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ExNameForUse 53F
4232 posts
3/23/2024 3:25 pm
The Second Principle

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ExNameForUse 53F
5739 posts
3/23/2024 3:25 pm

... "I have come to accept the feeling of not knowing where I am going.
Because it is only when we are suspended in mid-air with no landing in sight, that we force our wings to unravel and alas begin our flight"..

(C. JoyBell C.)


biactiveXL 56M
14 posts
3/23/2024 3:33 pm

such a nice pic, thanks


DancingDom 74M
22560 posts
3/23/2024 4:01 pm

I do not have a clue how many forks in the road I will come across. I will embrace every change in direction, as it will give me views I have not experienced before.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


InderioMinx 54F  
19824 posts
3/23/2024 4:43 pm

Oh yeah... the if-only syndrome is a step in the grief process too. It is hard to accept, but one must, lest they drive themselves nuts.

Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short


1benquick 71M
581 posts
3/23/2024 5:28 pm

'Farther On'
In my early years I hid my tears
And passed my days alone
Adrift on an ocean of loneliness
My dreams like nets were thrown
To catch the love that I'd heard of
In books and films and songs
Now there's a world of illusion and fantasy
In the place where the real world belongs
Now I look for the beauty in songs
To fill my head and lead me on
Though my dreams have come up torn and empty
As many times as love has come and gone
To those gentle ones my memory runs
To the laughter we shared at the meals
I filled their kitchens and living rooms
With my schemes and my broken wheels
It was never clear how far or near
The gates to my citadel lay
They we're cutting from stone some dreams of their own
But they listened to mine anyway
I'm not sure what I'm trying to say
It could be I've lost my way
Though I keep a watch over the distance
Heaven's no closer than it was yesterday
And the angels are older
They know not to wait up for the sun
They look over my shoulder
At the maps and the drawings of the journey I've begun
Now the distance leads me farther on
Though the reasons I once had are gone
I keep thinking I'll find what I'm looking for
In the sand beneath the dawn
But the angels are older
They can see that the sun's setting fast
They look over my shoulder
At the vision of paradise
Contained in the light of the past
And they lay down behind me
To sleep beside the road 'til the morning has come
Where they know they will find me
With my maps and my faith in the distance
Moving farther on...' Jackson Browne from September, 1974, 'Late for the Sky' Album
Ex, as a famous American Philosopher from our Pro Baseball past once said, "When you come to the fork in the road, TAKE IT!" Yogi Berra


EvolvedEdge 57M
301 posts
3/23/2024 7:08 pm

I think that the message at the heart of this makes great sense- it is to live without regret. What’s true beyond doubt, though, is that whatever happened is the only thing that DID happen- and indelibly so- but history may serve as a teacher. If that weren’t so, experiments and experience would be of no practical effect (ever) as we move into our future. Awake acceptance, then. Even if every outcome is pre-ordained and will is an illusion, the illusion of choice is itself part of the sculpture of existence. We can appreciate its colors and trace its contours with intent.


grywolf2 73M
3084 posts
3/23/2024 8:37 pm

" What happened is the only possible thing that could have happened and had to happen - for us to learn a lesson in order to move forward."

No, I do not accept that easily.
When I can't seem to do something one way, I gather all my resources to find another way.

The right workaround will bring a successful turnaround. That to me is the way forward.
Or perhaps I've just been lucky.


drmgirl622 68F  
26060 posts
3/24/2024 5:06 am

There will always be that second guessing yourself......life has things already planned out for you.


dryfte 69F
97 posts
3/24/2024 5:08 am


We are exactly where we are meant to be, right here, right now

Sad thing is, we don't readily accept it.
That lesson can often take a lifetime to learn




"shaped by life, experiences, choices and one day by He who she will come to know as her Master"


likeithot19 62M
5980 posts
3/24/2024 5:55 am

The journey forward is never straight...


bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4117 posts
3/24/2024 7:35 am

Ex l believe we can want & wished we’d done things differently or least we do after the second or third time around after learning the lesson!
warm embrace girl enjoy your Sunday funday gorgeous!



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