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SociallyTwisted 57M
180 posts
5/16/2021 7:18 am
Think I'm done with Alt.com

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OkCntryDom2 69M  
14 posts
5/16/2021 7:36 am

If they have 3 digits after their name, another fake!


SociallyTwisted 57M
244 posts
5/16/2021 7:47 am

    Quoting OkCntryDom2:
    If they have 3 digits after their name, another fake!
hacks your account and changes your user name to 'OkCntryGerbils420'


OkCntryDom2 69M  
14 posts
5/16/2021 7:50 am

LMAO


pac369 64F  
12700 posts
5/16/2021 7:58 am

I totally understand twisted... Alt is beyond frustrating these days.. Thanks for the new website address... I am certainly going to check it out..

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


SociallyTwisted 57M
244 posts
5/16/2021 8:01 am

    Quoting pac369:
    I totally understand twisted... Alt is beyond frustrating these days.. Thanks for the new website address... I am certainly going to check it out..
navigation @ Fetster is.. hard to get used to but it's doable


subjim63 60M
415 posts
5/16/2021 8:06 am

AMEN Brother.. if they hadn't made me moderator for a couple of my groups I would have left this scammer land long ago.


FL_Firmhand 64M

5/16/2021 8:10 am

I am like you been in and out of here for years and every time it gets worse. I forgot about fetster it has been years since I was there. Thanks for the reminder. I use fetlife for local stuff like meets and events, Best of luck in your journey


SociallyTwisted 57M
244 posts
5/16/2021 8:12 am

    Quoting subjim63:
    AMEN Brother.. if they hadn't made me moderator for a couple of my groups I would have left this scammer land long ago.
Alt needs to fizzle out or return to what made them so popular


SociallyTwisted 57M
244 posts
5/16/2021 8:14 am

    Quoting FL_Firmhand:
    I am like you been in and out of here for years and every time it gets worse. I forgot about fetster it has been years since I was there. Thanks for the reminder. I use fetlife for local stuff like meets and events, Best of luck in your journey
I use fetlife here and there as well, unfortunately I'm in the high desert of Arizona.. there's nothing particularly local.. closest is an hour and 45 minutes, and thats a munch. Thanks for the best wishes


tastetester61 62M
1781 posts
5/16/2021 8:47 am

The location usually starts with an a or b, because they look up a list of town names and couldn't be bothered going far down the list. You'd be surprised at how many super models live in Blackall, Queensland, Australia. It's a desert mining town in the middle of bumfuck.


Ribiy4 74M/69F

5/16/2021 9:04 am

It’s a very poor site, I’ve friends on here but cannot reply to their messages unless you use up your points.
A few years ago IM was OK...but now it’s does not work, again you have to pay to reply....


IsoOnlineSub7 65M/56F
1547 posts
5/16/2021 9:04 am

Just FYI, I have been on fetster for a few years now. While they have a zero fakes policy, there are still MANY frauds and scammers on that site. They come and go a lot but they are still there. Somedays, it seems the majority of "members" are frauds, fakes, and/or scammers. No place, on the internet, is free of them.


SeeksSquirts 41M

5/16/2021 9:06 am

It was fun for a while. Feeling old talking about the good old days


Wicked_Tongue 61M
690 posts
5/16/2021 9:58 am

Thanks for the fetster tip twisted... the only thing keeping me here on alt is the lack of a decent alternative!


BoundCDSub4daddy 62T

5/16/2021 10:17 am

Isn't this suppose to be a site where members actually meet each other? I have been a member both a paying and non-paying member. I have had a lot of observers, but never met anyone. What a joke!


robj1956 68M
1679 posts
5/16/2021 11:18 am

Thanks for the tip regarding a site where I may actually be able to send and receive messages, that would be something completely different from here


RoughDom2015 43M
114 posts
5/16/2021 4:20 pm

This site was great about 10-15 years ago; limited profile views and messaging was free. Totally agree with the fake/scam/fake pics and profile shit


Kat4227 60F

5/16/2021 4:43 pm

I'm on Fetster also, and there's a lot of fakes, and hucksters on there too. I've been spending more time on Fetlife now a days. I always had better luck meeting real people, not just hookups, on there than here anyway.


likesmatures 55M
4838 posts
5/17/2021 5:08 am

Ive been on alt for like 20 yrs...they made slight changes..but yeah it has always been a shitshow.

I often ponderd if i should start a competing website...alt seems like something run out of a 3rd world backalley laundromat


SociallyTwisted 57M
244 posts
5/17/2021 6:08 am

    Quoting IsoOnlineSub7:
    Just FYI, I have been on fetster for a few years now. While they have a zero fakes policy, there are still MANY frauds and scammers on that site. They come and go a lot but they are still there. Somedays, it seems the majority of "members" are frauds, fakes, and/or scammers. No place, on the internet, is free of them.
as far as I can tell.. the 'fakes' I have encountered are brand new to the site and are deleted accounts shortly after, as for 'abundant'.. I've had a profile there ('Agony' is the user name there) since 2018 and only received a half dozen or so obvious fakes and they all made first contact.. I hit the 'flag' button on their profiles and they were deleted accounts shortly after


SociallyTwisted 57M
244 posts
5/17/2021 6:13 am

    Quoting  :

just open their profile and hit the flag button follosed by the block button.. they'll get their account deleted shortly after pending a brief investigation


SociallyTwisted 57M
244 posts
5/17/2021 7:27 am

    Quoting  :

and you're correct, there are no perfect dating sites, bur fetster at least cares, alt.com certainly doesn't and has no measures nor intentions to do anything about fakes or to make your personal experience on the site more fulfilling... not even any lip service to that effect. THEY DON'T CARE, about you or any other member. Fetster does.. and yes.. you have to put in a bit of effort to keep fetster fake free BUT.. no amount of effort here on Alt will ever make a difference.. surely you can endure two button clicks once in a while to effect change, change that isnt even available here.. reporting people here does NOTHING 100% of then time


MSV2U 61F
83 posts
5/18/2021 10:37 pm

Thanks Twisted, I’m going to check out fester...
Even Me a rare real Woman can’t find anyone serious or a real Submissive.
ALT has turned into a scamming or hook up site.
Most here that are real don’t get the real meaning of BDSM.
I do meet more real people on fetlife and it’s free if you can live without the videos.


SociallyTwisted 57M
244 posts
5/19/2021 6:29 am

    Quoting MSV2U:
    Thanks Twisted, I’m going to check out fester...
    Even Me a rare real Woman can’t find anyone serious or a real Submissive.
    ALT has turned into a scamming or hook up site.
    Most here that are real don’t get the real meaning of BDSM.
    I do meet more real people on fetlife and it’s free if you can live without the videos.
Oh I'm on Fetlife too.. just never meet anyone there cept fat old dudes who still think they look great in mankinis and their neanderthal wives named 'olga' looking for teenage girls lol


mouth5101 73M
38 posts
5/28/2021 7:11 am

Many of these sites are now owned and operated by foreign corporations. They bought into this business over 10 years ago and often own several of these sites.



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