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ExNameForUse 53F
4243 posts
1/20/2022 6:02 am
A Hook Follow Up

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ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
1/20/2022 6:03 am

Either way, no matter how good something can feel, I would swap it for a simple touch of a loving man without thinking 😘😘


alwaysassertive 64M

1/20/2022 6:13 am

well you'd certainly be a keeper.


ExNameForUse replies on 1/20/2022 6:24 am:
Thank you, AA.

rope_n_cuffs 78M  
949 posts
1/20/2022 6:18 am

In my experience subs go calm and quiet when tied with a hook inserted. Almost afraid to move. Interested if you felt that?


ExNameForUse replies on 1/20/2022 6:23 am:
I havent been tied, there was no tension between the hook and presumable collar, therefore the full and complete impression has missed.
As I said, I just have a clue now how it could actually be...

EcuriousNNJ 67M
575 posts
1/20/2022 6:25 am

Wonderful, luv your pic!


ExNameForUse replies on 1/20/2022 6:27 am:
Thank you 😊

casio26 63M
2562 posts
1/20/2022 6:38 am

I'm happy for you


ExNameForUse replies on 1/20/2022 6:41 am:
Thank you, I am happy I have found out a bit of what was so intiguing for me.
Maybe life will reward me with someone I can fully enjoy it with one day.. thank you for the insight last time and for your kind words today.

Plzrmeister 67M  
10449 posts
1/20/2022 6:39 am

Do you love that photo, or do you love that photo?
Your ass looks lovely and the anal hook adds the icing to the cake!


we had a nice evening to get to know each other last night.

That certainly sounds delicious! I imagine you'll have many more evenings ( and days? ) becoming acquainted and experimenting. Attached to a belt around your waist or perhaps a collar will be fun for you .... Free to walk about your apartment enjoying the sensation. Did the custom people hand deliver it to you?

Make Women Female Again


ExNameForUse replies on 1/20/2022 6:59 am:
Thank you, Plz. I think last night was just the beginning of a nice friendship.. we shall see where we will go from there 😉
Though, no hand delivery. Cowards 🤣🤣🤣

Trucker_Sleeper 66M
36 posts
1/20/2022 6:57 am

Well a man controling that hook might make you smile


ExNameForUse replies on 1/20/2022 7:04 am:
He might, indeed and hopefully one day he will 🙂

palinax 59M
124 posts
1/20/2022 6:59 am

why not have both? the hook and the loving man? double the pleasure


ExNameForUse replies on 1/20/2022 7:03 am:
Mostly because the hook can be easily bought online, and a loving man is a bit harder to find.. but one does not exclude the other, not at all.

brandygirasol 55T
9433 posts
1/20/2022 7:02 am

Hello My Dear Friend💜.. you need to experience the hook the way I have... Ballgagged impaled tightly strapped from hook connected to ball gag ring.. forced into an arch backed position on hands and knees led around on a leash awkwardly while drooling... then being tormented and tortured further by your sadistic DOM🤪 ... Full Experiance you won't forget, lovely lady.. 💋


ExNameForUse replies on 1/20/2022 7:14 am:
Ahhh Brendy, you do know how to tickle someones imagination.. that would be one hell of an exprienece and surely hard to forget.
And you know what? I know I will experience it one day, this or any other way, and it will be pervertly wonderfully amazing... 😘😈😎

drmgirl622 68F  
26107 posts
1/20/2022 8:00 am

Oh, Ex, it is just lovely! As you described the feelings I could almost imagine that sensation as it was inserted. Actually, my heart started pounding just at the thought. I really must talk to Mistress.


ExNameForUse replies on 1/20/2022 10:26 am:
Dear Girl, I am so glad my words have resonated with you so vividly and hope it will soon be on the table to discuss with your Mistress and hopefully experience it in your own way. I have a feeling you would love it.

pac369 64F  
12700 posts
1/20/2022 8:20 am

Thanks for the update Ex!

It seems like it was quite enjoyable for the first time...

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


ExNameForUse replies on 1/20/2022 10:27 am:
You are welcome, Pac.
It was as good as it could be all by myself.

Artschoolgrad 47M
8707 posts
1/20/2022 8:34 am

glad it finally arrived!


ExNameForUse replies on 1/20/2022 10:27 am:
Me, too, Arty!

wantingnoregrets 64M  
805 posts
1/20/2022 8:44 am

Glad the introduction went so well and a lovely photo op of said intro. A hook does provide many opportunities torturous stimulation to stimulating torture.

