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hush0101 55F  
318 posts
1/29/2021 11:23 am
Disappointments


We all have them. We all find are times in life, when things just don't work and the stars don't line up just right and Karma plays a part in that too.

What do we do when we feel that disappointment...do we blame ourselves? Do we just try to smile through the disappointment and just see as yet another learning experience, or do we become angry, resentful and just plain pissed off? Do we shut down and shut people because the fear of disappointment again, just is not something we want go through,,yet again.

I try stay positive...I always wear the happy face. I always keep the anger,,the dissapointment, the tears to myself. I try not to let them ruin my days...but damn...sometimes... just plain SUCKS!

I am not looking for someone take care of me... not looking for someone change my life...I am looking for someone grow with,,learn with and explore with...but damn,,those stars need freaking get in line!!!!

Anyway,,enough of my rant...back to your scheduled programs....

~hush

OldJeakel 73M
377 posts
1/29/2021 11:50 am

I certainly know how you feel, I've had a rough couple of months of crap in my life

Onward through the fog!


eroticallyincldn 70F
1636 posts
1/29/2021 1:07 pm

My Motto...No Expectations No Disappointments..I ti shard but I finally have it right....


janet2bhad 65T
168 posts
1/29/2021 1:41 pm

Well... You can use the internet and look up.. How to stop worrying about things you "can't" control.
Do your best to take care of the thing you can control.
The one I like is. "Look at the big picture",


OlderMaster2018 73M
301 posts
1/29/2021 2:54 pm

Well hush0101 . .life happens. . .and we all just seem to "get on with it".
There are times when we all just need an arm round us to let us know that things really will get better . . .soon.

I'd just love to put my arms round you . .cuddle you. . .and kiss your neck gently. . . . . but with you in the USA and me in the UK. . . . .my arms are just not long enough. . . . . .consider it a cyber hug. . . . and say . ."thinking of you" x


lockit4fun 67M

1/29/2021 2:55 pm

when the stars line up and put a twinkle in your eyes just think how great it will be. don't lower your standers just enjoy life everyday the best you can till they do


theowner2020 64M  
1219 posts
1/29/2021 3:14 pm

I almost always just expect the worse, keeps the disappointments down... lol


anotherunne 62M
78 posts
1/29/2021 4:17 pm

If today is bad you've got to believe that tomorrow will be better!


Casualfun1961 63M

1/29/2021 5:24 pm

True no expectations until trust is built


dom_erotique 47M
81 posts
1/29/2021 6:25 pm

hey girl, hang in there, be strong, disappointments make you resilient


cjay132 43F
66 posts
1/29/2021 10:35 pm

hush.....absolutely and that's why I still live alone ...I'm looking for somebody who leaves things as they are ...I dont change who I am for Nobody ...my work life has priority for personal reasons and that is not going to change
I don't change my life style for somebody's else's pleasure...not in this life time and nobody tells me what I do and not do ....I prefer being alone than have to put up with somebody's bullshit whining about the way I live my life ......
..............the right guy can share my life ...NOT run my life


MasterPalmist 77M
8 posts
1/30/2021 1:55 am

I am with my friend eroticallyincldn on this one. No expectation..no disappointments. Unfortunately it does dampen your drive somewhat.
Take care all .........from the UK desk


drmgirl622 68F  
26118 posts
1/30/2021 7:10 am

I think it's akin to the Serenity Prayer


OwnsurOrgasm 63M

1/30/2021 11:22 am

part of life my friend



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