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ExNameForUse 53F
4114 posts
10/16/2021 11:40 am
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ExNameForUse 53F
5608 posts
10/16/2021 11:44 am

In addition, a few images of my city, my Belgrade.


Raven_GB 63M
854 posts
10/16/2021 12:11 pm

I know, I know... there are some cynical bastards on here that refuse to believe that I am actually a Raven! I mean, some people...

The internet can link you up with some wonderful people who would be a delight to know (both inside and outside of the bedroom), but it also exposes the fact that for many people, civilisation has barely made it past the caveman days. If Google (or Alt) ever make a filter that can seperate one group from another, they will make an unimaginable fortune.


ExNameForUse replies on 10/16/2021 1:06 pm:
I do understand the skepticism. God knows this is a jungle where various species live. I don’t get the point in being rude to someone you know nothing about, but giving yourself the right to be. When I read those messages I just imagine how smart and wise they feel thinking how they have uncovered my fake account spitting that straight into my inbox… I hope that at least for that one moment they felt important in their own eyes.

drmgirl622 68F  
25884 posts
10/16/2021 12:18 pm

Oh, those sights are beautiful ! How well I know about that judgmental. Some are willing to get to know you better and others can just go away.


ExNameForUse replies on 10/16/2021 1:14 pm:
Thank you, girl, it is a lovely city, though, a mixture of eastern and western cultures, very interesting in its diversity 😊
It is so easy to be judgmental, I am sure you know that very well... it takes an effort to get to know someone or at least not to rush with conclusions. But for that, you have to have an open mind and heart.

Greybrow 63M
625 posts
10/16/2021 1:11 pm

Great pics.
All I can say is "haters gonna hate". In some ways I pity those who have a drive to ridicule others and accuse them of being fakes based on some flimsy assumption. I wonder how badly they were taken by someone that makes it ok to harass others.


ExNameForUse replies on 10/16/2021 2:29 pm:
Thank you, Grey, glad you loved the pictures. We are not all the same, which is good, yet some things can be avoided. Life is enough tough, and not very pleasant lately, and if we can't say anything nice to each other, then be better to remain silent.

Keepitfun1691 63M

10/16/2021 1:36 pm

Nice


ExNameForUse replies on 10/16/2021 2:29 pm:
Thank you.

pac369 64F
12698 posts
10/16/2021 2:14 pm

Beautiful pics Ex! When I lived in a small Az town I just typed I was in Northern Az. Without ever giving a city.

Just saying in case all that drama bothers you. If someone talks to you I would imagine you tell them what’s going on.

Sorry your being judged and attacked though.. No need for all that…

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


ExNameForUse replies on 10/16/2021 2:56 pm:
I am glad you loved the pictures, Pac, thank you.
It doesn’t bother me to the extend I am upset, it is just something that happens in turns and coming from those I have never exchanged a word with, out of the blue. There are ways to communicate differently, or simply pass me by if you don't like what you see or read.
Thank you for your thoughts anyway, Pac.

grywolf2 73M
3026 posts
10/16/2021 2:53 pm

Nice images. I have to get to Europe when this Covid ends.


ExNameForUse replies on 10/16/2021 3:01 pm:
Thank you, glad you love what you see.
If you ever come over here, I am sure you won't regret it. There are stunning places to visit and see around this old lady Europe

DancingDom 74M
22475 posts
10/16/2021 3:02 pm

Just ignore the rude, crass and just plain ignorant asshats.

Now you just know that I already had your part of the world on my to travel list if money and time and Covid were not an issue. But now seeing the photos of your lovely city, I even more would love to visit and learn more about its history and culture.

Be well and stay groovy.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


ExNameForUse replies on 10/16/2021 3:16 pm:
DD, if it ever becomes possible, you know you have a friend in this part of the world!

Plzrmeister 67M  
10144 posts
10/16/2021 4:22 pm

What a beautiful city, yet it pales in comparison to the legs shown in your profile photo! And both pale in comparison to your intelligence and charm ..... How's that for being buttered up?

I like the Antarctica location. Maybe you could add that to your 'status' or something. It'd surely give the knuckle dragging Neanderthals around here something to scratch their heads about.

