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"Solitude is dangerous. It's addictive. Once you realize how peaceful it is, you don't want to deal with people." Carl Gustav Jung.
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3/9/2023 5:28 am |
Perfect picture to go with your post. Thanks for sharing both.
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Loneliness is the poverty of self; solitude is the richness of self. It is much easier to snipe them in the front yard, than to untangle them from your life.
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I am not a good person. Nothing could be further from the truth. You got that right! If there were more people in the world like you, it'd be a much nicer place. Make Women Female Again
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Maybe it is my age and lack of experience but I find that I like company and that while there certainly are people who are ruled by greed or jealousy, the average person is not always like that. I have found that they may seem indifferent, but more often than not it seems to be out of fear to be intruding and considered nosy, rather than true indifference. But that may be also just me, projecting my own fears and insecurities on the people around me.
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I think when one can enjoy the three amigos- Me, Myself, and I, one becomes more in tune with life itself , rather than the game of life. And you put out a different aura to others. You don't NEED a friend, those not there, think it weird...
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Quite often people don't like that which they don't understand 
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Keep everybody at arms length and keep it simple
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I If you can live comfortably in solitude, you can live comfortably anywhere. When amongst people it becomes easier to see those of true value.
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I prefer being sort of alone, than in places with disagreeable people. Or if it gets too loud. As much as I like music, some venues/ sound tech just make it too loud. Bars like it loud, because people drink more. Being alone, means you don't have to answer to anyone for what you do, eat, watch, ponder and so forth. No critics I guess. Perhaps it is part of the aging process to be more comfortable with ourselves than with strangers. I do know, I would enjoy your company as you are a classy lady. Still, I enjoy the company of good people, who are interesting and share common interest and values. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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I enjoy my solitude. I really think I could be a hermit if the need arises. But I do so love spending as much time as I do with my lady. (and it's A LOT of time, lol). But we each know the other needs time to themselves and are both at peace with that.
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Ex I think we are all different and , I too , prefer being alone than with people I don;t want to be with! I wonder if Jung was correct? I have read a book on the topic ( a long while ago) and the conclusion was Solitude is OK if that is our choice) A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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3/9/2023 1:22 pm |
I recognise a lot, in your writing. I like people, if we are like, 'the same' in some way. If there is some sort of mental connection. Most dont match, my world.. and i dont match theirs. I m fine with that. I find most people way too shallow, cant have any indepth conversation, because they never think as deep as i do, Layers, and Layers... i dont do gossip, have difficulties with small talk, i experience that as a waste of time. So, i keep myself, to myself. I like my own company. There has to be a sort of balance, between company and being on my own, to recharge again..
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Very sexy legs
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Hm...well you’re definitely a good person ex maybe a lil socially awkward shy quiet introvert type & very observant intelligent deep kind hearted person w a lotta luv to give to those few you let in your circle as you’re also very guarded why they think you’re cold distant & uppity...but there’s nothing wrong w having standards being intelligent not having anything to say but to be & watch others & observe (one of my favorite past times people watching!) I get you ex other then work & errands I’m alone vast amounts of time l trust nobody l have more compassion sympathy for animals then l do humans but it’d be really nice to have somebody that geTs & understands me for some meaningful 24/7 companionship & kinky adventures together! you be you...you’re perfect just as you are!
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we can be surrounded by people, but true friends are very rare and worth it. Around them, one can be themselves. I hear what you're saying. People can be exhausting.
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Gosh. I could have written that about myself. Nice to know there are others who feel the same
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When asked about people... “I don't hate them...I just feel better when they're not around.” ― Charles Bukowski, Barfly I tend to feel the same way. I've always been a loner. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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