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ExNameForUse 53F
4246 posts
9/2/2023 1:43 pm
The Right Answer

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ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
9/2/2023 1:44 pm

I always thought that the only right answer to "Take off your panties and hand them over to me" would be "Oh, but I haven't put them on... "


Artschoolgrad 47M
8742 posts
9/2/2023 1:55 pm

Controlling her with a we-vibe at the dinner table in a posh restaurant is a too-infrequent joy especially when the waiter arrives to take the order or to ask how the meal is etc etc and she is quite unable to do much of anything but brace herself on/against the table. so hard to get the timing just right given all the variables! but i do so love the black dress as in the pic above and terrors! having a difficult wobbly tense gingerly walking time heading to the restroom across the crowded restaurant floor. mmmmm


ExNameForUse replies on 9/3/2023 10:48 am:
I really need to get myself a nice little black dress...

grywolf2 73M
3117 posts
9/2/2023 2:49 pm

Your answer makes clear both experience and promise.


ExNameForUse replies on 9/3/2023 10:45 am:
Exactly that dear grywolf

drmgirl622 68F  
26126 posts
9/2/2023 3:16 pm

I enjoyed the trilogy. The connection they achieved shows that it is possible in the BDSM world.........."Are you topping from the bottom, Mrs Grey?"


ExNameForUse replies on 9/3/2023 10:44 am:
Yeeyyyy... I am so happy you love it too dearest Dreamy ... and that last scene... and his question... and answering at the same time "I can live with that"

BillywildMartin 73M

9/2/2023 6:24 pm

Great answer, Ex!


ExNameForUse replies on 9/3/2023 10:42 am:
Thank you! One of many good possible answers

wantingnoregrets 64M  
805 posts
9/2/2023 6:48 pm

    Quoting ExNameForUse:
    I always thought that the only right answer to "Take off your panties and hand them over to me" would be "Oh, but I haven't put them on... "
His response should then be lift up your dress enough and show me you are pantiless


ExNameForUse replies on 9/3/2023 10:41 am:
I would expect him to trust me, and not ask for proof .. he will find that out rather soon anyway

lurker76 63M
37 posts
9/2/2023 6:58 pm

you’re right about the right answer .. smiles


ExNameForUse replies on 9/3/2023 10:38 am:
I thought it might be the right one , but there are more suggestions from my dear friends even better than this was... anyway, it is about the surprising moment and being ready

jenny14 75T  
90360 posts
9/2/2023 8:04 pm

Ex

Fairytales and dreams are good! They can sustain us sometimes....


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


ExNameForUse replies on 9/3/2023 10:36 am:
Dear Jenny, I agree with you completely

JohnnyLightning 65M  
9677 posts
9/2/2023 9:54 pm

I'm sorry to hear that you put yourself through 🗑🗑🗑 of garbage. That's like eating rotten food.

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.


ExNameForUse replies on 9/3/2023 10:34 am:
ohh well... it happens... I guess to everyone at times

likeithot19 62M
6064 posts
9/3/2023 3:27 am

Either your answer or hand him your purse and say they are in here...


ExNameForUse replies on 9/3/2023 10:33 am:
Hey, likeithot, that's a good suggestion ... will keep it in mind if I ever get the chance to use it

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4182 posts
9/3/2023 5:19 am

well Ex sounds like you went the whole 10yds got all the dust bunny’s & spider webs out good job...l have magic fingers for your back?!
fluffy bdsm is ok to watch then make believable in your mind have a good weekend gorgeous!


ExNameForUse replies on 9/3/2023 10:32 am:
Thanks, BDD, it was a good weekend... productive so to say... I did a lot of work at home and enjoyed the fluffy trilogy... why not... no harm in watching something nice and fluffy

Plzrmeister 67M  
10473 posts
9/3/2023 5:28 am

"I haven't put them on... "

Ex ... You are such a delicious slut carefully camouflaged behind your lady like exterior. This must be a part of that 'chalant' you previously mentioned?

That's a great answer I also thought of .... "I was supposed to wear panties?" This, of course, would be said with a slight smirk .....

Make Women Female Again


ExNameForUse replies on 9/3/2023 10:30 am:
Chalant as fuck, don't forget ... but I try to act nonchalant as much as I can
I love love your other suggestion, dear Plz... I have to remember it if any chance ever occurs

ExNameForUse replies on 9/3/2023 10:57 am:
A delicious slut... I like the way you put it Plz ! Sounds quite exquisite

BldBvrsareGr8 67M
259 posts
9/3/2023 6:44 am

I must admit think of this going down(no pun intended) would be bunches of fun!


ExNameForUse replies on 9/3/2023 10:27 am:
As long as there is fun included

brandygirasol 55T
9435 posts
9/3/2023 10:11 am

    Quoting ExNameForUse:
    I always thought that the only right answer to "Take off your panties and hand them over to me" would be "Oh, but I haven't put them on... "
Or perhaps.... "Oh, I'm wearing a thong panty on my fairy-tail"....🫦


ExNameForUse replies on 9/3/2023 10:27 am:
I just adore your witty mind, my dear Brandy

subdude2Bsubdued 76M
349 posts
9/3/2023 4:15 pm

Hello, EX.. An interesting blog post, which all but seems to serve as a wonderful testament to the fact that you are in a good (or better) place, now-- having a more positive and sanguine frame of mind-- which admittedly, is a comforting
realization to me, I was unaware that 50 Shades was a trilogy. I only saw the original or first part on TV, once, but, frankly, did not care for it that much. I guess I found it to be a bit too phony, hokey, sententiously didactic and mawkishly contrived, as though it were striving to win popular appeal or support for something that we know is--and which probably accounts for its essential fun--more rigidly unconventional, "darkly" & alternatively daring, , and societally marginalized/"taboo". I do, however, think that the woman's answer to Sir's command is quite the most realistic one, as it stands. This woman is clearly a naive, newbie to the ritualized in's and out's of the dynamics of the D/s lifestyle. For her to be ALREADY pantyless in this situation would strike me as totally unexpected and without motivation--too boldly presumptuous. I will close by saying that if I had my druthers and was lucky enough to find myself on the verge or precipice of a sexual involvement (irrespective of whether it were to be of a D/s stripe or not), it would be my clear preference that the woman would be wearing panties underneath.her outerwear clothing. Don't ask me why, but I am disinclined to be hurried in this manner. by this kind of concealed and tendentious nudity on her part. I find panties on a woman to be highly sexy, and, yes, even though it would be my hope that they would soon come off her body, I would find it an exponentially heightened eroticism and a boost of personal arousal TO BE SO GIFTED AS TO BE THE ONE WHO REMOVED THEM FOR HER to kick-start, so to speak, the beautiful and satisfying action that follows, hence, from this point of departure, this ultimate divestment of the last scanty remains of her raiment, prior to the coital deed. Though straight, I am, of course, not a dominant partner or mate, which would probably explain my more-vanilla-leaning preference in this matter. If the female were the dominant in this movie, I'd obviously be impelled to approach and critique it differently. LOL.


ExNameForUse replies on 9/4/2023 2:09 am:
Thank you for detailed explanation of your feelings and thoughts about the film and other things and moments you found important to share with me and us all.

wantingnoregrets 64M  
805 posts
9/4/2023 11:33 pm

Cannot get this site to respond the way I want to search your previous statement by X to my response to her my requesting to be showing proof of lack of panties does not mean she has to lift the dress far enough to prove said statement but high enough to make me wonder


ExNameForUse replies on 9/5/2023 3:44 am:
I understood it would be only high up for your eyes only, but not that I could promise I would do it after all 😇


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