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Its not a verbal thing Recent conversation in chatroom turned topic of oral sex. 2 questions that were discussed. Does your Dom use receiving oral sex as a reward? Is a Dom gives oral sex his submissive, not in charge. were all manners of opinions, and stories ranging from those love oral sex, those dislike oral sex. Seeing how new, i am pleasures of receiving oral, I can not imagine being held back, and given as a reward. And for me the giving of oral sex is no way a reflection of my Dom being out of control. I just find the act of giving/ receiving as being a very intimate exchange. Just more of my rambling...thoughts,, take them or leave them. |
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Giving and receiving in a relationship, that is healthy and honest in its partnership wil and can exchange sensual/sexual pleasure. There are not rules that define..anyone that things there are had and fast rules is just plain full of themselves. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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3/13/2021 1:25 pm |
I agree that it is an intimate exchange
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3/13/2021 1:27 pm |
I say giving oral is reciprocal. The acts by themselves as stand alone, are not submissive acts necessarily. It is all about the context in which they are administered/performed.
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I think how it is seen depends on your relationship. As DD mentioned, there are no "rules" that center on how or why it is given or received. I treat it always as a "gift". When I receive it from a chosen or intimate one, I know it is a "gift" being given to me NOT because I am a Domina but because of the words before the title, such as "loving" "caring" or cherished" . And when I give oral, it is also a "gift" from me. An acknowledgement of how much she or he means to me, how respected I feel, and how thankful I am that they look to me for guidance, care, and direction. But again, that's just me. And its worked well for decades tyvm lol
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From a Dominants point of view...I can and will throat fuck my sub anytime I like......But I will also tie her down and unleash hell on her with my mouth like a fat kid eats cake...........But it all depends on the individuals and not just the labels we wear. I never went down on my x wife, but my last sub got eaten like a peach I never view my affections as a reward or a punishment. I have a wicked imagination and I put it to uses that would make statues blush............The act alone does not dictate role but opinions vary and this has simply been mine. I will blow your mind like a verbal John Wilkes Booth
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I very much agree that oral is a very intimate exchange, especially so with eye contact. I also think MistressKrysha summed it up quite nicely.
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As someone that enjoys giving oral as much as i enjoy receiving, i say it is a way of foreplay to arouse one another
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Lady L of Atlanta used to love performing oral on me, One time she asked as she had those long nails of hers on me if I thought that meant she was less dominant. When I said 'no Ma'am, certainly not!' She asked me what I thought it did mean, I told her 'well Ma'am, it means your doing what you feel like'. She told me 'That's right' and went back to doing as she liked.
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3/13/2021 4:53 pm |
Maybe I see things different. I don't see it as a punishment or reward thing. I see it as an opportunity for intimately bonding. Given as a reward sounds just how an inexperienced manager thinks.. The old carrot or the stick routine. To me that's two dimentional thinking that's long outdated. If I want to give you a reward..I'll caress your cheek softly and give you a nice cookie, and not a cock in your mouth... By the way. I have some good cookies....Oral Sex is a time for bonding at least for me. I highly recommend you look for some reading material on doms and submissives and don't listen to someone that cant read a book that doesn't have pictures. It's interesting to ask someone " what's the last book you read?" and see that deer in the headlight look as they scramble to think of any title. I hope you have a great night and don't let this trouble you.
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