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ExNameForUse 53F
4245 posts
6/2/2022 1:12 pm
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ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
6/2/2022 1:23 pm

That's it. Feeling a bit miserable I admit... like the second class citizen... or twenty-second, better to say...


rondiri 65M
11183 posts
6/2/2022 1:42 pm

Resubmit. you might have caught some moron having a bad day, or a newly hired pencil pusher that doesn't know their ass from their elbow. I would also go to the nearest embassy or consulate and try to find the exact reason why you were denied.


ExNameForUse replies on 6/2/2022 1:53 pm:
Thanks, Ron for your kind words. The official refusal letter says: "In relation to this decision, there is no right of appeal or right to administrative review."
The reason for refusal is "I am not satisfied that you intend to leave the United Kingdom or that you are genuinely seeking entry as a visitor"

God knows what this is all about....

lancylad 78M
384 posts
6/2/2022 2:02 pm

Sadly here in the UK we have, currently, a racist &, almost, fascist government ! Speaking personally I am sorry that you have been treated so perhaps you could go to France & get a dinghy as you would be welcomed with open arms !


ExNameForUse replies on 6/3/2022 9:57 am:
Thank you, Lancylad,, I do appreciate your kind words.

skin0346 64M
334 posts
6/2/2022 3:31 pm

I feel for you some idiot pen pusher ( probably a foreigner) has decided your not allowed but hell lets let in over a 1000 a week arriving illegally on rubber boats
UK has no back bone with all our corrupt politicians and narrow minded civil servants who wouldnt know there arse from their elbow


ExNameForUse replies on 6/3/2022 9:57 am:
Something that crossed my mind as well, Skin, thank you for your kind words.

drmgirl622 68F  
26122 posts
6/2/2022 3:43 pm

What the hell is with all that? I'm so sorry that you, a good and honest person, have been denied. I'm with you on answering the questions truthfully


ExNameForUse replies on 6/3/2022 9:58 am:
I've been left out of words, Girl... absolutely ridiculous...

rondiri 65M
11183 posts
6/2/2022 3:54 pm

ExNameForUse replies on 6/2/2022 4:53 pm:
Thanks, Ron for your kind words. The official refusal letter says: "In relation to this decision, there is no right of appeal or right to administrative review."
The reason for refusal is "I am not satisfied that you intend to leave the United Kingdom or that you are genuinely seeking entry as a visitor"

God knows what this is all about...

Maybe scribe should look into it from his end, since his country denied you. Seems weird.


ExNameForUse replies on 6/3/2022 10:02 am:
He will do what he can, Ron. But it is pretty much certain that there is nothing that we or he can actually do apart from resubmitting ... though in the letter they stated "it is likely that you will be refused if you submit the application again unless the circumstances change"... I don't really know what could possibly change as I am who I am, and there is nothing hidden within my application.

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4175 posts
6/2/2022 4:02 pm

WOW...fuKn ridiculous! I I woulda thought you all being part of the British Empire would have easy access!
just another reason to adopt Harry & Megan as your all’s Monarch & renounce mother England!


ExNameForUse replies on 6/3/2022 10:03 am:
Ridiculous indeed, bdsm...

aliljaded 53F
8928 posts
6/2/2022 5:16 pm

I'm so sorry, hon. Is there any way you can appeal against the decision?

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


ExNameForUse replies on 6/3/2022 10:04 am:
Thank you, M.
Nope, the refusal letter says that "In relation to this decision, there is no right of appeal or right to administrative review."...

TheScribe1 63M

6/3/2022 2:34 am

The gods, and the British Government, are fucking with us babygirl, and I will not allow that to happen. I will find out what happened, and get to the people who can correct this stupid mistake. Chin up my lady, we have my July visit to look forward to...this wrong will be righted in time xx

My Words Are A way Into Your Mind...Be brave And let Me In.


ExNameForUse replies on 6/3/2022 10:10 am:
Thank you, my Scribe. Just another completely unnecessary stress because someone had a bad day obviously and decided to play god, and with our lives. Feeling a bit better today, yet still a bit bitter about everything... but you know that already...
July is just around the corner, and I can't wait xxxx

Plzrmeister 67M  
10466 posts
6/3/2022 5:56 am

I think you should have attached a photo to your application.

Who'd deny such a beautiful lady entry into their country ..... Well, of course, unless it was a jealous British lass.

Make Women Female Again


ExNameForUse replies on 6/3/2022 3:02 pm:
Ohh but there was a picture attached... though obviously not the right one

jenny14 75T  
90351 posts
6/4/2022 1:46 pm

Ex

I too am VERY sorry for you!

To think, people are paid to be mindless cruel morons!!


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


ExNameForUse replies on 6/5/2022 8:45 am:
Jenny, once again, thank you for your kind words.
It was such a shock for both of us, almost like when someone hits you in your stomach and you stay out of breath. Unfortunately, idiots are everywhere and sadly they have the power to decide and influence our lives.


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