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ExNameForUse 53F
4243 posts
9/2/2023 2:19 am
Nonchalant

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ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
9/2/2023 2:20 am

She tries to act nonchalant, but underneath she is chalant as fuck...


lurker76 63M
38 posts
9/2/2023 2:46 am

a beautiful shot .. as soon as the surface of her mind is scratched, surrender ..


ExNameForUse replies on 9/2/2023 8:55 am:
Thank you!

wantingnoregrets 64M  
805 posts
9/2/2023 2:50 am

Nonchalant and Wild are two totally different traits of someone exploring their sexual freedom


ExNameForUse replies on 9/2/2023 8:55 am:
Thank you for your thoughts...

BillywildMartin 73M

9/2/2023 3:55 am

Concerning, frustrating, and possibly hostile?


ExNameForUse replies on 9/2/2023 8:55 am:

Artschoolgrad 47M
8742 posts
9/2/2023 5:19 am

"chalant as fuck"

love that!


ExNameForUse replies on 9/2/2023 8:56 am:
I love it too Arty

Plzrmeister 67M  
10475 posts
9/2/2023 5:45 am

underneath she is chalant as fuck...

Goodness ... You have such a way with words! Nice of you to give a glimpse inside your mind.

I love the photo of you.

Make Women Female Again


ExNameForUse replies on 9/2/2023 8:56 am:
Thank you, darling Plz

brandygirasol 55T
9435 posts
9/2/2023 5:47 am

Oooooooooo My Dear Ex💋..... I'll take some of what she's having please!!!🤪


ExNameForUse replies on 9/2/2023 8:57 am:
Make it double

BldBvrsareGr8 67M
262 posts
9/2/2023 6:18 am

Free and wild what a lovely combination... Enjoy the adventure of discovery!


ExNameForUse replies on 9/2/2023 8:58 am:
Thank you... Hopefully one day I shall move on from where I stopped.

drmgirl622 68F  
26126 posts
9/2/2023 6:40 am

That's all we need is someone to open the cage and release the spirit!


ExNameForUse replies on 9/2/2023 9:06 am:
I am happy I had the privilege to scratch the surface only of this lovely world and sad as I think I will never have another chance to dig deeper as I was willing with someone I used to know... its just fate dealing the cards rather bitchy... the spirit is out released and wandering for now...

grywolf2 73M
3117 posts
9/2/2023 8:01 am

She gives credence to the thought of chalant as an actual word.


ExNameForUse replies on 9/2/2023 9:08 am:
Chalant seemed appropriate to sum up nicely what was beneath her nonchalant surface

DancingDom 74M
22595 posts
9/2/2023 11:09 am

In this lifetime, i will never meet all the people I would like to meet, but oddly i keep meeting others I had not know who turn out interesting. I will never go to all the places I would like to go and learn about the people who live there and how they live their lives; i.e. i.e their culture. I will never do all the things which and or planned to do in this life. The list grows daily as I live life. I can't scratch any of those elements of living off my list, those things, places and people. So, I take life as it happens around me and just do the best I can. Old enough to just enjoy the moments. I will keep myself open the possibilities as they occur; which includes people, places and activities.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


ExNameForUse replies on 9/2/2023 1:34 pm:
I am with you, dear DD, and with all the things you mentioned... I guess it is about living in the moment, in the present... enjoying what's happening now... mindfulness, as they say... I just feel a little bit tired to be living at any time including the present time... so I am just letting it all go with the flow.. maybe things change one day...

Thunderone1 56M
12 posts
9/2/2023 1:56 pm

A great word .. great pic .. and, i would imagine, a great time !


ExNameForUse replies on 9/3/2023 11:00 am:
Thank you, and thank you, and yes it was a great time at that time

lurker76 63M
38 posts
9/2/2023 3:16 pm

you are a wordsmith, your blogs are nothing short of brilliant.
you’re an alluring woman indeed.


ExNameForUse replies on 9/3/2023 11:02 am:
Many thanks for your kind words

JohnnyLightning 65M  
9683 posts
9/2/2023 5:11 pm

Nonchalant is nice and easy going. More things in life are deeper and have true meaning.

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.


ExNameForUse replies on 9/3/2023 11:11 am:
It was a game with words... I act nonchalant, nice, and easygoing... that's what the world sees.. what I crave, deep down, is someone I can be "chalant" with and connect on a more deep and profound level...

DancingDom 74M
22595 posts
9/2/2023 7:24 pm

Tings will change..it is inevitable. Usually happens when you least expect it; the good stuff.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


ExNameForUse replies on 9/3/2023 11:17 am:
I have no expectations DD about anything in my life. Nothing lasted, nothing worked so far. The more I wanted something to last and work, the less it did. I still struggle to understand what the purpose of my living is.

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4184 posts
9/3/2023 5:13 am

big hugs Ex hope you’re doing good?!
underneath she is chalant as fuK...Ohh my my Ohh hell yeah somebody put on that party dress!


ExNameForUse replies on 9/3/2023 11:19 am:
Big hugs back at you, dear BDD

Party and party dress sound just about right

BillywildMartin 73M

9/3/2023 7:47 am

"Well, I got time on my hands
And I got you on my mind
And the moon and the stars up above

There's a warm summer breeze
Blowing down through the trees
And somewhere someone's falling in love

If this world where we live is the only one we have
And there's only one thing I'm thinking of
Let's go for that ride, keep our eyes open wide
'Cause somewhere someone's falling in love

You may be looking for someone
Someone may be looking for you
Someday you'll awaken and open your eyes
And love will be looking at you

So don't get down on yourself
No, and don't lose your faith
Believe these words that I'm singing of
For just as sure as the day that you were born
Somewhere someone's falling in love

You may be looking for someone
Someone may be looking for you
Someday you'll awaken and open your eyes
And love will be looking at you

So don't get down on yourself
No and don't lose your faith
Believe these words that I'm singing of
For just as sure as the day that you were born
Somewhere someone's falling in love

Yeah, just as sure as the day that you were born
Somewhere someone's falling
Somewhere someone's falling
Somewhere someone's falling in love..." John Prine, 1984


ExNameForUse replies on 9/3/2023 11:29 am:
Lovely sentiment... thank you very much for sharing this with me and others


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