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Abusive people on this site, Part 4 (Why do people act this way) Hello, it is 5:35am and instead of doing my morning run I have this incredible urge to write this post instead. Mind you this is the subject matter that has been at the root of my first three posts. I just did not want to face it, name it and expound upon it, as I thought that some people would think I was whining about a small issue or what I was really concerned over was that people would think that it was true and the possibility of that happening bothered me more then you can imagine. So thank you reading this opening, and here we go. What has really got to me on this site is what I call the 'scam police'. Those individuals (both male and female) that like to call out people as 'scammers' for any reason or belief. Some have said that they have seen the same pictures on other adult sites going back to whatever year (madwand476 is great for doing this, does he not have a job or does the 'scam police' employ him to peruse all these other adult sites, that he has seen my pictures on other adult sites whatever number of them from whatever year he claims). Then there are the females out there, one in the Denver, Colrado (I believe the handle is ('pussyiswet'  area who also has said the same thing that the pictures are fake and so I must be as well, and another up in Oklahoma (tigers_lil_sugar), who said that they were 'nice fake pics'. One person (stratchmyass16) had the manners and the decency to ask if we had ever been to Las Vegas, because he had seen a picture of mine there. Yes I have been to Las Vegas between 8 - 10 times since turning 18. I have been called a 'scammer' by a number of men and women and what really confuses me is that I have never chatted with them, emailed them or in any way contacted them. They like the little horny trolls that they are while browsing pictures for whatever reasons decided the pictures were fake and that they were going to broadcast it out to the known world. Well let it be known that the pictures on my profile are of me, taken by my lifestyle sisters or My Master and are there for the enjoyment of my friends and those that I allow to view them. Secondly and this also confuses me, how am I a 'scammer ' if I am not trying to chat with you, email you, direct you to some sort of pay site, ask nothing of or from you. If you can answer that you are one hell of a lot smarter then I am. I do not post facial pictures of myself, nor do my two lifestyle sisters as we do not want them out amongst people who just download them and pass them around, if we are chatting with someone, none of us have any hesitation in passing along a full facial picture. Once a picture is posted on here, anyone can (and often does ) download them and pass them around to who ever they choose and sadly there is nothing to stop them from doing so. People on this site have given me the advice to just ignore the aholes, but this has been bothering me and now that I have written about it, I actually do feel much better. As far as actually naming the people (their alt ID's) well they wrote it and if they do not like what was said then they should not have written untrue things about me to begin with. I realize that this is an alternative lifestyle website, but I am not going to allow people to lie about me or make false claims about me.Thank you for allowing me this forum to write about these things that have bothered me about this website. I hope thzt you all have an enjoyable day.... Kisses Taylor |
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Taylor, try to ignore the complaints. I recognize one of those naes as an on line player who has multiple names/personas. So,I would just ignore the complaints. You probably getting your photos copied. Just keep writing here. The good folks will be able to come to their own conclusions and interact accordingly. Best to you. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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3/24/2020 6:58 am |
Hello, thank you very much for both the kind words and the wise advice. It was just something that I needed to say and probably now that I have I hopefully can just let it go. I would much rather write about the positive people and things that have happened to me on this site. Now maybe I can. Again thank you for your kind words and advice. I hope that you have an enjoyable day.... Kisses Taylor
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Even the profile pic we see here is used throughout a wiki on dp and sex stories....all written by different people. Honesty in how you present yourself, will go a long way to stop "the big ole mean people" You found parts of me I didn’t know existed and in you I found a love I no longer believed was real.
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(My take on all this My working philosophy is that I only interact on a personal level with people I have actually met over the years. Everyone else may or may not be real. I have my suspicions and theories. (Dancing Dom is real and so is Daddyslilpumpkin and if I ever meet them, they would probably turn out to be funny, smart human beings, as would Heartylooking and a few others), but mostly, I go here to look at the naked pics, listen to the genuine feelings and sensibilities of people I suspect are real, and try not to sweat the small drama stuff from those 46-year old desperate scammers from Nigeria or Eastern Europe.
