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ExNameForUse 53F
4244 posts
8/30/2022 11:38 am
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ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
8/30/2022 11:38 am

What's in yours?


Tbill1 58M
1795 posts
8/30/2022 11:40 am

Submission, devotion, lust, desire, greed, envy

andy


ExNameForUse replies on 8/30/2022 11:50 am:
We are all both simple and complex at the same time. Depending on the eye that looks at us.

ridermantel 68M

8/30/2022 11:45 am

"It is about what you wear in your heart." ~ Let people be who they are. Do not judge them. Do not belittle then. Let them be who they are. At the same time do not allow them to judge you. Do not allow them to belittle you. Respect must be a reciprocal thing.


ExNameForUse replies on 8/30/2022 11:48 am:
It is always a two-way street. I see it in no other way.

drmgirl622 68F  
26111 posts
8/30/2022 12:00 pm

My heart holds an immense amount of pride and joy. What I wear around my neck is that outward symbol.


ExNameForUse replies on 8/30/2022 9:56 pm:
It is beautiful when what they represent is what you carry in your heart 😘

boh99 68M
3154 posts
8/30/2022 12:33 pm

true...


ExNameForUse replies on 8/30/2022 12:39 pm:
Each of us has its own... truth to believe in... and heart to carry that truth.

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4163 posts
8/30/2022 3:44 pm

agreed but l like seeing the symbols too!


ExNameForUse replies on 8/30/2022 9:51 pm:
I do too 🙂

jenny14 75T  
90348 posts
8/31/2022 12:32 am

Ex

So true! External appearances can be so misleading

My heart is similar to yours


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


ExNameForUse replies on 8/31/2022 8:40 am:
Jenny, why I am not surprised our hearts contain pretty much the same content...

DancingDom 74M
22590 posts
8/31/2022 3:33 am

I generally prefer less obtrusive collars for day to day wear. When playing at home or wherever (dungeons or at munches) the more obvious ones are de rigueur.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


ExNameForUse replies on 8/31/2022 8:43 am:
There is a wide variety of collars that can be found and meet all sorts of occasions where they can be worn... and I would agree with your preferences, DD

aHedonist 52M
7510 posts
8/31/2022 5:49 am

Maybe so.
Maybe not too.

Yanno, there was a time when I used to say things along the line of "What's around your neck doesn't matter, the real collar is in your mind." And it's true - a collar has no more meaning than you choose to give it, and it's no more a statement about one's position than a wedding ring is a guarantee of monogamy.

But it's also false. Collars.... wedding bands... christian crosses... swastikas... national flags... octagonal signs with red borders around a white field and some letters in them... symbols have meaning, and symbols have power. Now whether one chooses to acknowledge the meaning or recognise that power is moot, because there's no statue book here that says anything more than you want it to. (And collars got trendy, and that definitely distracted from the meaning.) But real collars - steel collars - still carry meaning to a few of us.


ExNameForUse replies on 8/31/2022 8:52 am:
It is the analogy with wedding rings I had in the back of my mind when I wrote this short note about collars... I am glad you understood the intention.

Like with everything else, it is about one's own perception.

Without meaning both collar and ring are meaningless symbols that can sit just anywhere and not necessarily around someone's neck or finger.
It is why I say that it is about what someone carries in their mind and heart. Cause what they carry in their mind and heart is what gives meaning and value to a symbol.

brandygirasol 55T
9433 posts
8/31/2022 7:24 am

Hi Ex💋 that pretty much describes how I try to be and it also notes I am a Taurus very loyal and sometimes stubborn too....😎


ExNameForUse replies on 8/31/2022 9:02 am:
Brandy, as a Taurus myself I can only say that loyalty is crucial to me. I can not function and not be loyal, and without being sure someone is loyal to me. Loyalty is all about those other nice things summed up in one. It is about my personal integrity. Either you are, or you are not.

I know many say Taurus is stubborn, but I like to think that Taurus is persistent and consistent when it is about something they believe in, love, care for, or decide about. It is what makes us, apart from loyal, reliable as well

softrayne 56F
3088 posts
8/31/2022 12:19 pm

Radiant as always my dear.

All those collars are beautiful-they match your insides.


ExNameForUse replies on 8/31/2022 11:16 pm:
Thank you, Rayne 🙂
All my collars are simply beautiful and wearing them I guess makes me radiate that beauty and grace they symbolize to me.
I have been blessed with some extremely happy, fulfilling moments in my life and I believe it is what camera has captured in these and my other photos 😊

Chillin816 42M

9/1/2022 10:07 pm

you're gorgeous, its his loss


ExNameForUse replies on 9/2/2022 9:17 am:
Thank you. He is not my ex, nor am I his ex. I am still His, wholeheartedly, and hopefully, He is mine the same way

rydermantel 69M
25392 posts
9/28/2022 9:25 pm

Very beautiful!


ExNameForUse replies on 9/30/2022 2:45 pm:
Thank you..


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