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Someone being patient with you is one of the softest forms of love. Someone will maybe, again, say softness has very little to do with D/s relationships... like with trust, integrity, or loyalty, patience won't do any harm to any dynamic, including D/S, or whichever you chose...
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agreed & yes plz do Ex! have a good day dancin w the vacuum girl
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Softness has very little to do with D/s relationships Au contraire ..... I think softness has everything to do with any relationship, especially D/s.  That's as plain as the nose on your face. There is a time and place for everything ... Especially softness. One has to be very soft after hard use ....  Make Women Female Again
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Patience, is really one of the firm foundations of all that is right with any relationship and shows maturity! Tenderness speaks of heartfelt caring that builds trust and eventually love!
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Getting to the root of the matter...😏
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awww : )
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I just love brandy's comment 
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Don't you think that having the patience to let the relationship come to you and hold you is learned behavior. The paradox of power, in a power exchange relationship is that it ebbs and flows between them.
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I can't say that I disagree with you on this, Ex, especially in long term, 24/7, live-in, D/s relationships; however, in session to session relationships/arrangements, where tribute is expected--if not, mandatory--patience/softness kind of goes out the window. Time , ever fleeting & transitory, becomes too much of a factor, I think, in a short-term D/s session interaction. I could be wrong here, though, because I do agree with you that patience is a carsdinal virtue, and besides, many D/s sessions are somewhat tentative,& probationary, at best--a trial or experiment of sorts to gauge mutual compatibility, so patience would probably be advisable in this somewhat more abbreviated context, as well.
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Ex This is so simple but true and powerful! A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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Roots that you plant are so important. Never let them go. Water them often.
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glad they weren't Impatiens ! This was a nice illustration of the value of time and affection
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