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Aww thanks JayKay. Being on cam people being able to see and hear you respond to them helps with the "real" factor. My Sir doesn't believe anyone is really a female until he sees them on cam. He has not been wrong about this very often. I agree about DancingDom as well....and tbh, I would totally have a drink with him. I've learned a lot from him through his blogs, and I think he would be an interesting character in rl. You found parts of me I didn’t know existed and in you I found a love I no longer believed was real.
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Aww thanks JayKay. Being on cam people being able to see and hear you respond to them helps with the "real" factor. My Sir doesn't believe anyone is really a female until he sees them on cam. He has not been wrong about this very often. I agree about DancingDom as well....and tbh, I would totally have a drink with him. I've learned a lot from him through his blogs, and I think he would be an interesting character in rl. (following that line of thought...) About ten years ago Maggie and I were very active in meeting people here. One of the more memorable experiences was going down to NYC (from upstate, where we live) to a restaurant where one of the Alt members was a manager. We shared a dinner with eight REAL ALT members, including one member from Australia and one from the midwest visiting NYC. I agree that seeing people on cam is definitely another way of ascertaining whether someone is real. (nd safer in these times.) I am guessing that two significant reasons why scammers even exist is because 1) It is an easier way of robbing people than in person) and 2) they are just lonely, frightened individuals who are afraid of showing people who they are, so they steal photos and whole personas and represent themselves that way. The world has always had its share of people who want more than they are capable of getting for themselves through honest means, and always will.
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3/25/2020 8:16 am |
You can't win with people, anonymous, insecure people that just want to lash out
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Some people feel better about themselves if they can make someone else feel a little worse . It is an attribute of human smallness. Listen to the petty insults you hear from politics every day.
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3/31/2020 2:50 pm |
Hello, I want to apologize to the people that have commented on part 4. Normaly I respond to all the comments but the last 8 days or so I have been on duty at the hospital anywhere from twelve to almost twenty hours at a clip. I thought that hospitals had some sort of union rules. Evidentally not. So in this space I will try to respond to all of you who posted comments on part 4. LudwigLime70: Thank you for your comments although this 'Fake' culture is starting to irritate the hell out of me and patience is neither my best attribute nor my strongsuit when dealing with idiots. Floggerdog: Thank you as well for your comments. From what I read if they try to scam you out of money you report them, as you should. I have had a number of males promise me the moon plus air fare if I was to fly to them, they would reimburse me.Needless to say I have not taken these kind gentlemen up on their generous offer. Daddyslilpunkin: Thank you, I appreciate your comments, and I present myself very honestly and bluntly. Is it my problem that someone else found it exciting, would you rather have the one taken before it with Cathy quite visible helping to insert the double head, not a problem. You may want to peruse part one where it lays our my personal and lifestyle background. I realize that I may not be everyknes cup ov tea o rd even though majority but if you ever are on t hff d east sc ide of Houston, Texas drop us an email so you can meet myself and my two (2) lifestyle sisters for a meal and some wine. Then you just may be able to form a conclusion about myself and us. JayKay48: Thank you for your comments. We havd m.j et about 50 peop loo e from here the vast majority were honest, tgd pucture might have refkected a bit of difference but that was not a big issue. I just interscr with the peop li e who contact me. If they say or do something stupid then I end the conversation other then that I generally tend to take people at their word until they say or do something dumb. JPTBIGCK2: Thank you for the comment, very short distinct and on point, really nothing more to say. Thank you VeryHeavyRead: Thank you for your comments. Yes peopl do try to make others small to make themselves look bigger. But at just a hair under 6.0 I fo not believe that is going to happen anytime soon. Especially with the support that I have been showered with from here and the people in my own little group. Thank you all very much for all your comments and I hope that you all have an enjoyable day.... Kisses Taylor
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