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ExNameForUse 53F
4232 posts
3/21/2024 10:12 am
Arousal

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ExNameForUse 53F
5739 posts
3/21/2024 10:14 am

What is a turn on for you if you care to share, weird or not so weird, but that hits you kind of instantly?


jenny14 75T  
90304 posts
3/21/2024 10:44 am

Ex

I love the cartoon

I am turned by a nice scent!


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


ExNameForUse replies on 3/22/2024 8:11 am:
Me too ... a nice scent does some magic for sure

roper2003 63M
511 posts
3/21/2024 11:08 am

Erect hard nipples showing through a t-shirt


ExNameForUse replies on 3/22/2024 8:12 am:
Even if I am not into girls, that image looks too pretty for me as well

drmgirl622 68F  
26060 posts
3/21/2024 11:17 am

A woman with a certain presence walking into a room will always get my motor running.


ExNameForUse replies on 3/22/2024 8:13 am:
I think I know exactly what you mean, Dreamy as I have the same sensation seeing a man with a certain attitude entering the room...

1benquick 71M
581 posts
3/21/2024 11:20 am

There's not too many BIGGER turn-ons for me than a woman's pair of GORGEOUS, shapely legs! I used to think they always looked best bare, or in hosiery, but yoga pants changed all that (and that amazing undergarment that women wear with those yoga pants, the thong!. Of COURSE. 'commando is even better...!)! In skirts (the shorter the better), or shorts, whether walking or running, even playing golf, tennis, basketball or softball, seeing women with GORGEOUS legs always gets me going...and match them up with a beautiful smile and wonderfully smiling, beautiful eyes, as Van Morrison said, 'I'm in heaven, when you smile
When you smile, when you smile
When you smile.
And when you walk
Across the road
You make my heart go
Boom-boom-boom
Let it all hang out
Baby, let it all hang out
And ev'ry time
You look that way
Honey chile, you make my day
Let it all hang out...' LOVE, LOVE, LOVE a woman with GORGEOUS, SHAPELY legs!!!
'You can be wrong a million times, you only have to be right, ONCE!'


ExNameForUse replies on 3/22/2024 8:29 am:
I am with you there only for a man's legs with some tan... in shorts... and if feet are nice and tidy... that's my man

Artschoolgrad 46M
8666 posts
3/21/2024 11:24 am

turn on: helping her to a powerful orgasm, especially if it takes a lot of foreplay, takes a long time and she's tied up : )

as to the watching... you've inspired me to get a post up on that sometime soon : )


ExNameForUse replies on 3/22/2024 8:36 am:
I look forward to reading that post, Arty

ClimaxHer 65M
138 posts
3/21/2024 11:52 am

What turns me on is a nice pair of legs! Not joining in the epidemic of obesity: a woman who takes care of her body is priceless!


ExNameForUse replies on 3/22/2024 8:38 am:
I do enjoy myself when I see a woman who takes care of herself... her body, her mind, her skin, her nails... that looks very sophisticated to me

rosaenaluin 65F
11002 posts
3/21/2024 12:21 pm

Nice blog,
Hmm,i am afraid, if i wrote that here, alt is going to deny me ever to be able to visit this site again.... 😂🤣
Just too damn strange.... Just joking!


ExNameForUse replies on 3/22/2024 8:39 am:
Once in a lifetime, I ask something that is not depressive and you won't answer Rosa... that's not fair

JohnnyLightning 65M  
9647 posts
3/21/2024 12:49 pm

There's the Art Theater in Hartford. It goes on all the time there as well as other adult establishments. Your turn on is not out there in my opinion.

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.


ExNameForUse replies on 3/22/2024 8:42 am:
There is no such place here where I live, or that I am familiar that there is... there was a chance to visit something like what I am interested in if I was to get the UK visa and there was a plan to go to see and have some fun too... but obviously - I won't be going there

Plzrmeister 67M  
10371 posts
3/21/2024 12:58 pm

Hey .... Ex wants to see some wild, swinging from the chandeliers, monkey sex! Or perhaps it's not sex at all .... Maybe it's a submissive being playing with in various fashions? Personally, I'm a legs and ass man. I see a nice pair of legs ( your profile photo ) and my mind wanders ....

I've always had a thing for bare feet or women's feet in flip flops. I think I've developed a foot fetish somewhere along the line.

Make Women Female Again


ExNameForUse replies on 3/22/2024 8:44 am:
I like a nice pair of men's legs too... and I must admit I am not into the slim body shape of a man... but the opposite... don't know the right word for it and fat is a bit too much... so somewhere in between

meltwill2 72M  
3788 posts
3/21/2024 1:16 pm

    Quoting Artschoolgrad:
    turn on: helping her to a powerful orgasm, especially if it takes a lot of foreplay, takes a long time and she's tied up : )

    as to the watching... you've inspired me to get a post up on that sometime soon : )
You said what I was thinking......now to wait on what you will post on the next subject.