I have a private mail box on my blog if interested in sharing thoughts, ideas, or other pervy things related to hooks .

Please keep us updated on your thoughts and experiences with your hook, pervy enquiring minds are curious.


ExNameForUse replies on 1/20/2022 10:36 am:
Thank you, I think I have only started with digging and exploring and these are just beginners small steps I once thought I would do with a help of someone important to me... yet, I didn't want to give up and I believe I will find my own way into this lovely weird world... it's not easy, there are many traps, toys are just a small part of the whole story... is not just about being pervy, at least to me... I have that hopeless romantic side as well... hard to compromise, but I think not impossible.

DancingDom 74M
22588 posts
1/20/2022 10:04 am

I would expect lots of volunteers to help you experience this new toy. I can think of about 50 ways to help you enjoy this device. Or maybe not so enjoyable at times.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


ExNameForUse replies on 1/20/2022 10:39 am:
Ahhh DD... here where I am, it's not that easy to find a matching mind, so the only volunteer is me, my best and my most confident friend. Me.

jenny14 75T  
90348 posts
1/20/2022 11:46 am

Ex

I too am glad it is as good as you hoped and, Yes, no toy is as good as a loving partner


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


ExNameForUse replies on 1/20/2022 12:10 pm:
Thank you, Jenny, for your always kind words. I am glad you understood my point.

Raven_GB 63M
854 posts
1/20/2022 12:56 pm

Well Ex - let's hope you can hook an appropriate companion


ExNameForUse replies on 1/20/2022 1:12 pm:
.. so far I have hooked a hook, Raven... 🤦‍♀️🤣

ridermantel 68M

1/20/2022 2:42 pm

You descried it perfectly. Stainless steel is cold. Experiment and enjoy!


ExNameForUse replies on 1/20/2022 10:34 pm:
Thank you, Rider.
Yes, cold and heavy were the very first impressions when I took it in my hand.

casio26 63M
2562 posts
1/20/2022 4:25 pm

I would enjoy exploring sensations with you !
That is a wonderful pic you took.
Dave


ExNameForUse replies on 1/20/2022 10:37 pm:
Thank you, Dave. As I like to think, the less is more, so this picture I believe match that idea. Glad you loved it 🙂

tahimikbayani 53M
8008 posts
1/20/2022 7:54 pm

For the touch of a loving man, sure...understandable. But who knows, you may now dream about a man's loving touch inserting the hook and securing it.


ExNameForUse replies on 1/20/2022 10:41 pm:
It certainly is something to wish for, dream of, of however we may say it.
Maybe only then, with a help of a loving man, the true sensation would happen and give a deeper meaning to a whole process.
My hands alone cant do that instead.
Thank you for your thoughts, T.

Raven_GB 63M
854 posts
1/21/2022 1:59 am

Well Ex, you have baited the hook with something tempting, now you just need to be patient and see which fish bite! I see there is a tempting lure above the hook - how very, erm, female of you!!

What is your policy on "catch and release"? Or will the unsuspecting prey find themselves, stunned, gutted and being lightly fried in butter before they know it?


ExNameForUse replies on 1/21/2022 11:58 am:
Do I need to verify the capture with posing photography as a proof of my catch, Raven? Or just release it from my hook and toss it back into the water for other "fisherladies" to play with? Though the recipe sounds delicious. Have you cooked it before?

But, joke aside Raven... In truth, and maybe to your or anyone else's disappointment, there is no agenda, no plan, no fishing, nor catfishing in anything I post, or in my comments, or images, nor any other interaction.
What you read and see are blatant bits of my life, very much unfiltered. And very much honest, pretty much self-healing, and often more self-exploring.
If you have any other impression and do see me as a hunter for prey, using some kind of tactics as you suggested, it couldn't be further from reality.
As always, many thanks for your contribution to the topic!

rosaenaluin 65F
11006 posts
1/22/2022 10:04 am

Agree with you, Ex.

The hook is 'nice'- but nothing beats sharing this experience, feelings with a loving man....


ExNameForUse replies on 1/22/2022 10:33 am:
Absolutely, Rosa.

aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
1/28/2022 9:03 am

I love the way you described it, Ex. I'm certainly proud of the progress you made with it. Baby steps, right? The photo is stunning. Any Man would be lucky to possess such a beautiful soul as yourself. I wish you many happy adventures with your new toy.

All the Best,
Ali

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


ExNameForUse replies on 1/28/2022 1:17 pm:
Thank you, Ali. Thank you for your kind, supportive and encouraging presence in my story. I appreciate that very much.
Best to you, Ali.


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