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ExNameForUse 53F
4244 posts
1/3/2024 12:45 pm
Jungle It Is

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ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
1/3/2024 12:46 pm

I am not sure if it is any better in real life as opposed to this virtual world. People can fake everything.


1benquick 71M
624 posts
1/3/2024 1:06 pm

    Quoting ExNameForUse:
    I am not sure if it is any better in real life as opposed to this virtual world. People can fake everything.
Very nice post, Ex, and I think the Vanilla life folks would agree that the numbers, percentage wise, are similar, and people can FAKE everything...


ExNameForUse replies on 1/4/2024 4:35 am:
As far as I am considered, whichever the lifestyle it is, it all comes down to whether a person has integrity, character, and a backbone...

DancingDom 74M
22595 posts
1/3/2024 1:56 pm

It is a sad state of affairs how people interact these days. Lots of social issues stem from the advent of the internet and add in cell phones as a primary way of communication wih texting, it make so much anomalous and many act like..................well there are many words I could use.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


ExNameForUse replies on 1/4/2024 4:43 am:
It is in the end becoming very impersonal, with texting, emojis, etc... we become distanced from ourselves and our feelings... no wonder then why it all comes down to instant gratification, quick fu**ery (pardon my language), and easy virtue.
It is not something that upsets me, but I find it sad in terms of generations that will this way miss the thrill of true genuine seduction, anticipation, and pleasure that comes as a reward after all...

drmgirl622 68F  
26126 posts
1/3/2024 2:05 pm

It can be like an obstacle course and if you miss one obstacle you have to go back and start all over.


ExNameForUse replies on 1/4/2024 4:44 am:
Nearly as in a video game... or maybe for some, this all is like a video game...

Plzrmeister 67M  
10473 posts
1/3/2024 2:26 pm

"I shall beat your ass first and then fuck you mercilessly and there it is - I am your Master/Dom now."

I was just wondering if they at least bothered to say "Hello" before their eloquence begins? And you actually turn down such offers????

It's unfortunate and sad that so many act so childishly when they are rejected. It's a total lack of self respect and dignity to resort to insults.
That's something I'll never understand.


Make Women Female Again


ExNameForUse replies on 1/4/2024 5:15 am:
Well, first they would need to be grown-up boys but obviously, they are not, hence no dignity or self-respect... but some did say even hi or hello, just before they elaborated and thoroughly explained how they would tear my ass, pussy, etc apart... since I am a picky one ... and no one said anything about my tits ... they were all dismissed

JohnnyLightning 65M  
9678 posts
1/3/2024 3:42 pm

I think this place is more of a swamp. So many fakes and scammers.

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.


ExNameForUse replies on 1/4/2024 4:52 am:
Sadly, I have to agree with you.

RobertBishop 66M  
2147 posts
1/3/2024 6:40 pm

One of the issues with virtual communications is that people say things to others that they would never say to those others face-to-face.
I recently saw a profile on this site by someone complaining of a lack of common decency on the part of those she's reached out to who never responded.
Well, that very same person had in fact reached out to me a few months ago, but in an insulting and snarky manner. I chose to ignore the message, as it is not my policy to engage in on-line disputes, even though, in this particulat instance, a lesson in manners and some return insults would have been completely justified.
It takes someone without a bit of self-awareness to complain when the person she insults in an e-mail doesn't deign to reply.
Anyway, I wish you only the best going forward.


ExNameForUse replies on 1/4/2024 5:02 am:
This virtual communication is like marketing and propaganda... many do try to sell the image they have created in their head about themselves, and since they have repeated that fantasy so many times, they have begun to believe in it.
The problem is that not all of the audience is into fantasies, some rare ones are real and can distinguish true from fake, real from imagination.
Common decency comes with common sense... and if your whole world is just a fantasy you try to sell, there is not much sense in that...
If there is anything I noticed it is that preachers are most of the time the biggest sinners.

Formature1213 33M

1/3/2024 11:12 pm

Thank you for the read.


ExNameForUse replies on 1/4/2024 5:03 am:
You are welcome.

Artschoolgrad 47M
8742 posts
1/4/2024 5:49 am

always wise to be careful. somewhere out there is a good one. love the picture!


