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ExNameForUse 54F
4227 posts
3/31/2023 2:27 am
Keeper

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ExNameForUse 54F
5767 posts
3/31/2023 2:29 am

Joke aside, who is a keeper for you, what is that what make one person being a keeper?


jenny14 75T  
90463 posts
3/31/2023 2:52 am

Ex

A keep , for me, is some-one who can get in my mind and is kind and warm! Looks do not matter


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


ExNameForUse replies on 3/31/2023 7:50 am:
Sounds good to me, dear Jenny
Thank you!

likeithot19 62M
6112 posts
3/31/2023 3:24 am

when everything is Copacetic...


ExNameForUse replies on 3/31/2023 4:31 am:
What is 'everything' or some of?

Plzrmeister 67M  
10560 posts
3/31/2023 5:25 am

if she licks it after you stick it... she is a keeper...

To throw a wrench into the gears .... This could depend on where you stuck it. Of course, depending on your point of view, this might really make her a keeper.

To each their own - Right?

What makes a person a keeper .... That's as easy to explain as "Why is there air?". People have tried to explain this since the dawn of time, with varying degrees of success.

When you can't put it into sufficient words might describe a keeper.

Make Women Female Again


ExNameForUse replies on 3/31/2023 10:56 pm:
Thank you...
And yes, we are all dufferent and have our own little locks. Those with a key for them are I assume the keepers.

brandygirasol 55T
9437 posts
3/31/2023 5:29 am

Hi Ex💋..... Girlfriend sometimes you ask really tough questions...😵


ExNameForUse replies on 3/31/2023 7:03 am:
But never too tough for someone like you, dear Brandy...

rydermantel 69M
25919 posts
3/31/2023 7:36 am

The first cup of coffee.


ExNameForUse replies on 3/31/2023 7:53 am:
Could you please elaborate your statement? Thank you.

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4225 posts
3/31/2023 7:53 am

Lmao!...very true words take care of her & she’ll take care you everywoman (or they should!) luvs the taste of herself & the taste of her lover in her!
someone who gets me understands me is amused by me can content satisfy me mentally physically spiritually & still willingly wants to put up w me! lol


ExNameForUse replies on 3/31/2023 10:58 pm:
Thank you
What a keeper that would be!

RobertBishop 66M  
2157 posts
3/31/2023 8:09 am

As a man with eclectic tastes (in many things), when I was dating, I would take my dates to see my favorite comedians and bands or to something like a silent film with live organ accompaniment.
If she enjoyed those experiences, she was a keeper. Of course, if she didn't, she would generally not return my phone calls. I got the message.

A few years ago, a colleague of mine was dating a professional man who, perhaps uncharacteristically, was a fan of professional WWE wrestling. After she accompanied him to two local wrestling events over the course of one week, I told her that, given that she "passed the test" while many other young women would have headed for ze hills, he's never going to let her get away.

Sure enough, they are now happily married.


ExNameForUse replies on 3/31/2023 9:24 am:
Thank you, RB. It is the kind of answer I hoped to get with some efforts of our dear blog friends... it is about those little personal preferences which would make someone stand aside, make them precious and for sure be a keeper.
It is about little things that make a huge difference.

drmgirl622 68F  
26184 posts
3/31/2023 9:03 am

A keeper is one that "gets" me and accepts me for who I am.


ExNameForUse replies on 3/31/2023 10:59 pm:
It is vital for me as well, Dreamy, the acceptance.

RobertBishop 66M  
2157 posts
3/31/2023 10:22 am

My pleasure. As someone who takes pleasure in the art of comedy (and who likes to write jokes and song parodies myself), if you and your partner cannot laugh together, well, there's not much future together.
I had a friend who once had a lover that was attractive, but I don't think they really "liked" each other's company or personalities. Needless to say, that didn't last.

RB

PS: As predicted, ALT deleted the Tom Jones link I tried to post yesterday. I will send it (and one or two others) to you directly.


ExNameForUse replies on 3/31/2023 10:57 am:
RB, ALT deleted it, but I have found Tom Jones performing that great song live in a show The Voice UK 2017... what an amazing man

As fo laughing with someone, I believe, just as you said, it is something absolutely precious and I dare to say a must between the two... I am lucky that with my partner I have those moments when we literally laugh until our cheeks are covered with tears... sometimes it turns into a burst of uncontrollable laughter and jokes just keep coming... not to mention some silly situations and moments shared and now remembered with so much laughter and smiles... not that I can be and feel so spontaneous and free as when I am with him in those moments... and those are moments that help to overcome some not so cheerful times and times when I have questioned many things... Laugh is a cure.

rydermantel 69M
25919 posts
3/31/2023 12:04 pm

"You gotta lick it before you stick it... but if she licks it after you stick it... she is a keeper..." Yes I see that, but before I contemplate anything I need my cup of coffee in the morning. That statement is rather deep.


ExNameForUse replies on 3/31/2023 12:12 pm:
Thank you.

rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
3/31/2023 12:21 pm

Laughter, i would say, too.

accepting each others ? dark sides?? ( does not everyone has them?)
What ever that 'dark side' are or means to the other ???


ExNameForUse replies on 3/31/2023 12:31 pm:
Acceptance is so important, Rosa, I agree... no judging, or prejudice, just pure accepting of who we are with our good and bad. I guess finding that person who would accept us would be something to mark him as a keeper.

boh99 68M
3172 posts
3/31/2023 2:13 pm

evokes laughter... makes me smile... starts there


ExNameForUse replies on 3/31/2023 2:39 pm:
What could be better to start with?

likeithot19 62M
6112 posts
3/31/2023 2:40 pm

Feelings, Mood, Timing


ExNameForUse replies on 3/31/2023 11:01 pm:
Sounds very nice, calm, peaceful. Something I would want to keep.

nickyparik 70M

3/31/2023 6:21 pm

"A keeper is your soul's recognition of its counterpoint in another." So, if those aren't your GORGEOUS stems in your profile pick, whose are they, and why did you post 'em? And can I then 'assume' the face photo in you post yesterday wasn't of you either, ExNameForUse?
1245907


ExNameForUse replies on 3/31/2023 11:06 pm:
Souls recognition... I used to believe in that too.
Not mine, but gorgeous, and how to resist that beauty and not to put them on display here?
And they have made me feel as though I saw myself walking there.. made perfect sense to me.

JohnnyLightning 65M  
9707 posts
3/31/2023 8:31 pm

Sweet

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.


ExNameForUse replies on 3/31/2023 11:17 pm:
'Sweets for my sweet, sugar for my honey'
I love this song!

nickyparik 70M

4/1/2023 3:10 am

GREAT ANSWER! And thank you for sharing, as I find women's shapely legs one of life's truly BEAUTIFUL sights!
1245907


ExNameForUse replies on 4/1/2023 7:25 am:
You are welcome.
I find women's backs as gorgeous as you find nicely shaping legs... I even made a post on here about the beauty of a lady's back

broken19 24F
1 post
4/17/2023 1:13 pm

NO
DEFINATELY NO JOKE
AND DEFINATELY HOW IT SHOULD BE


ExNameForUse replies on 4/17/2023 8:53 pm:


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