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Subslut9898 39F
50 posts
5/16/2020 8:04 am
IM is now a premium service

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DancingDom 74M
22594 posts
5/16/2020 12:17 pm

When I was a gold member, it never worked for me. So at this point I am missing nothing. Welcome to the blogs. Best to you.

If you look around the blogs, many of us have a private blog space and we set that chat for private via the approve comments. We use the respond feature s only the commenters can see the responses. Not all bloggers have this set up.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


Plzrmeister 67M  
10470 posts
5/16/2020 12:49 pm

If ALT's IM isn't the worst in the world, it runs a very close second.

Yeah, and paying money to use it doesn't help. Complete piece of shit 99.98352% of the time.

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likesmatures 55M
4850 posts
5/16/2020 1:18 pm

Im suprised you even got a reply from alt..i always thought it was some shady company run out of a deserted warehouse in queens


sidvicious13 62M
138 posts
5/16/2020 6:45 pm

For at least a month now, everyone that I have talked with or read their comments have said that the IM here simply does not work.


JoElspanstp 70M

5/16/2020 11:09 pm

Welcome! Your main way to communicate as a Standard Member is through the Blogs. The IMs no longer work. I am not sure they ever did. Go luck and stay well.


JoElspanstp 70M

5/16/2020 11:10 pm

    Quoting likesmatures:
    Im suprised you even got a reply from alt..i always thought it was some shady company run out of a deserted warehouse in queens
That is very true. They actually communicated with her!


SexyRealMaster 46M
14 posts
6/14/2020 3:56 am

sub think u need to get points n try.... im sure will work..once i did try paging u but no fruitful response... cya hope we cna hook fast for real


SexyRealMaster 46M
14 posts
6/28/2020 11:51 am

hi sub... do u chek ur blogs... and if real lets chat n meet soon... cya if u around


jyahld 63M
360 posts
4/18/2021 2:45 pm

I do not, nor would not, pay anything to be on this site. The last time I had a successful chat on IM was a few weeks ago. It would appear to be that BOTH the sender AND the recipient need to have at least 10 points for a conversation to get going. But they don't tell you that, of course!

I think (more experienced people correct me if I am wrong?) that about the most 'private' you can make a blog is to use the following settings:

"Who can view this post" only friends

"Who can comment on this post" no-one. It depends what the blog is for. If you want to say something and not receive comments, set it to "no comments allowed". If you do want comments, decide how open you want it to be.

"I want to pre-review..."all responses". Assuming you allow responses at all, this means that only you see them, unless you decide to approve them in which case they are as visible as the original post. This setting is useful if you want other to send you information in private, like contact details (sort of, unless you approve the post).

I hope that's useful
Now, ms subslut... how are you?
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