ExNameForUse replies on 1/4/2024 7:20 am:
I loved the picture too... seemed appropriate and fitting the topic

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4184 posts
1/4/2024 6:04 am

Ex l hope your day is going well?! rare morning freezing fog here in TX!
Life is a jungle in many ways you have to traverse w many pitfalls & dangers as well as many delights...not everybody is perfect for anybody but there is always a special somebody for everybody!
it’s ok to say no
it’s ok to be alone
failure leads to success gives perspective knowledge experience wisdom
when it’s right you’ll just instinctively know
big squeeze girl!


ExNameForUse replies on 1/4/2024 7:22 am:
BDD, I am having a wonderful week as not going to work, not getting up early, doing little things around my home, and made a nice fresh bread just a few minutes ago... smells wonderful too... and I agree that gut feeling is a very good companion and should be listened more often than not...

likeithot19 62M
6074 posts
1/4/2024 8:05 am

The thing is to know
everything is not peaches and cream
everyone is not a friend...
Billions of people in the world and we have to make friends
SO there are billons, who are not... friends
pretty wild thought...
I have serious doubts I will meet anyone from this site
One I am not a member, paying
I like the blogs. I do understand where You are coming from as it seems we have things in common. I will share with you a piece of advice I got from my Dad. after his sister died... He said, Don't look for anything from me as I owe you nothing. I gave you life, fed you, clothed you, housed you, and gave you the best education I could, We are square. It is up to you to do better, or not. As your parent, I do hope you do well as I do love you.
When he said this to me I was flabbergasted, as I had not asked him for anything. Thinking on it, I am glad he did as he was saying, it is now on you kid... And we became friends...
The little you mention your son, made me think of this as this talk pretty much changed our relationship, to equals...


ExNameForUse replies on 1/4/2024 9:41 am:
"Everything is not peaches and cream" were my exact words, among a few others, I addressed to my son a few days ago, now that you mentioned, but what your father said is something pretty much spot on even if it sounds a bit harsh at a first read... In some (near) future something similar is about to be told to my son, and maybe only then we will be able to change our relationship to equals.
Now when I think back I am astonished at how brave I was to accept to meet that one person I met here. Now, after a few years, I don't think I would be doing it again.
I was I think still very lucky, with how it all went considering my lack of experience, my naivety, and the cruelty and the dangers of the world we live in.
Truth be told, I lack the confidence to meet anyone new at all now.

likeithot19 62M
6074 posts
1/4/2024 9:55 am

    Quoting likeithot19:
    The thing is to know
    everything is not peaches and cream
    everyone is not a friend...
    Billions of people in the world and we have to make friends
    SO there are billons, who are not... friends
    pretty wild thought...
    I have serious doubts I will meet anyone from this site
    One I am not a member, paying
    I like the blogs. I do understand where You are coming from as it seems we have things in common. I will share with you a piece of advice I got from my Dad. after his sister died... He said, Don't look for anything from me as I owe you nothing. I gave you life, fed you, clothed you, housed you, and gave you the best education I could, We are square. It is up to you to do better, or not. As your parent, I do hope you do well as I do love you.
    When he said this to me I was flabbergasted, as I had not asked him for anything. Thinking on it, I am glad he did as he was saying, it is now on you kid... And we became friends...
    The little you mention your son, made me think of this as this talk pretty much changed our relationship, to equals...
ExNameForUse replies on 1/4/2024 12:41 pm:
"Everything is not peaches and cream" were my exact words, among a few others, I addressed to my son a few days ago, now that you mentioned, but what your father said is something pretty much spot on even if it sounds a bit harsh at a first read... In some (near) future something similar is about to be told to my son, and maybe only then we will be able to change our relationship to equals.
Now when I think back I am astonished at how brave I was to accept to meet that one person I met here. Now, after a few years, I don't think I would be doing it again.
I was I think still very lucky, with how it all went considering my lack of experience, my naivety, and the cruelty and the dangers of the world we live in.
Truth be told, I lack the confidence to meet anyone new at all now.
There is no hurry to meet anyone but yourself! You and the 3 amigos need to be on better terms...WE all need to be on good terms with our 3 amigos, Me, Myself, and I! They never leave one...


ExNameForUse replies on 1/4/2024 10:46 am:
It is exactly the relationship I am trying to establish with the best possible terms... for all amigos involved


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