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ExNameForUse 53F
4244 posts
7/28/2023 11:20 am
Betrayal…

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bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4184 posts
7/28/2023 12:16 pm

good post Ex good to see you again gorgeous happy TGIF missed you hope you’re doing well girl?
betrayal is never your fault it’s a hard pill to swallow it can devastate cripple you if you allow it which just invites a bunch of other insecuritys in too...it’s a very selfish cowardly calculated act & deal breaker where all their excuses are invalid it’s best to be strong stand your ground delete & move on!


ExNameForUse replies on 7/29/2023 7:07 am:
Thank you, my dear friend... I am doing well, and I do hope the same is at your end, BDD...
I can sign each word you stated here, BDD. I couldn't agree more with all of what you said.

ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
7/28/2023 12:18 pm

I was sad when I read a post today... not only that reminded me again of how people are weak creatures, not being able to resist temptations, but also how fragile we are and easy to break... I had this article saved from the back in the days when I kept reading all things possible to help myself to understand why people do what they do... maybe can be helpful for someone else to read..


grywolf2 73M
3117 posts
7/28/2023 1:47 pm

The six ways to cope make for a proper roadmap forward.


ExNameForUse replies on 7/29/2023 7:09 am:
So true, dear grywolf2... it can be very easy to slip in the wrong direction after things take place, but these 6 ways can do a lot of assistance in case of emergency... thank you for stopping by, my friend...

uncommon1 66M  
1446 posts
7/28/2023 2:03 pm

I would rather be lie to
than betrayed . . Even
though all betrayal involves
lying.


ExNameForUse replies on 7/29/2023 7:12 am:
I wonder if there is any difference, uncommon...

boh99 68M
3154 posts
7/28/2023 9:19 pm

you're very in touch with our human nature - it's so easy to blame ourselves when something doesn't work out as we'd like.


ExNameForUse replies on 7/29/2023 7:15 am:
I bet many would do the same, dear boh... I did, so speaking from my own experience, now, when things are passed behind me... it is devastating and can literally take you to illness. Once a person realizes that whatever someone else is doing is only their choice and responsibility... well it's not that things feel less painful, but it is easier to decide that you don't need that in your life.

brandygirasol 55T
9435 posts
7/29/2023 4:38 am

My Dear Ex💋...Nice to see you even though your feeling down HUGS❤️❤️❤️


ExNameForUse replies on 7/29/2023 7:17 am:
Good to see you too, my lovely friend ... I was just a bit sad when I read the post our friend ESguy wrote... it has reminded me of my experience and being forgiving, giving chances, etc... other than that, I am doing fine, my friend

drmgirl622 68F  
26126 posts
7/29/2023 7:19 am

Betrayal is something that is just so hard for me to deal with rationally. I've been fortunate enough to have lived and moved on from such hurtful instances.


ExNameForUse replies on 7/30/2023 12:46 am:
It is something really hurtful, literally breaking you in pieces... Dreamy, you are so right when saying it is a fortune to be able to move on from it and leave it behind...

hungaroboy 46M

8/6/2023 3:02 pm

Good blog article.
I am lucky that I hadn't been betrayed in private matters, only once officially. But I had the opportunity to "flight" (step aside without any problem or emotional harm - this is a luxury) thinking that "you will come into my street one day" Hungarian proverb meaning that the betraying organisation will be in a situation where they will need such types like me...
It also means that once a betrayers will be betrayed too.


ExNameForUse replies on 8/7/2023 12:05 am:
I am a firm believer that what goes around comes around, just as you said in your last sentence.
Thank you for stopping by and sharing your thoughts with me 😊

stewart69little 69M

8/7/2023 5:41 pm

Interesting post, Ex, and as I rad it this song popped int my head and I couldn't get it out, sort of like trying to get beyond someone thathas dumped/cheated on me in my life...
If I were the Man You Wanted
They all sat around in a circle
They were all laughing and all telling lies
Then the tall one he bumped in a dollar
He said boys I've got nothing to hide
Now if the King and the Queen stood together
Then the ace he would not be to blame
And if the cards were all laid on the table
Then love could be more than a game

And if the stars didn't shine on the water
Then the sun wouldn't burn on the sand
And if I were the man you wanted
I would not be the man that I am

And I have seen my share of long nights
And I have told my share of lies
And I have run into the darkness
When I saw the look in your eyes
But if the night didn't lie in the darkness
Then the daylight would be hard to find
And if the truth didn't turn to a weakness
I would have never have spoken my mind

And if the stars didn't shine on the water
Then the sun wouldn't burn on the sand
And if I were the man you wanted
Then I would not be the man that I am

So if you're going out to Carolina
Then don't linger in New Mexico
And if you think of the one there behind you
Then you might not feel so alone

And if the stars didn't shine on the water
Then the sun wouldn't burn on the sand
And if I were the man you wanted
I would not be the man that I am... Lyle Lovett


ExNameForUse replies on 8/8/2023 9:20 am:
Thank you, Stewart


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