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okay...so this is kinda an odd thing..but just some of my random thoughts. So, I will be gender neutral here...so..here goes. When someone tells you that you suck cock well..how does that make you feel ? When someone tells you that you lick pussy good...how does it make you feel? I know it seems like such a random question, but again just some of my random thoughts. Are those comments ones be happy and proud of? There are mixed feelings from , when such comments are made. Is it something one is be proud about or is it something that should be kept between the people involved. And, you know people have different opinions and desires, so I guess one person may like,,and another may not. But from what I have gather, talking men,,,most will be ecstatic just have a woman even suck on their coc..lol So, just another snippet of randomness from hush's world. |
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Well, feedback is always good. If I ain't doing it for you, let me know how to improve. I will tell anyone I am involved with that is something they do is not cutting the mustard, well I have to let them know and I certainly respond well when things are going great. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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3/29/2021 5:15 pm |
In the throes of sexual activity, I have had people say things -- complimentary -- that in later discussion, they replied they didn't know exactly what they meant. It isn't that often people/lovers will "talk" that way, but I always took it as a very complimentary addition to their physical reactions. "You make love like a king" is an example and another said "Where did you get such a silver tongue" (she didn't mean in conversation LO . If you're an attentive lover, you really can tell any fakery from the real deal. On the other hand, I have never had a lover say the usual porn lines like "Oh, you're so big" etc etc. To me, the most telling dialogues (in the old days) was when a lover broke down their inhibitions and just sad "Fuck me!" with meaning. For what it's worth.
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Its a compliment that the person you're with approves what you are doing. And if I'm doing it wrong, tell me. Everybody is different so one technique does not fit all. 
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3/29/2021 9:24 pm |
Agree on the feedback being important. And yes, I see it as a compliment when I’m told I eat pussy well.
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I think people are paranoid that they aren't good at orally pleasuring their partners.. And i do believe alot of their partners lie about how good it was. So it doesn't get better Plus there is that saying that gay people are just better. As someone that has been with people they aren't "better" but they are more enthusiastic. I'd rather see proof in the pudding...him hard and cumming or her body going into spasms/ her thighs wrapped tightly around my head. Saying i'm good....isn't good. I want to learn how to be better..how to really pleasure you
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I'm very proud of my oral capabilities !
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There's a lot of good points here of what is meant by the sucking/licking compliment. I don't disagree but there is one more aspect that, to me, is the most important. My reaction to hearing that is one of encouragement. I take it to mean my lover wants more. Wants me to do it again the next time we're together. That's how it makes me feel. Madison.
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3/30/2021 11:36 am |
I like hearing those things. I love to please my partner, so its good I'm not just flapping my jaw 
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I would be devastated if I were told I did bad, thrilled if told I did good! If you have a talent for something that is good and makes other people happy, you absolutely should feel proud! Yes!
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Sometimes I think I prefer French fries over onion rings then I'll have some superb rings and I am confused again... andy
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I like to know if I’m doing it right or at least how they like it. So any feed back is appreciated. Like anything else how do you know unless you get constructive criticism.
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