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ExNameForUse 53F
4244 posts
10/3/2023 1:08 pm
Nobody Can Save You But Yourself

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ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
10/3/2023 1:12 pm

True words.


Artschoolgrad 47M
8719 posts
10/3/2023 1:20 pm

true words and a lovely picture!


ExNameForUse replies on 10/4/2023 10:06 am:
Thanks a lot, dear Arty!

Yern2lic 67M
1345 posts
10/3/2023 1:23 pm

Excellent choice of photo. Almost a total glimpse of life these days


ExNameForUse replies on 10/4/2023 10:07 am:
It has resonated pretty much when I saw it, thank you!

grywolf2 73M
3111 posts
10/3/2023 1:43 pm

Easy photo to stare into.


ExNameForUse replies on 10/4/2023 10:07 am:
It does hold the eye of a viewer...

drmgirl622 68F  
26111 posts
10/3/2023 2:41 pm

We can be our own worst enemy but our only Saviour!


ExNameForUse replies on 10/4/2023 10:09 am:
True wise words, dear Dreamy!

MrKhan001 59M
41 posts
10/3/2023 3:12 pm

Good text and o so true


ExNameForUse replies on 10/4/2023 10:09 am:
Mr. Bukowski knew what he was talking about...

uncommon1 66M  
1438 posts
10/3/2023 3:21 pm

Strong people aren't born.
Their made by the storms
they walk through alone.


ExNameForUse replies on 10/4/2023 10:13 am:
Maybe we have some predispositions on our birth, but storms are what tighten that strength within us...

DancingDom 74M
22590 posts
10/3/2023 4:04 pm

Young lady, you are on the right track. You will find yourself in a state of bliss with yourself. In my view, you are a gem t be polished and held precious.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


ExNameForUse replies on 10/4/2023 10:14 am:
Dearest DD, I feel flattered by your kind and warm words

likeithot19 62M
6061 posts
10/3/2023 4:47 pm

Truth there! In this world we are allowed to create our own reality. . Why let someone else create it for you... Look around at all the people with different realities... choose yours


ExNameForUse replies on 10/4/2023 10:17 am:
Societe has expectations... but it's up to us to choose our own way and make our own reality on our terms and save ourselves from those unhealthy expectations...

ExNameForUse replies on 10/4/2023 10:54 am:
Society, sorry... typo

slaveRam4MsM 42M
178 posts
10/3/2023 5:28 pm

true words


ExNameForUse replies on 10/4/2023 10:17 am:
True, indeed.

bimom4taboo 54F
2099 posts
10/3/2023 6:08 pm

very true most of the times. a very close best friend can help you also. one that know everything about you. you them


ExNameForUse replies on 10/4/2023 10:20 am:
Probably... it is always good to hear what some close and dear people have to say... but in the end... you stay alone and choose your own way...

Bostonmarket 60M
124 posts
10/3/2023 6:39 pm

No one can save you but yourself. Recognizing and accepting that is the challenge.


ExNameForUse replies on 10/4/2023 10:37 am:
Too often we lay the key to our happiness in someone else's hands... which then means that the key to our unhappiness is in someone else's hands too... but carrying it in our own hands means we have responsibility... and too many won't responsibilities in their lives... it is so much easier to blame someone else for everything.

jenny14 75T  
90348 posts
10/3/2023 9:21 pm

Ex

These are true words but sometimes we need help and should not be afraid to ask for it!


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


ExNameForUse replies on 10/4/2023 10:40 am:
I hope no one who needs help would feel frightened of asking for it... some of us need support, and some of us don't... it is so very individual, personal decision

boh99 68M
3154 posts
10/3/2023 9:48 pm

I'm reminded of the book "The Gift of Fear" which I gave to my daughters - our intuition helps protect us, listen to it.


ExNameForUse replies on 10/4/2023 10:44 am:
Thank you for mentioning it, Boh... I have just downloaded the PDF I found online and is now on my reading list... and what a wonderful present to your daughters...

brandygirasol 55T
9433 posts
10/4/2023 4:45 am

My Dear Ex💋...all of us loners know we can only count on ourselves when the chips are down....😔


ExNameForUse replies on 10/4/2023 10:50 am:
Dear Brandy, I know that now, and even if it may sound paradoxical, I actually feel relieved and at peace by accepting that there is no one else but me to count on when it gets messy

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4163 posts
10/4/2023 5:23 am

true Ex only you can save yourself but I’ll be there to catch you should ever you fall tight squeeze gorgeous have a great day!


ExNameForUse replies on 10/4/2023 10:51 am:
Thank you, BDD... now I feel much better
Hope you are having a very good day, too!

Plzrmeister 67M  
10455 posts
10/4/2023 5:25 am

A faceless, mindless, heartless being?

You've already saved yourself from this. Nothing could be further apart than you and these characteristics.

Especially the 'heartless' part. There are few hearts as big as yours ...

Make Women Female Again


ExNameForUse replies on 10/4/2023 10:52 am:
Thank you for the kind words, dear Plz

jenny14 75T  
90348 posts
10/8/2023 9:29 am

Ex

You have set the next post to "Friends only " can reply

I thought we were "Friends" but you seem to have excluded that option on the Home Page


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


ExNameForUse replies on 10/8/2023 12:22 pm:
We are friends far beyond the friend list this place offers, dear Jenny.

DancingDom 74M
22590 posts
10/8/2023 11:01 am

It would be nice if you would add me as a friend, so I can comment on your more recent blog posts. Apparently set for friends only.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


ExNameForUse replies on 10/8/2023 12:23 pm:
We are friends beyond any friend list can ever make us friends, DD

jenny14 75T  
90348 posts
10/8/2023 12:26 pm

Ex

" We are friends far beyond the friend list this place offers, dear Jenn"

I know

xx


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


ExNameForUse replies on 10/8/2023 12:45 pm:


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