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ExNameForUse 53F
4232 posts
3/27/2024 1:15 am
Love Bombing

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ExNameForUse 53F
5739 posts
3/27/2024 1:19 am

In case someone has second thoughts, feels something might be wrong, or else... it is easy to get hooked, but not that easy to get out of that net... take care, and have a lovely day 😊


rosaenaluin 65F
11002 posts
3/27/2024 4:00 am

Great writing ,Ex.

If that happens to me, and it did, i always feel very nervous,
as if my body is telling me, somethings off.
Dont go there~!

As soon as that feeling is there, i disconnect with that person...
as fast as i can.
Most of the time, the damage is not that deep, or intense
It only makes me feel dirty....

On some subconcious level it all feels very wrong, not sincere,
not genuine.
Again, this too, is all about THEM, not you, at all....


ExNameForUse replies on 3/31/2024 2:06 am:
It is why I often write and say how important it is to pay attention and trust our instincts. It rarely if ever fails to recognize the fake the deceptive the liars...

DancingDom 74M
22560 posts
3/27/2024 4:00 am

Now days, I move like a Glacier. It is far easier to just develop friendships.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


ExNameForUse replies on 3/31/2024 2:04 am:
Friendships are precious if genuine.

aliljaded 53F
8915 posts
3/27/2024 4:18 am

I've come across this issue. It seems that some individuals tend to engage in deceptive behavior, only to abruptly end their involvement. It appears that the willingness to invest the necessary effort into establishing a genuine connection is dwindling. Furthermore, those who do put in the effort are often unfairly grouped with those who do not. Making it more difficult to spot a true gentleman, when we come across one.
~xxM

Great topic!

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


ExNameForUse replies on 3/31/2024 2:03 am:
Unfortunately, you are right, M. Some true and honest gentlemen will pay the price they did not make the bill for. Sad, but true.

drmgirl622 68F  
26056 posts
3/27/2024 6:45 am

I've known that person of whom you write......they broke my heart. I took that scar and now call it a love wound that makes me stronger.


ExNameForUse replies on 3/31/2024 2:02 am:
Been there, done that. The scar is here as a reminder.

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4113 posts
3/27/2024 6:51 am

Ex my love bomb for you is nothing like that it’s free lasting unbinding gives you eternal joy bliss and carry & happiness
have a tasty taco day gorgeous!


ExNameForUse replies on 3/31/2024 2:01 am:
I would never think of your love and care as such, dear BDD.

brandygirasol 54T
9426 posts
3/27/2024 8:13 am

Oooooooo my dear Ex💋 ...such a shame that something called ❤️LOVE BOMBS❤️ can also be so sinister EEEK😵


ExNameForUse replies on 3/31/2024 2:00 am:
Well, if sin is in someone's core, then poison is what they spread mostly with their bombs of "love".

1benquick 71M
576 posts
3/27/2024 8:30 am

'You can be wrong a MILLION times, you only have to be right, once...'


1benquick 71M
576 posts
3/27/2024 1:44 pm

And, 'In the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, and sharing of pleasures. For in the dew of little things the heart finds its morning and is refreshed...'


ExNameForUse replies on 3/31/2024 1:53 am:
Do you know that there can be love bombing in friendships as well?...

rosaenaluin 65F
11002 posts
3/29/2024 12:03 am

I think, those who practice love bombing, are emotional damaged,
and try to relive that moment of pain, time and time again,
but now from their end of the game, with them- socalled- in controle-


ExNameForUse replies on 3/31/2024 1:52 am:
I do agree with the fact that there is some emotional damage, as well as the need to feed their own needs and void for whatever they are missing... yet sometimes it is just the way someone is, we all have choices and can decide at certain point what to do with our damages since we all have them. Destroying other people is such a pathetic choice for the weak ones.


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