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Is this a thorn? Rejection of any type..just sucks. Another side step...a time to breath, a time to evaluate what can be learned by the side step and see how to avoid going that way again...find the lesson and move on. How does one not let it scar your head, your heart? Please don't ask, please don't assume to know or understand. It is my journey and it will not be like anyone elses....it has been a lesson I needed to learn..and I have to find a way to move past it. I may need a few days to just clear my head...and try to process all that happened. There is no anger..there is no regret...I consider it just part of the journey. I will not put my needs/desire/wants on hold. We all deserve to have what we need/desire/want. Two/or more happy people make the best relationship...its my belief. If those thing are not considered...why have the relationship? |
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4/12/2021 8:36 pm |
Rejection always hurts. It's going to scar you. Question is for the better or the worst. If someone ever says it's me, it's not you. Trust me it's you not them. This rejection might be a blessing. If they are so shallow that they don't want to know you. "the person inside, and your mind first" I say fuck'em. You can do better. Fuck yea it's personal. They are saying sorry, you're not good enough. You should be pissed, just don't dwell on it and let it harden your heart. Sometimes there's no lesson to learn and nothing to avoid. Be yourself. Look yourself in the mirror and say, "I'm the one that deserves better." I don't know jack about what happened and probably never will, but I do know what it's like to be hurt, and being dominant doesn't devoid me of feelings or compassion towards someone. You'll find someone that will recognize you as a treasure and they will devote themself to making you happy. You'll see, just be confident.
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4/13/2021 1:59 am |
rejection is the hardest to overcome
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So sorry for you I know what your going thru Slave rick
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Rejection, the sooner the better if it is not going to w0rk out. Why have so much time invested, let the looser go "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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There is no anger.. there is no regret... That being the case, you have two less things to deal with get over. That's a positive. The term 'rejection' is a label people self impose on themselves. I'd bet all the tea in China that the other person did not say, "I reject you." As such, perhaps take a different mental approach to your situation. Things just didn't work out .... there was no 'rejection'. The pain will remain, but you need not diminish your own self esteem over this. Make Women Female Again
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Rejection is felt deep in the soul and can serve to teach lessons if you allow.
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4/13/2021 6:36 am |
Stay positive. Look within. We all have something more
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Yes rejection is difficult, but we heal & move on. "What doesn't kill us makes us stronger" Maybe he just wasn't the right one for you? Hopefully you'll find a better match soon. All the best.
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Rejection is necessary and saves you time along your journey. I will blow your mind like a verbal John Wilkes Booth
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