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I think that the last drop of my submissive nature has dried up... I can't even imagine anymore someone telling me what to do, and me willingly doing it...
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No ... Not even. If anything, it has perhaps gone into hibernation and one day it will again awaken and bloom/flourish. I believe one's nature is their nature and it never ceases to be ..... That's right Ex .... You're a leopard who's not changing its spots. It's not a matter of 'if', it's a matter of time.  Make Women Female Again
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I believe people only adjust to being alone. Enter the right person and all those nerve endings you've learned to bypass reattach and embrace the awakening.
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We can't really change our true nature unless something traumatic has happened to cause it. We may choose to suppress, rationalize, behave differently as a means to cope with the absence of something we want, desire or need in our lives. Surprisingly enough though, it doesn't take much to re-awaken our natural self. However it does mean a conscious choice is needed to allow that part of ourselves to be embraced and expressed. "shaped by life, experiences, choices and one day by He who she will come to know as her Master"
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One never knows....as noted above, all it takes is the right chemistry...a certain scent, a touch...
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No that's not the case. People who settle cut themselves short. Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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2/24/2024 1:42 pm |
I know what you are saying, Ex. I do understand that feelin, totally.... Although i think it might be in hibernation... ❓️ That is how it feels for me... 🙏
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Being alone versus solitude . . Loneliness is the poverty of self, while solitude is the richness of self. Living in solitude is painful in youth, but delicious in the years of maturity. If you have buried more than one partner, you know that loneliness follows you like a shadow and that solitude is what you do so you never cause that much pain to someone else.
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This can be true but I know it's my independence that attracts many a Domme.
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So, do you feel that is a good thing, or something you don't/didn't think would occur, Ex? People who KNOW themselves well, adjust to changing circumstances in their lives, best. Of course, education, age, as well as 'self awareness' all contribute. I know lots of women who have made up their mind that living alone for the duration of their life is what they want. Perhaps it's the same with someone of a submissive nature, as well. Whatever you decide, I wish you all the best in your journey!
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Ooooo Dear Ex 💋.... To be alone yet not be lonely...🫦
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But then, something/someone may just have the qualities you seek and you for him. Then what do you do? Do you revert to the concept you noted? Do you take the risk? Be open to the possibilities is my feeling. Be guarded of course. Being comfortable in yourself is one thing that is OK with me. You need to be secure in yourself of course. But if a good person happens to share your space, well that just enerches both your lives. Don't denie yourself. You deserve the best kind of peope in your life. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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Dear Ex, I have lived that lonely life, or perhaps the life of solitude for a number of years, and I agree that it is difficult to let those emotions and desires that have been packed away back out again, but if we stop looking for those moments to arrive, then we may as well just shut out life completely, and I know because you have a son, that you don't want to shut yourself away. You are always looking for moments of pleasure with him, and even with yourself, given your intended vacation. Dear lady, you need to be receptive to special moments coming into your life, not just the boring and mundane nes that come to you every day. It is then a possibility may arise that reignites those wants and desires that you had years ago, and which you still have now, even though they are packed away in the bottom draw of life. Remember life in general can be mundane and boring, but this life is supposed to be fun, exciting and fulfilling. You owe it to your contentment to have that once again. Besides, it is fun t have that partner to share it with.
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This is true
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Ex I think brandi said it VERY well! We can live alone yet still have a relationship! A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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just because the pen stop writing doesn’t mean the ink isn’t still weT or useable...healing takes time once healed you will find someone worthy of your submission or not either way you’re ok & happy enjoy a sinful Sunday gorgeous girl!
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but sometimes it will just feel right and the independence allows itself to melt into partnership (with independence maintained) 
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... alone, not lonely 
... but that would be something I never was a huge fan of...
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