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SociallyTwisted 57M
179 posts
9/13/2021 8:18 am
Nudity on profiles...

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SociallyTwisted 57M
244 posts
9/13/2021 8:19 am

comments?


Kitcatshadow1 57F
507 posts
9/13/2021 8:52 am

I totally agree, after all, it is the person who attracts me not the dick. Yes, my profile pic is of my ass, but that is only to show that i am into being caned.
Seeing of all the tasty bits comes way down the line for me.


SociallyTwisted 57M
244 posts
9/13/2021 8:57 am

    Quoting  :

and I'd wager that person was someone you shared some sort of connection with

Thx for sharing


SociallyTwisted 57M
244 posts
9/13/2021 8:58 am

    Quoting Kitcatshadow1:
    I totally agree, after all, it is the person who attracts me not the dick. Yes, my profile pic is of my ass, but that is only to show that i am into being caned.
    Seeing of all the tasty bits comes way down the line for me.
Something about those stripes on a bare butt though... mmmm.. to Me that's really explicit.. bnut again.. that's just My personal opinion

TY for your input


SociallyTwisted 57M
244 posts
9/13/2021 9:00 am

edit.. 'not really explicit'.. oops


Plzrmeister 67M  
10415 posts
9/13/2021 9:25 am

What's that you have as your 'status' on your profile?

There is little more appealing than an intelligent, CLASSY, and witty submissive. Show Me your brains and charm, not your tits and pussy.

That seems to sum up your opinion of nudity in profiles ... Folders excluded, for the most part.

Yeah, I prefer class throughout. Class goes out the window when any of the photos is a wide open pussy shot. Kind of blows the whole thing.

Make Women Female Again


drmgirl622 68F  
26090 posts
9/13/2021 9:26 am

I think everyone's profile pic should have at least a small air of mystery.


Beachguy000 49M

9/13/2021 9:33 am

I think maybe they are voyeurs and it is exciting for them. Everyone is different. Why are you being so judgmental?


Kate960 63F
58 posts
9/13/2021 10:14 am

I enjoyed your comments and I do understand your opinion and my pic's are not to lead a man on but to show the kind of woman I am with in this lifestyle. And to be honest with you I find it great that you can express your opinion so freely good luck and be safe.


useandhurtme 59M

9/13/2021 10:19 am

Interesting POV. With the flood of phonies and scammers on here, it seems to make sense. If it sounds/looks too good to be true, it probably is. Personally, I don't need to see a close up of someone's clam. I just like to see that they are somewhat slim and attractive and, of course, if they are Asian. Being Asian is a huge turn on for me.


brandygirasol 55T
9432 posts
9/13/2021 10:31 am

DICK PICS often do not photograph well and some men have godawful ugly looking cocks but they do not realize it .... I'm sure that many (or most} females agree with me that guys should not start off their profile showing gentalia...


manni_pr 52T
2609 posts
9/13/2021 11:09 am

L8 LI totally see your point. I think your lack of appeal to people with such crude content may be well founded and connected to your experience. I agree that when I see such soooo-in-your-face content tend to be a bit skeptical as well. But then again, I have also learned to not completely discard it as there may have been time that such content it's just a reflections of just strong urges, and had I not look at the profile and individual as a whole, I may had missed a good opportunity to meet a genuine partner. Having said that, some times such pix are unpleasant indicators but sometimes they might be just kinks. All in all, like you, I'm not all that eager for nudity as I am rather attracted to content that appeals more to sensuality and my imagination, but ultimately, I think I just evaluate a profile as a whole and definitely listen to that familiar little voice of self-preservation instinct in the back of my head and as much as I can spare it, I try to keep my objectivity, for fairness, yes, but I am ill admit that mostly for the sake of my future potential pleasure lol!


rosaenaluin 65F
11002 posts
9/13/2021 11:10 am

Totally agree with brandy!

Also, if you, as in general, are here to get a hook up, sure, show your flesh!
|as much as you like!

Also, what Beachguy says, maybe they are exhibitionistic and love to show their bits around!
For every one to see! That is part of their thrill...
And, ofcourse they are entittled to do so.

I like to see some creativity in the picture, surprise me. make me think, challenge me, make me laugh, kind of thing.....


brandygirasol 55T
9432 posts
9/13/2021 12:26 pm

    Quoting rosaenaluin:
    Totally agree with brandy!

    Also, if you, as in general, are here to get a hook up, sure, show your flesh!
    |as much as you like!

    Also, what Beachguy says, maybe they are exhibitionistic and love to show their bits around!
    For every one to see! That is part of their thrill...
    And, ofcourse they are entittled to do so.

    I like to see some creativity in the picture, surprise me. make me think, challenge me, make me laugh, kind of thing.....
Rosa perhaps you mean to say... Try to have a little CLASS


satyrp 76M

9/13/2021 12:32 pm

Sounds very limiting and judgmental. Just my opinion. I am still surprised by the sometimes prudish reactions expressed on a website such as this. Perhaps an Americanism left over from Puritanical precedents or pseudo Victorian morality. Rarely are Old European mores so restrictive about expressing alternative sexuality in theory or practice. Cosmopolitan attitudes vs parochialism?


brandygirasol 55T
9432 posts
9/13/2021 12:45 pm

    Quoting satyrp:
    Sounds very limiting and judgmental. Just my opinion. I am still surprised by the sometimes prudish reactions expressed on a website such as this. Perhaps an Americanism left over from Puritanical precedents or pseudo Victorian morality. Rarely are Old European mores so restrictive about expressing alternative sexuality in theory or practice. Cosmopolitan attitudes vs parochialism?
Sir I can SEE you are on the other side of this and its COOL ... Please don't think we are being judgmental- just personal preferences is all ..... BTW you have nice tasty looking BALLS


MyDDScumaddict 37F

9/14/2021 8:22 am

When I first joined on my original profile I felt the same way. Like whoa there are a lot of people on here that are desperately craving attention. I guess that's one way to get it. After being involved for longer my opinion has changed. Now there are obviously some that do use it for a "ohh pick me!" type of response but there are genuinely people who do not view nudity as something that should be hidden. We are who we are. It also plays into some people's kinks, which I mean that's why we're here isn't it?



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