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ExNameForUse 53F
4233 posts
12/2/2022 11:08 am
Why You Should Run When They Say ‘You Deserve Better’

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ExNameForUse 53F
5739 posts
12/2/2022 11:09 am

In case someone needs to read this...


tie2bind 63M

12/2/2022 11:21 am

It is indeed a phrase setting one up for failure


ExNameForUse replies on 12/3/2022 10:07 am:
In 99% of cases, I believe it is.

drmgirl622 68F  
26053 posts
12/2/2022 11:43 am

I've felt that heartache but the real gut wrenching comes when they just ghost you.


ExNameForUse replies on 12/3/2022 10:12 am:
Both are the epitome of disrespect and a no-care-at-all relationship. Can't decide if one is more than the other.

meltwill2 72M  
3787 posts
12/2/2022 11:45 am

Nice read....most of us have experienced it, maybe even more that once.


ExNameForUse replies on 12/3/2022 10:12 am:
I am pretty sure we have all been there at one point... ore more.

likeithot19 62M
5963 posts
12/2/2022 1:46 pm

On the long and winding road, that I am on, one or a dozen curves have been that way. One has to keep moving, always forward, never straight...


ExNameForUse replies on 12/3/2022 10:17 am:
Strait roads don't make skillful drivers...

rondiri 65M
11148 posts
12/2/2022 3:01 pm

Sometimes they mean it, sometimes they use it as a cop out.


ExNameForUse replies on 12/3/2022 10:19 am:
Probably, but tend to believe it is most of the time the latter one.

0410blossom 52F
708 posts
12/3/2022 1:03 am

It will always hurt to know that he will never remember the things that I will never forget. I choose to pour my heart, and give everything I have than to live in regret.


ExNameForUse replies on 12/3/2022 10:25 am:
I will leave regret to those who haven't seen what they had. If they think I deserve better, then I am sure that I do.

rosaenaluin 65F
11002 posts
12/3/2022 4:37 am

people (f/m) who use this, already backed out of any responsibility, for whatever reason and for whatever could come along......
Let go!
...."it is not you, it is me", kind of end of story...


ExNameForUse replies on 12/3/2022 10:25 am:
Completely agree with you, Rosa.

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4113 posts
12/3/2022 9:02 am

it’s a dbl edged sword...ytf can’t we just say what we mean mean what we say do how we say & stop fronting playing games putting up barriers?!
insecurity & immaturity that’s why...you never really know what you had til it’s gone then it’s too late!


ExNameForUse replies on 12/3/2022 10:30 am:
Whether it is insecurity, immaturity, or simply not caring... yet it usually happens just as you said in the end, BD... we chase some fantasies, and disregard what's real and close. How stupid that is...

tasina99 115F
41 posts
12/4/2022 6:31 am

The heart is a muscle. Unfortunately these kinds of events are exercises that strengthen it, albeit in a different way.

tasina

"like the seas, her depth and power will only be known by He who inspires her into submission”


ExNameForUse replies on 12/4/2022 7:01 am:
In a different way, I agree.

rydermantel 69M
24951 posts
12/4/2022 3:04 pm

By the time you hear "You Deserve Better" it is already too late. You have gone beyond the "point of no return" as pilots might say. There are signs along the way. Learn to read them.


ExNameForUse replies on 12/4/2022 11:19 pm:
It is never too late to save yourself.

rydermantel 69M
24951 posts
12/28/2022 5:56 am

    Quoting 0410blossom:
    It will always hurt to know that he will never remember the things that I will never forget. I choose to pour my heart, and give everything I have than to live in regret.
...and you changed your avatar again.



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