DancingDom 74M
22560 posts
3/21/2024 7:10 pm

Intelligence and sense of humor. Regardless, your post reminded me of this song (I took dance lessons from Ian and his wife years ago).

IAN WHITCOMB You Turn Me On 1965 HQ

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


ExNameForUse replies on 3/22/2024 8:47 am:
DD, won't disagree... it is what I meant when I said that holding a conversation and making me laugh is a huge turn-on for me as well... and a very good tune... makes me move my hips now as I write and listen to it

brandygirasol 54T
9427 posts
3/22/2024 2:47 am

So my dear Ex💋.... Interesting that your big turn on is being a voyeur❤️ ... Ha☺️


ExNameForUse replies on 3/22/2024 8:48 am:
Guilty

likeithot19 62M
5976 posts
3/22/2024 4:41 am

I am more of a hands on guy than a spectator
I always want to join in!


ExNameForUse replies on 3/22/2024 8:49 am:
Being a spectator makes me want to do all sorts of things

BldBvrsareGr8 67M
248 posts
3/22/2024 6:56 am

There are many things that turn me on.. basically I agree with you about the presents.. while certain body parts are an mood enhancer it's how a woman carries herself that important. Then comes the flirting.. love a flirt! A close 3rd and 4th would be a shapely set of legs, followed by a lovely subtle scent. 5th is a lovely smile!


ExNameForUse replies on 3/22/2024 8:52 am:
Lovely flirting... a little forgotten skill nowadays when everyone is not so patient and willing to put some effort in getting to know the other person... though flirting doesn't necessarily lead anywhere specific, it does make me feel aroused and amused to proceed... and see where it goes ... because flirting comes with having some brain and brain always gets me going

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4117 posts
3/22/2024 7:04 am

Ex nothing wrong w being a peeping Tom l like to watch too!
dentist said 2 more weeks for sure then l can eat again gums healing slowly it’s a process & costly but all well worth it in the end…big hug enjoy your wet weekend out in the rain gorgeous!


ExNameForUse replies on 3/22/2024 8:55 am:
BIG hug to you too, BDD! Two more weeks... well, fewer remains compared to the time that has passed...and you are nearly there, BDD... well done, and good for you and your health

grywolf2 73M
3084 posts
3/22/2024 8:10 am

Tantalizing roleplay within the Dom Sub dynamic drives my arousal.


ExNameForUse replies on 3/22/2024 9:06 am:
Thank you for sharing this with us, GW. I have enjoyed in little everyday ongoing little things that were making us both aroused enough to keep them doing and preparing for the climax at a certain point.

likeithot19 62M
5976 posts
3/22/2024 2:22 pm

    Quoting likeithot19:
    I am more of a hands on guy than a spectator
    I always want to join in!
Me too, makes me want to be involved.
I realized this when taken to a strip club.... well Not supposed to get close to the workers
Was taken to a place in Vegas with my girl, she was from LA,
we sat at the bar...
We were surrounded by all the girls
like we were old friends
maybe my girl was


BldBvrsareGr8 67M
248 posts
3/22/2024 4:04 pm

Ex I could agree more that flirting is fun.. the possibilities of what may happen is such an aphrodisiac. Never really thought about the brain power required to do it properly. However that said and after a little thought I think you're correct about that as well..


ExNameForUse replies on 3/23/2024 5:02 am:
The reason being said brain should be involved to properly flirt is that I see flirting as a slippery ground where it is easy to cross some lines and end up in a place no one wants... so careful choice of words, gestures, jokes, or whatever else is it seems to me necessary to make that flirt worth and fun and joyful... and for that you must have some active brain cells...

aliljaded 53F
8915 posts
3/22/2024 6:57 pm

It's been a very long while for me too. I, (possibly like you) need to feel a connection to someone before that can happen.
But I flirt a lot. It's fun and it makes me feel like I'm still alive.
~xxM

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


ExNameForUse replies on 3/23/2024 5:02 am:
We are on the same page, dear M

rosaenaluin 65F
11002 posts
3/27/2024 4:05 am

Alright, Ex,
You asked, i ll answer!
hands, asses, boots, eyes, the way he holds his body, how he moves,....
slim men.

That is just all eye candy.... and does not go anywhere, just flirting enyoing the male form!

for a real connection, there need to be talk and investing time and effort...
attractiveness on an whole other level.


ExNameForUse replies on 3/27/2024 10:57 am:
Thank you dear Rosa 😊
You are among friends here and altgremlins love when we speak naughty 😉🤗🥰

ALEXCOCK732323 51M  
10 posts
4/13/2024 7:03 pm

GOOD BLOG BABY, GREETINGS SINCE MEXICO...!


ExNameForUse replies on 4/15/2024 1:06 pm:


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