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Pathological lying is lying without a specific goal, without any obvious benefit... a pathological liar tells lies every day, very convincingly, as if he were telling the pure truth. Why? Just because.
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Ain't that the Truth! "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Lie in a relationship with me and they are done. My 2nd Ex was a major liar. Her stuff started unraveling three months into the marriage. I ended it immediately. Legally closed the books on that situation. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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The meme convicts all of us, does it not? Unlike many people, I firmly believe there are degrees of lies. Perhaps someone might ask you, "How are you?" on a day when you feel miserable for one reason or another. Should you be burned at the stake for replying, "I'm fine, how are you?"? I'm sure you've heard about the Catch-22 situation of being asked, "Do these jeans make my ass look fat?" That's a hot potato to deal with - Right? Pathological lying is a horse of a different color for sure. Generally speaking, it doesn't take long to identify these sorts. As my father used to say of some people, "They'd rather tell a lie, when the truth would make a better story." Once you identify these type of people, you either avoid them or take anything they say with a huge grain of salt. Make Women Female Again
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l believe in honesty is best policy at all times or cost that the truth shall always set & keep you free...thou a lil white lie to spare someone’s feelings is acceptable!
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8/13/2022 7:06 am |
Honesty is not a thing, in the sense of something you can see, touch or taste . . It is a quality, a virtue. The person that lacks the virtue of honesty also lacks empathy. We live in a time where honesty is considered measurable. So lying has therefore become measurably acceptable.
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After a while the liars start to believe the falsehoods, but you have to have the memory of an elephant and I can't be bothered with all that.
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That quote was the most profound in "House" A recurring theme. and true. At some point everyone lies, even if it is only to save someone pain, or avoid an argument over nothing. "Does this dress make me look fat?", "Not at all, Dear." being the most infamous. 
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Ex this is why I believe in a higher power👼 because human beings are so fragile and morally confused...😥
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8/13/2022 9:44 am |
Ex this is why I believe in a higher power👼 because human beings are so fragile and morally confused...😥
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8/13/2022 12:28 pm |
Sometimes lying can be a good thing. it all depends on what someone hopes to achieve and their underlying ( If I can use that word ) intention is. A good example would be if you and me were going to the theater and you asked, " does this dress make my ass look big"? If your ass happens to look big. I'm going to say you look absolutely stunning tonight. I'm certainly not going to say, "I never realized what a big ass you have". I hope that I've made you smile. I'm sure your ass is just perfect. Some people have no conscience so they believe are free to do and say whatever vile thing comes into their mind. To people like that others mean nothing. Only they are important.
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We all use socalled social lies, just to keep the engine running, the social, work, society, family, engine running.... Most of the time to just not hurt someones feeling, because why should you? What do "you" gain, by hurting someones feelings... Over, most of the time, minor things... Just "to be right"? How important can it bé to tell "the true" when that will only hurt someone?
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Ex That is a wonderful quote! I guess we all lie sometimes... A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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I agree with you, to the same extent, too,  ExNameForUse, When people are ready for it..... Nobody can decide that moment, for an other person. Most of the time, they come to their truth from within.. I have known pathological liars, it is all about them, wanting to impress, even when it is something the other can prove to be a lie... It is a mental sickness.
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