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ExNameForUse 53F
4232 posts
3/24/2024 9:04 am
Just Because

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ExNameForUse 53F
5739 posts
3/24/2024 9:09 am

Just because it is Sunday, and it is cold and rainy here today, I have decided to treat myslef with pancakes. A hug from warm chocolate sweets were delicious for all my senses... and it has been quite some time since I am careful about what I eat last couple of months...
That was my contribution to this sinful Sunday... 🤗🧡😘
As of tomorrow back to my healthy eating routine 😁


likeithot19 62M
5976 posts
3/24/2024 10:13 am

Go for it and I am glad you enjoyed it!
It is Sunday Funday here in sunny North Florida. My favorite Oyster bar, out in the middle of nowhere, always has a band on Sunday afternoons... and cheap beer!
Life is good!


ExNameForUse replies on 3/24/2024 11:26 am:
Dear likeithot, it was great to taste again something "forbidden" and simply enjoy the flavours... I have been watching what I eat for a few months now, lost a few kilograms, so this was a little reward for my persistence... open bar, Sunday sunny afternoon, cold beer, and live music - sounds like I could join the party 🍺

jenny14 75T  
90304 posts
3/24/2024 11:38 am

Ex

What you say is so true but ww try to help ...


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


Plzrmeister 67M  
10371 posts
3/24/2024 12:42 pm

There is no need to debate about every little thought.

That's true and why I try to keep things light and stay out of the 'deep' water.

At the same time ... If you throw a rock into a pond, you're gonna get ripples.

Make Women Female Again


ExNameForUse replies on 3/24/2024 1:17 pm:
That sounds a bit like she is guilty of being r***d cause she wore a short skirt so she asked for it... which I strongly disagree with.
We all have common sense to know when is the time to be a smart ass and when a gentle companion. Not to mention those with an incurable need to oppose whatever you say or write. This is more related to Fet, to be honest.

drmgirl622 68F  
26060 posts
3/24/2024 2:41 pm

I like reading others' views on things and never confess to know it all. What I do know is that a friendly ear is always welcome.


ExNameForUse replies on 3/25/2024 10:37 am:
Dreamy, you are a remarkable friend who knew ever since we met when to come to me, and when to remain quiet. Even when you were quiet, I knew you were there and that is something precious about you. I am grateful to have met you and have had you by my side the last couple of years

1benquick 71M
581 posts
3/24/2024 3:34 pm

Dear Ex,
I agree wholeheartedly with your statement here today; "Just because I post it it doesn't mean I am going through it and it doesn't mean that it's directed at anyone.
Maybe it's just that I like what I read and what I see so I share it."...that statement is EASY enough for most everyone to understand, surely. One of the things that ALWAYS concerns me about 'written' words, or 'text messages', especially when I don't know the person that sent the 'written/text messages' very well, or only through text/written messages, is how that message is being said. Is someone offering and opinion/advice, just making and arbitrary comment, being sarcastic, or some other message? I can't see their face, can't hear their tone of voice, don't necessarily have a point of reference for the comment that was offered, and as I said the other day, I'm GENERALLY not one to give advice (MOST of the time for one of the reasons listed above by me...) and will try to think of a song I've heard in my lifetime that reminds me of, or I can associate with the subject matter of the message sent, not necessarily offering it as 'ADVICE'. And/or I might try to find something 'light/humorous' that I've heard at some point in my 70 year long life that might be considered 'appropo' for the moment. Certainly NOT to MAKE FUN OR MAKE LITE of the circumstance, but rather, to lighten the moment. I HOPE, I haven't written anything that you might misconstrue as 'ADVICE' in anything that I've written you, I certainly try not to lecture, although, since we're not 'personally' familiar with one another, I'm sure MY 'messages/text' can JUST as easily be 'mistaken for advice'. My apologies to you, SINCERELY if I have offended you, it certainly wasn't meant, if I have...


ExNameForUse replies on 3/25/2024 11:00 am:
Please... no need for apologies, and no, you have never offended me. Not in the slightest.
As I said in one of my replies here - this is not aimed at anyone, it is more my impression about people in general, and on social media even more than in real life cause it is giving us all some kind of shield of invisibility and distance... that we miss the non-verbal part of communication can often lead to misconstruing what has been written, but after a while, it is easy to spot those who are eager to be smart at all costs... and that for sure is not you, dear benquick...

grywolf2 73M
3084 posts
3/24/2024 7:33 pm

Ex,

I am not sure who this post is directed at. For my part, I like your blogs because you thoughtfully touch on many of life's challenges, and I thought your purpose was to gather the opinions of others.
I am not one to lecture and most of what I believe probably only works for me. In any event, I usually remember to add, IMHO.

Something that is rarely spoken by a lecturer.


ExNameForUse replies on 3/25/2024 10:45 am:
"Just because I post it, it doesn't mean I am going through it and it doesn't mean that it's directed at anyone."
This post is not directed at anyone in particular, GW.
You understood very well why I am here - because on so many topics I can not talk with a few close friends, for obvious reasons, and sometimes they just refuse to talk about something. They have for example refused to talk about the "afterlife" saying I am too young to plan things like that.. so I wanted to gather the opinions of my dear blog friends on here. Opinions... I did not ask for advice, and sometimes what people do is to give you the advice even if not being asked for.
I appreciate the opinions of all of my friends here, yours as well, GW. Otherwise, my comments would be closed and I would only talk to myself...

brandygirasol 54T
9427 posts
3/25/2024 12:39 am

My Dear Ex 💋 .... We are all groping for answers... ❤️HUGS❤️


ExNameForUse replies on 3/25/2024 10:50 am:
We are, Brandy, I agree with you...

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4117 posts
3/25/2024 7:16 am

agreed & big warm hug for you Ex enjoy Monday now hope you had a nice day girl!


ExNameForUse replies on 3/25/2024 10:52 am:
It was a good start to the week, BDD... busy day in the office and I look forward to some days off soon... so all is good... and hope the same is with you

InderioMinx 54F  
19824 posts
3/25/2024 4:55 pm

Hope the pancakes were yummy.

Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short


ExNameForUse replies on 3/26/2024 12:38 am:
They were super yummy...🥰☺️


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