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ExNameForUse replies on 10/17/2021 4:09 am:
Dear Plz, thank you for the compliments, all that was just perfect for buttering someone up, so the job's done
Ad what a great idea about adding Antarctica maybe instead of Serbia, just for fun and to see where that would lead
Thank you for stopping by, dear Plz.

Dave54321 61M
2679 posts
10/16/2021 5:31 pm

Sorry to hear people are being rude to you.

The photos of your city are lovely.
In early 2020 I was considering my options of where I was going to go
traveling. Then everything went crazy & my plans have been put on hold.
But one day I hope to do the traveling I was planning.


ExNameForUse replies on 10/17/2021 3:49 am:
Thank you, Dave.
So many things have been put on hold since the Covid thing began. Like our lives have been put on hold. I really hope soon enough things will change and we'll be able to at least travel easier and with fewer requirements than it is now.

InderioMinx 54F  
19798 posts
10/16/2021 5:47 pm

I fail to see why your choice of location is of any concern to anyone, with the exception of anyone who actually wants to meet you.

Really, no need to be rude or an asshat. If one is confused or curious, how about just ask the damn question ~ where are you really from?

Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short


ExNameForUse replies on 10/17/2021 3:46 am:
I am really from Belgrade, Serbia
As someone thought me, nothing worse than the assumption and rushing with conclusions. The thing is that comments were coming from those I had never been in contact with, as the only contact I have here is with people through blogs. Not really that they have been misled or something like that...
Thank you for your thoughts, IM, I do appreciate your time and contribution.

NoNonsense_Dom 70M  
1517 posts
10/16/2021 11:20 pm

Well dear Ex, I like to know where people are from, because if I think highly enough of them, I want to make sure that they are safe should something bad happen, like the floods in Germany, or the bushfires that ravaged us here in Australia, or that bloody big explosion that happened down at Beirut. And you dear Ex would be the same. Not that I can do much for any of you except listen and give support over the net.

There are far toooooo many in this life who judge others too readily, and without proof most of the time, and it is usually the Rogues/Sharks or the Pretenders who do it.

I look back at all the others who have commented on this post, and they are fabulous people, real people that I have had dealings with in some form or other for many years, both under this profile name, and my previous (100mph_tongue). I believe everyone of them is real as none of them have ever given me cause to doubt them. And you dear Ex are the same.

It is a shame that there are selfish arrogant bastards out there that cause grief, but unfortunately, there is nothing that we can do about it except ignore or block them. But what I do know is that there are many here who want us to be happy safe and contented, and who will never wish us bad. YOU take care dear Ex, and by the way, not that I have ever been there, but you do live in a marvelous city.


ExNameForUse replies on 10/17/2021 3:36 am:
Thank you, NN for your thoughts and wishes. I understand your point and hopefully, all is clear now about where I am coming from.
The same as you do, I think people who commented here and those I read and who read me on here are genuine. I guess the same attracts the same.
I have never experienced anything uncomfortable with them, just the opposite, all of them have been more than friendly and supportive through my tough times. That was and is priceless.

Jacquie22 34M

10/17/2021 9:30 pm

Tres jolie endrois


ExNameForUse replies on 10/18/2021 2:13 am:
Thank you, it is a cute and warm place with warm people.

MissLadywood 51F
6195 posts
10/18/2021 11:40 am

    Quoting grywolf2:
    Nice images. I have to get to Europe when this Covid ends.
If you do, you must stop by little ole England and say hi and have a drink with us

Lovely pictures of your home city, thank you for sharing them. As for the arseholes, at least you know who never to bother with !

Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn


ExNameForUse replies on 10/18/2021 12:02 pm:
You are welcome, Miss, really glad you loved them... the rest is obvious, isn't it?

ridermantel 68M

11/5/2021 2:47 pm

The images are lovely and picturesque. The tables and chairs with the wet walkway just to the right of the green assorted plants is my favorite.


ExNameForUse replies on 11/6/2021 7:40 am:
Thank you, I love that one too... it's the very city center, a garden of Hotel Moskva with the best Moskva šnit (fruit cake) served in Belgrade xx


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