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hush0101 55F  
318 posts
9/6/2021 12:12 am
Silence its a killer,,,,of many things


Silence: wow,,it says a lot.
How do you expect one to respond after an extended amount of silence?
Yes, life gets in the way, but life does go forward too!
A few words help to alleviate doubts and any questions. Why do some think the world stops rotating if they fall silent?
Just more of my randomness.
~hush

DancingDom 74M
22594 posts
9/6/2021 5:18 am

Some think silence, i.e. ignoring or discontinuing communication is a form of punishment. Which are quite different than a specified time out or go to your room without TV, Radio, Video games or some sort of restriction which has a specified time. Any decent dominant will not do the ignoring or refusing to communicate thing. It leaves a submissive feeling abandoned. Which in due time ends the relationship in most cases.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


hush0101 replies on 9/6/2021 5:32 am:
I completly agree...what an inconsiderate way to treat someone

Plzrmeister 67M  
10473 posts
9/6/2021 6:00 am

Silence: wow, it says a lot.

And it's all bad. When someone 'ghosts' or falls silent, I think it's one of the most rude things a person can do. Moving on? Just say so and go your merry way.

I agree. I've had it happen several times and it always amazes me that someone you've formed a certain amount of relationship with would do that. I don't understand such people .....

Make Women Female Again


drmgirl622 68F  
26126 posts
9/6/2021 8:27 am

The hurt of not knowing is worse than the actual act itself.


ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
9/6/2021 11:06 am

    Quoting DancingDom:
    Some think silence, i.e. ignoring or discontinuing communication is a form of punishment. Which are quite different than a specified time out or go to your room without TV, Radio, Video games or some sort of restriction which has a specified time. Any decent dominant will not do the ignoring or refusing to communicate thing. It leaves a submissive feeling abandoned. Which in due time ends the relationship in most cases.
"Any decent dominant will not do the ignoring or refusing to communicate..." Thank you for writing this down, DD.


ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
9/6/2021 11:09 am

Silence is the most common tool for the weak and cowards. It hurts like hell and it is never, but never the right thing to do to someone, anyone. Decent people don't go around hurting and destroying other people.


dom_erotique 47M
81 posts
9/6/2021 5:49 pm

sometimes silence works best...


chameleon63 61M
203 posts
9/6/2021 7:58 pm

During Victorian times placing children in "Coventry" was a common and accepted form of punishment, to the extent of treating them as "Persona non grata".
What we know of the effects on mental development now is that it was one of the most damning practices of the times. I had a friend who grew up in Germany (1940s), and it was a common practice to lock kids in closets and leave them there for extended periods - more than a day. His brothers and sisters were pretty bent from their up bringing, he was a compulsive drinker.



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