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SociallyTwisted 57M
179 posts
9/12/2021 9:11 am
Tips for new Dominants (that they didn't ask for lol)

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SociallyTwisted 57M
244 posts
9/12/2021 9:11 am

comments?


softrayne 56F
3088 posts
9/12/2021 9:46 am

I think Alt should make this blog their homepage. I think a far more experienced submissive than I should write a comparable piece about the right side of the slash.

Superlative, as always.


SociallyTwisted 57M
244 posts
9/12/2021 9:48 am

    Quoting softrayne:
    I think Alt should make this blog their homepage. I think a far more experienced submissive than I should write a comparable piece about the right side of the slash.

    Superlative, as always.
TY.. I put a lot of thought into it... assuming n00b Doms might actually want to read something like this.. had some help from a sub from another site(s) to make sure it was reasonably objective


Greybrow 64M
625 posts
9/12/2021 10:19 am

As a bdsm neophyte your points seem to make a lot of sense. While I'm new here so much of what you say could easily be applied in other life situations.
Thanks for putting the blog together


SociallyTwisted 57M
244 posts
9/12/2021 10:25 am

    Quoting Greybrow:
    As a bdsm neophyte your points seem to make a lot of sense. While I'm new here so much of what you say could easily be applied in other life situations.
    Thanks for putting the blog together
Thx.. I tried to keep My own tastes appetites and proclivities out of it... wanted it to be useful across genders, sexual preferences/identities.. but I'm happy for your input.. I was concerned that newish Doms wouldn't even give a shit lol


brandygirasol 55T
9432 posts
9/12/2021 11:23 am

Honey you put a lot of effort into this well thought out dissertation giving much to obsorb ... In my experience as a total bottom a TOP and dominance goes hand in hand- including BDSM type DOMs .... All DOMs are different and I've been taught to always be submissive even when kissing for example= I may get penetrated with a DOMs tongue in my mouth however I'm not allowed to penetrate the DOMs mouth with my tongue. Also I am a transvestite- meaning I can only have sex as a female- one of the differences between me and crossdressers who have hard dicks is that I'm the limp wristed sissy type tranny who might as well not have any male genetalia which I always cover up wearing a small thong. Naturally alpha type MEN I hook up with could care less about seeing my genetalia or giving me oral sex that I do not desire..... Everyone is different and I'm not for every DOM for sure.... Twisted- all DOMs are different so please feel free to let us know your personal tastes and proclivities I'm sure they will be interesting and unique to your personality....


rosaenaluin 65F
11002 posts
9/12/2021 12:59 pm

Great writing,
Can you put this on FET, too?
Although i doubt it, if the newbies and not so new- wannebees will read it....
preaching to the choir.

Very well nuanced.


rosaenaluin 65F
11002 posts
9/12/2021 1:01 pm

softrayne,

You mean, subs and even slaves, are humans and have rights and all that! Oh! hell no!


SociallyTwisted 57M
244 posts
9/13/2021 9:00 am

    Quoting brandygirasol:
    Honey you put a lot of effort into this well thought out dissertation giving much to obsorb ... In my experience as a total bottom a TOP and dominance goes hand in hand- including BDSM type DOMs .... All DOMs are different and I've been taught to always be submissive even when kissing for example= I may get penetrated with a DOMs tongue in my mouth however I'm not allowed to penetrate the DOMs mouth with my tongue. Also I am a transvestite- meaning I can only have sex as a female- one of the differences between me and crossdressers who have hard dicks is that I'm the limp wristed sissy type tranny who might as well not have any male genetalia which I always cover up wearing a small thong. Naturally alpha type MEN I hook up with could care less about seeing my genetalia or giving me oral sex that I do not desire..... Everyone is different and I'm not for every DOM for sure.... Twisted- all DOMs are different so please feel free to let us know your personal tastes and proclivities I'm sure they will be interesting and unique to your personality....
That might require a few pages lol



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