4243 posts 5/29/2023 10:11 am
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Is this real?
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5764 posts 5/29/2023 10:12 am |
They also say it's only sexy if the faucet isn't on your side 
Just some random thoughts on a rainy afternoon 
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22588 posts 5/29/2023 10:13 am |
I think it is an ideal situation where they are partners who love and care about each others. They are not selfish or users.
"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
ExNameForUse replies on 5/30/2023 12:45 am:
Dear DD, I shall believe you, as you do have much more experience and knowledge than I probably ever will... though I am a bit skeptical. People are selfish and most of them are about to use you until you serve their purpose... I wish I am wrong. |
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1680 posts 5/29/2023 10:22 am |
Hello, my friend X, yes this is very possible!! I had it in my life before and the intimacy shared between two people is amazing. If you find it never let it go. He and I are still best friends to this day. We were together for 12 years and have known each other for 16 years. We no longer share this kind of intimacy, but it has formed into a different one. xox L
ExNameForUse replies on 5/30/2023 12:49 am:
Coming from first-hand experience, I can only believe you and only imagine how wonderful and fulfilling that can be... thank you for sharing, lovely L. |
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9433 posts 5/29/2023 10:25 am |
Dear Ex💋....Some might call this a cleaner version of WATERSPORTS but not really how most would describe it on this sex site.... Ha😏
ExNameForUse replies on 5/30/2023 12:55 am:
Dear Brandy  ... I am always a bit hesitant when I want to share something that is not only "sex", or "kinky" related, bearing in mind the nature of this place... but then again I put it up in my blog, as I believe we are all first and foremost human beings, or we should be, and apart from being interested in what we are in terms of this Lifestyle, most of us I believe need just a pure connection, caring and thoughtful, that not necessarily leads to sex, ropes, bondage, gags, chains, floggers, or whatever else I am probably not even aware it exists... you name it...  |
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26107 posts 5/29/2023 11:24 am |
It is very real! Whoever thinks there's no tenderness has never really experienced a true D/s relationship where both parties have made a commitment.
ExNameForUse replies on 5/30/2023 1:01 am:
I want to believe it is real and not just fiction, Dreamy. You are, as you can see, not the only one to confirm that, and I shall take your word for it |
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90348 posts 5/29/2023 1:36 pm |
Ex
I agree that they are beautiful photos but having nothng to do with D/ S ! Just a caring couple!
A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw
Jenny
ExNameForUse replies on 5/30/2023 1:05 am:
Dear Jenny, it makes me sad to think that the D/s dynamic excludes caring and tender moments between partners and that a caring couple, whoever it is, has nothing to do with a D/s relationship. |
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4160 posts 5/29/2023 3:41 pm |
yes EX l did read your comment anything l can do to put a smile on your face cheer in your heart is my mission & objective how was your day girl?
I’ve had a nice lazy weekend of movies as for your post that intimacy is possible & I’ve washed my partners body & hair before! hope your vacation is going well!
ExNameForUse replies on 5/30/2023 1:12 am:
Thank you, BDD, that is kind and caring and I do appreciate your friendship... I am very lucky to have such a supporting group of lovely and dear people here, that I literally don't know how I will ever thank you for that.
The last 2 days, as it has been rainy over here, were spent at home, ironing, as you all know, cooking some nice light tasty meals, and watching a very good series Fauda...
This morning there is some sun peaking behind the clouds so the plan is to go out for a walk and pick up some groceries on my way back...
Made me smile to read you had such intimacy in your life, as many stated, it is obviously possible if with the right partner
Have a lovely day, dear BDD! |
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3112 posts 5/30/2023 6:32 am |
Quoting ExNameForUse:
They also say it's only sexy if the faucet isn't on your side
Just some random thoughts on a rainy afternoon
Some prefer the faucet on their side so they can control the temperature.
ExNameForUse replies on 5/30/2023 12:19 pm:
Someone has to be in charge even in the most tender moments |
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10449 posts 5/30/2023 6:58 am |
if it is possible for two adults to build it, cherish it, and selflessly protect and nurture it...
I'd say that is exactly what the Dom is doing with his submissive in the first photo..... Particularly the 'nurture it' part. The photo speaks volumes of the bond between them.
As they say, "A picture is worth a thousand words." Nothing more needs to be said about these two - They check all the boxes.
Make Women Female Again
ExNameForUse replies on 5/30/2023 12:23 pm:
I just love that first photo very much, Plz... it really does speak volumes, and I would imagine it is the way to be between partners in the most intimate moments within their D/s dynamic |
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8707 posts 5/30/2023 7:36 am |
love to wash her hair!
ExNameForUse replies on 5/30/2023 12:23 pm:
I tend to believe she would love that too |
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90348 posts 5/30/2023 11:17 am |
Ex
"Dear Jenny, it makes me sad to think that the D/s dynamic excludes caring and tender moments between partners and that a caring couple, whoever it is, has nothing to do with a D/s relationship."
I am sorry but I disagree with you I have known a few D/S couples who were in a loving caring relationship
A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw
Jenny
ExNameForUse replies on 5/30/2023 3:34 pm:
Jenny, the way I understood your first comment was that you do not believe that partners can be caring (as the couples in those photos are), in a D/s relationship. It is why I said that it makes me sad to think, as per your suggestion, that D/s excludes intimacy, caring, etc.
Because I think it does not. On the contrary, it is just so rare that it makes me wonder if it is real...
We probably misunderstood each other |
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22588 posts 5/30/2023 2:08 pm |
Nothing wrong with being skeptical. I surely have been of most over the years. Until they prove otherwise. Use your filters, if you suspect any potential partner will not be this way, move on.
After my years of "experience" I can attest it is a rare thing. But worthy of getting such.
"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
ExNameForUse replies on 5/30/2023 3:23 pm:
Dear DD, I know it may sound like a cliche, but "any potential partner" can't be further from where I am at this moment and where I see my future taking me.
Here where I live, with my as of recently 53 years behind me, chances to meet someone half decent are equal to zero (I think I said that not long ago to one of my dear friends), and to allow myself another fiasco with a long distance relationship, would be insane.
I agree with you it is a rare thing to happen, and I don't think I will have that chance in this life. There is not enough time for that now, and I am not willing to sacrifice my peace again. |
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209 posts 5/30/2023 5:11 pm |
I've pondered that very thought from the first time I learned about D/s relationships. I thought maybe it was just another Cinderella story. Maybe closer to Sleeping Beauty. "I know you, I walked with you once upon a dream...." Its still a beautiful story.
ExNameForUse replies on 5/31/2023 12:55 am:
I don't know what to tell you that you already don't know, dear Sophie... Personally, I don't believe in fairy tales, but I do want to believe that there is still something warm and human in each of us... |
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90348 posts 5/30/2023 11:58 pm |
Ex
I think we may have misunderstood each other ! 
As you say, this sometimes happen in this form of communication!
I certainly believe people can be very caring in a D/S relationship
A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw
Jenny
ExNameForUse replies on 5/31/2023 12:52 am:
It happens, dear Jenny... |
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41 posts 6/4/2023 10:39 pm |
a side faucet perhaps !!
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