have interest I do like to talk within a few emails...the move on to video chat. It weeds out the posers, wankers and wannabes quickly! However, I do get it Twisted because I do believe the majority of women here aren’t women at all!
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Exactly. I don’t mind a few emails but it’s so cumbersome compared to talking with someone through cam or mic. These days ever computer has a cam and built in mic so really no excuse.
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