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ExNameForUse 53F
4244 posts
9/6/2023 10:18 am
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ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
9/6/2023 10:21 am

Though I crave structure, when it comes to norms and rules being a bit rebellious is a constant... so kind of a little inner fight always going on... maybe with the right man that will end. Maybe not. Maybe it's my nature.


MTIF 66M
45 posts
9/6/2023 10:46 am

a girl to my taste, determined and with integrity.
not a slut, not a whore, as so many on here mistakenly consider a submissive woman to be.
a girl who found her way to balance her scales, it’s just beautiful.


ExNameForUse replies on 9/7/2023 9:47 am:
Integrity is my middle name. That is one thing I know about me for sure.

Plzrmeister 67M  
10473 posts
9/6/2023 11:31 am

Maybe it's my nature.

I certainly hope so ... Who would want to bridle as spirit such as yours?

I agree 100%. There is little more appealing than an Alpha submissive .... I think you fit the mold perfectly.

Fits like a glove I'd say. Being a bit rebellious adds life to the relationship and I'm positive you know where the lines are and avoid crossing them.

I don't think the 'right man' would want it to end.

Make Women Female Again


ExNameForUse replies on 9/7/2023 9:51 am:
I always know where the lines are, Plz. It is whether I respect someone enough to cross them or not. Whether there are some higher more important things than to be right, to be a rebel at that specific time... it is about being wise enough to know when not to cross them, and in my case - it was about my utter adoration for someone and conscious decision to submit to him in the way I knew he needed it.

Vikingargo 68M
660 posts
9/6/2023 12:02 pm

A woman who knows her mind and what she wants is rare indeed. She wants to submit to a dominant who will respect her yet provide order to various aspects of her living in this life.

But, she will not submit to just anyone. She will choose him before and if he chooses her. If not, the search continues for both.


ExNameForUse replies on 9/7/2023 9:54 am:
Very well said, thank you for your input

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4184 posts
9/6/2023 12:08 pm

afternoon tight squeeze Ex how’s your day gorgeous?!
that sounds like my kinda girl/sub/lover/woman/companion I’ve been looking all over for...playfulness in many forms is good bonding!
I’m glad to be back on my feet again was sick a few days too damn hoT to work on creek bank so just chillin inside enjoy your nite girl!


ExNameForUse replies on 9/7/2023 9:56 am:
I am glad you are feeling better too, BDD. Sorry to hear you were sick, my friend. Please stay inside and wait until the weather conditions get better, everything will be done and completed in due time...

BillywildMartin 73M

9/6/2023 2:33 pm

"It is a stunning photo and a perfectly captured moment, M... "
Ex; "Someday, you will find the one who will watch every sunrise with you until the sunset of your life."...Hope springs ETERNAL with each sunrise!


ExNameForUse replies on 9/7/2023 9:58 am:
Thank you, Billy... though I am not searching so not expecting to find anyone really... just going with the flow, as after certain things I think there is not much of what we can really do or be in control of...

grywolf2 73M
3117 posts
9/6/2023 2:44 pm

Alpha submissives probably get along nicely with Alpha Dominants.

No doubt they see value in each other.


ExNameForUse replies on 9/7/2023 10:07 am:
Very rare species it seems to me...

drmgirl622 68F  
26126 posts
9/6/2023 4:02 pm

I've been told, and not nicely once, that I am an alpha submissive. That alpha nature is inborn and only the right person can understand.


ExNameForUse replies on 9/7/2023 10:24 am:
I couldn't agree more, Dreamy, with your last sentence. So, so true.

likeithot19 62M
6074 posts
9/6/2023 5:41 pm

I understand and appreciate that you do too.
To put in other terms, I like hard candy and despise gum.

Both are sweet but one has substance and the other lingers..


ExNameForUse replies on 9/7/2023 10:27 am:
What a perfectly put analogy, likeithot... I love it!

jenny14 75T  
90361 posts
9/7/2023 12:06 am

Ex

I think there a very many women like you! Alpha in their daily lives but wanting to submit to a strong man...


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


ExNameForUse replies on 9/7/2023 10:29 am:
I think so too, dear Jenny... some are brave enough to be who they are, some not, unfortunately...

boh99 68M
3154 posts
9/7/2023 1:43 am

nature pretty much plays out all our lives, but that's the spice in life.


ExNameForUse replies on 9/7/2023 10:33 am:
I think the sooner we realize who we are, and what our true nature is, and try to live in accordance with it, and not with what society, and/or inheritance expect from us... the more chances are to live a fulfilled life.

brandygirasol 55T
9435 posts
9/7/2023 4:37 am

My Dear Friend💋...I've never thought of myself as an Alpha SUB but this describes me perfectly- I'm an independent loner always keep to myself never hang out with other trannies I follow my own path.... ☺️


ExNameForUse replies on 9/7/2023 11:20 am:
Independent loner was what triggered me when I read this the first time, my dear Brandy... since I never thought of myself as an alpha anything... I considered myself too sensitive... for being considered an alpha... but when I read this suddenly I felt like it was an accurate description of who I am...

BldBvrsareGr8 67M
260 posts
9/7/2023 6:03 am

A man who allows you to perform to your own satisfaction is the one that you want.. one who knows when to step in and 'control' the situation, but only when needed! It is good that you're a woman who is aware that she needs that guidance and when she needs it!


ExNameForUse replies on 9/7/2023 11:21 am:
That sounds as pretty much accurate, thank you for stopping by and comment

rosaenaluin 65F
11039 posts
9/7/2023 10:53 am

Although the word ALPHA is misused a lot, by the wrong kind of men, and maybe women too. (?)
I am weary of that term, dont like it.

I rather use; a strong woman.. not alpha, that is just me.
I totally agree with your writing, though.


ExNameForUse replies on 9/7/2023 11:23 am:
Rosa, my dear.. whatever term we choose to use, I think we agree about what the point was...


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