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ExNameForUse 53F
4112 posts
8/7/2022 8:35 am
Cooking

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ExNameForUse 53F
5608 posts
8/7/2022 8:37 am

What good deed have you done for yourself today, or lately? Do you ever self-sabotage yourself for god knows what reason?


ridermantel 68M

8/7/2022 8:47 am

i LOVE YOUR COOKING. IT LOOKS FANTASTICALLY DELICIOUS.


ExNameForUse replies on 8/7/2022 10:38 am:
Thank you, Rider... and it was fantastically delicious

likeithot19 62M
5739 posts
8/7/2022 8:58 am

I understand this as I too enjoy cooking for someone, more than myself, crazy huh!


ExNameForUse replies on 8/7/2022 10:38 am:
It is silly, I agree completely!

drmgirl622 68F  
25884 posts
8/7/2022 8:58 am

What time is dinner!! I cook for myself and sit down and savor every single bite.


ExNameForUse replies on 8/8/2022 9:42 am:
If there is any chance at all, the dinner will be served for you my friend at any time you wish
It is good that you cherish yourself, and take care of yourself, Girl. I want to do that, too for myself.

boh99 68M
3113 posts
8/7/2022 9:24 am

preparing and eating a meal can be a sensual act

looks great by the way.


ExNameForUse replies on 8/7/2022 10:37 am:
Preparing and sharing a meal is actually a very intimate act... I know that I can't eat with just anyone at the same table

DancingDom 74M
22475 posts
8/7/2022 10:25 am

Baked paprika and kajmak are not food items i am familiar with. Please explain, perhaps there are names of things know in other parts of the world with different names?

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


ExNameForUse 53F
5608 posts
8/7/2022 10:35 am

    Quoting DancingDom:
    Baked paprika and kajmak are not food items i am familiar with. Please explain, perhaps there are names of things know in other parts of the world with different names?
Ohhh DD, I am sorry... paprika is pepper , and kajmak is Serbian traditional food, something that could be translated as a creamy dairy product similar to clotted cream... when you mix it with feta cheese, add an egg, salt, maybe some herbs if you like or garlic... there you go... a nice filling for peppers, then just shortly baked...


imcre8ive 64M

8/7/2022 10:38 am

food is universal the cook is the difference. do you cook with love of the end result.


ExNameForUse replies on 8/7/2022 10:48 am:
I do cook with love, and enjoy cooking, but much more when I cook for others...

rondiri 64M
11040 posts
8/7/2022 10:39 am

Gotta take care of yourself, before you can take care of others. It's the little things we do for ourselves that keep us going.


ExNameForUse replies on 8/7/2022 10:47 am:
I am trying not to forget that, Ron, though it is in my nature, nurturing and caring, to do that for others first.

oddboyt 20M
58 posts
8/7/2022 11:17 am

Today it's crazy humid and hot here and as such got a much needed Smoothie Orange cranberry mmm.


ExNameForUse replies on 8/8/2022 9:40 am:
That sounds like a perfect choice for the hot day ... hope you enjoyed it and it helped to cool down a bit

alberez14 65M
2 posts
8/7/2022 11:44 am

it's nice to meet a woman that can cook something besides meth.


ExNameForUse replies on 8/8/2022 9:39 am:
Well, I can cook many things, but meth... no, thank you

TeacherH 71M

8/7/2022 12:17 pm

Do what you enjoy, even if only for you.
Uninvited advice, sorry: if you love cooking, do NOT start doing it for a living. You may eventually end up hating it.


ExNameForUse replies on 8/8/2022 9:37 am:
Thank you for the advice, though, no, that would not be the idea of my love for cooking... I love to cook for those I love, and sometimes just for me

rosaenaluin 65F
10830 posts
8/7/2022 1:12 pm

I recognise this.

I like to cook too, but for me... is just something else.
I love to cook for others, especially, when they really fancy my dishes...

For me, it is just like a routine job, sometimes i just dont feel like it,
although most of the time it is delicious.

So i found a modus operandi, i cook for me, once in two, three days....
and that works great.


ExNameForUse replies on 8/8/2022 9:36 am:
Rosa, I was thinking of that way too... to cook something 2, or 3 times a week as I surely can't eat it all in one go... so that would cover the whole week...
I may try to do that, to see how it goes

hardtop4you 65M

8/7/2022 1:24 pm

what is everyone cooking
this sunday? Mine is steamed
shrimp using a little vinegar an
chardonnay wine instead of water,
chilled with old bay.


ExNameForUse replies on 8/8/2022 9:34 am:
I hope you have enjoyed it as much as I did my cooking
Sounds delicious...

brandygirasol 54T
9365 posts
8/7/2022 1:31 pm

Ooooooooo👅 mouth watering awesomeness... 😛


ExNameForUse replies on 8/8/2022 9:29 am:
Trust me, it was delicious, Braandz... wish I could share more than just the picture

ExNameForUse replies on 8/8/2022 9:33 am:
I keep making mistakes with spelling your name, dear Brandy... please accept my apologies

FleetingThoughts 48M

8/8/2022 4:57 pm

Oh... Now....

As a fat man, I love a good cook... Mrs Fleeting isn't well most of the time so I do the majority of the cooking, these days.

But I can say it is quite the treat to have a meal prepared for you for which you didn't pay.

Good on you!


Just My $0.02... Take it for what it cost you...

~FleetingThoughts~
A Place For Fleeting Thoughts


ExNameForUse replies on 8/9/2022 9:38 am:
Mrs. Fleeting is very lucky then to have you help with things around including cooking... good for her, and you both ...

For the rest of what you said... well... I think nothing is ever for free, one way or the other

InderioMinx 54F  
19798 posts
8/9/2022 5:36 pm

I am the same way Ex. I enjoy cooking, but to do it just for myself *meh* not interested. I have a pretty streamlined diet, so I am usually a creature of habit, which also just makes things interesting. But, when I have the chance to cook for others that I like, I take advantage of it.

Perhaps one day I will find an outlet that will allow me to create and cook more.

Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short


ExNameForUse replies on 8/10/2022 9:28 am:
I hear you, IM... I have changed the regime of my eating since January, due to some not good results on my annual health exams, and since then everything has turned into simplified and easy prepare mostly diet meals... and like a broken record, days and meals keep repeating themselves...

Formature121 35M
22 posts
8/15/2022 1:46 am

Looks delicious


ExNameForUse replies on 8/15/2022 9:19 am:
Tasted better than it looks ...

hardom789 54M
18 posts
8/20/2022 6:34 am

Quite the chef! Can I make a table reservation?


ExNameForUse replies on 8/26/2022 11:18 am:
Yes, I am, when I want to and have someone to cook for

rydermantel 68M
23764 posts
1/25/2023 12:03 pm

I like the image of food, but if yo cannot afford to buy food, how can you cook it?


ExNameForUse replies on 1/25/2023 2:22 pm:
I think we are living in sad times when many families do struggle and keep asking the same...


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