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ExNameForUse 53F
4243 posts
6/18/2023 5:47 am
First Date

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ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
6/18/2023 5:50 am

Those first dates... always a bit awkward and not knowing what to say... maybe to try this out
Whats your best first date?


rydermantel 69M
25511 posts
6/18/2023 5:52 am


drmgirl622 68F  
26126 posts
6/18/2023 6:38 am

Gee, I can't even remember my best first date


ExNameForUse replies on 6/18/2023 1:06 pm:
I don't believe you

JohnnyLightning 65M  
9678 posts
6/18/2023 6:40 am

I always have my DSM-IV-TR on first dates.

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.


ExNameForUse replies on 6/18/2023 1:08 pm:
What edition, is it up to date with all new diagnoses?

likeithot19 62M
6074 posts
6/18/2023 7:18 am

When alcohol, music, and dancing is involved...


ExNameForUse replies on 6/18/2023 1:08 pm:
So you don't remember anything the next day

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4184 posts
6/18/2023 7:23 am

morning Ex hope you have a good day girl my reply would be...I have split personalities I’m sure one of me will suit you & we’ll all get along fine! lol
a few good first date yrs ago was the old dinner & a movie
a river boat dinner cruise followed by a lil stroll
dinner then drinks at a comedy club


ExNameForUse replies on 6/18/2023 1:11 pm:
I like your answer, very much appropriate

And your first dates are those with some old style and manners... lucky girls

Artschoolgrad 47M
8742 posts
6/18/2023 7:24 am

hmmm... a long night with a French girl, short dress with laced up front, I met through a mutual friend. Thought it was just going to be a lunch but then it became afternoon walk in park, dinner, dancing and sometime after midnight I undressed her in the room of a bondage club. That thrill of seeing her naked for the first time compounded with her being nicely tied up....


ExNameForUse replies on 6/18/2023 1:14 pm:
Wooo hooo... this could be a beginning of a script for an episode of "Californication" ... very much Moddy

rosaenaluin 65F
11039 posts
6/18/2023 7:42 am

My few, best first dates always arise spontanious.......
he and i happen to be on the same spot, and get a long great.
no ackwardness at all....

Not something, that was set up, before hand...

I am extremely ackward on first dates...


ExNameForUse replies on 6/18/2023 1:16 pm:
Spontaneous is the best, when you just click with someone and then all goes smoothly... otherwise I do also feel a bit awkward, as I am not a natural-born leader in that kind of situation...

rosaenaluin 65F
11039 posts
6/18/2023 7:43 am

I like this one, i might gonna use it, the next time ever, for a first date!
Its a test case!! , see how he handles it!


ExNameForUse replies on 6/18/2023 1:17 pm:
It was my first thought when I saw this ...

brandygirasol 55T
9435 posts
6/18/2023 10:09 am

Oh Im sure he's interested in more than just her "personality".... Ha😏


ExNameForUse replies on 6/18/2023 1:18 pm:
He is probably interested in all her disorders I would presume and the very core of all her personalities

jenny14 75T  
90361 posts
6/18/2023 12:11 pm

Ex

LOL - I love it

My best first date was with a dome I met here! We only talked but really hit it off!


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


ExNameForUse replies on 6/19/2023 12:26 am:
Jenny, I am with you.. a good conversation on a first date is a true gem 👌🥰

ASpecialMaster 77M  
67 posts
6/18/2023 12:46 pm

It was when I was in college. A classmate came over on Sunday afternoon to study, and she stayed for a week!


ExNameForUse replies on 6/18/2023 1:21 pm:
Awww it must have been a very thorough studying week ... but good memories now

likeithot19 62M
6074 posts
6/18/2023 4:47 pm

    Quoting likeithot19:
    When alcohol, music, and dancing is involved...
No, not that much alcohol. Enough to knock the edge of and enjoy the time...
Did you see the post where the man offers a lady a drink and she declines saying it is bad for her legs. Due to the fact that it spreads them...


ExNameForUse replies on 6/19/2023 12:23 am:
That much is just enough and somewhat I would go for
I like that a lady knew her weak points, so she can remain in control
Better safe than sorry, especially on a first date

boh99 68M
3154 posts
6/18/2023 10:10 pm

I'd like to taker her out to dinner, and over a nice bottle of wine have her say "You'd like to kiss my feet wouldn't you".


ExNameForUse replies on 6/19/2023 12:25 am:
Boh ... what a wonderful first date that would be...

Plzrmeister 67M  
10473 posts
6/19/2023 5:37 am

My best first date .... Geez, I'd have to search my memory banks for that one. I'm sure it was in high school ... Probably with a girl with a nickname of 'Buttons'. She was as cute as a button too!

I was a junior in high school and she was a senior ... Homecoming Queen and undoubtedly the best looking girl in school. How I managed to attract her affections is a mystery. I almost cried when I heard she has passed away.

Been on vacation to the Oregon coast, so behind on blogs.

Back home safe and sound now.

Make Women Female Again


ExNameForUse replies on 6/19/2023 9:33 am:
I was wondering where you were, Plz... hoped you were missing for a good, joyful reason, hopefully, vacation and I am really pleased all is well and you are back to us here
What a sweet high school memory... thank you for sharing it, Plz, and sorry to hear she has passed away... it makes this memory even more precious...

flasherwatcher68 56M

6/19/2023 7:17 am

That made me laugh!


ExNameForUse replies on 6/19/2023 9:34 am:
Laugh is good ...

DancingDom 74M
22595 posts
6/21/2023 12:24 pm

Best first date, all day hikes with a picnic at the end.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


ExNameForUse replies on 6/21/2023 12:33 pm:
That sounds about just right, DD

Been hiking the last time 2 years ago and it was wonderful... always enjoyed it and something to think about to start practicing again even if not as a first date ... but I love the idea... that is a real-time and real situation where you can get to know someone pretty well...


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