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ExNameForUse 53F
4233 posts
4/20/2024 4:22 am
Faking

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ExNameForUse 53F
5742 posts
4/20/2024 4:24 am

And do guys really believe in those fake ones? Do you not know the difference? Is it possible not to spot the difference...
This excludes Meg Ryan's scene of faked orgasm of course


casio26 63M
2558 posts
4/20/2024 4:41 am

A duel, simultaneous organization is a rare treat.


ExNameForUse replies on 4/21/2024 7:37 am:
I agree with what likeithot said

jenny14 75T  
90342 posts
4/20/2024 5:18 am

Ex

i love the cartoon

A guy who cares should be able to tell the differen
ce!

A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


ExNameForUse replies on 4/21/2024 7:38 am:
According to the cartoon, everyone's faking something

Plzrmeister 67M  
10404 posts
4/20/2024 5:31 am

So why not say what turns us on, what we like/dislike, and what makes us fly high

So we're like talking actual communication here? What a novel concept. Personally, I'm open to any and all input on these things .... Like you say, if someone is having to fake orgasms, they're not going to be happy in the long run.

Ed Zachary! I'm sure some guys think they're God's gift to women and orgasms, but that isn't generally the case. Take the feedback guys ... It's an investment in your future lovemaking. by the way ... "I'll have what she's having."

Make Women Female Again


ExNameForUse replies on 4/21/2024 7:41 am:
Well, not a novel concept, I know, I haven't invented hot water when saying that good communication could lead to less faking, but obviously, some communication issues prevent us from good communication and less faking

brandygirasol 55T
9430 posts
4/20/2024 5:40 am

Hey Girlfriend💋... As I'm sure you know men love it when you are ooooooing and ahhhhhhhhing over their magnificent cocks❤️.... Even if your faking it... Ha 😏


ExNameForUse replies on 4/21/2024 7:45 am:
Yes, I know most of them are into ooooooing and ahhhhing and I wonder how that penis must be tiny and incapable since its owner has to feed his ego like this

1benquick 71M
598 posts
4/20/2024 5:42 am

Couldn't agree with you MORE, Ex! What's the point of 'faking', and YES I pretty sure I can see right through a female's fake orgasm? Of course. I've known many a man that'll say, 'So what if you faked, I got off and that's all that matters to me!', but, personally, I'd be disappointed if I couldn't take my partner to that 'Blissful moment', I look forward to the pre-orgasmic twitching, how her own rise in emotional and physical ecstasy distracts her from her attempts at getting me off, as those attempts become more and more frequent and delaying in length, as her own twitching becomes more pronounced, until there's a point where she almost spots breathing momentarily, and then this SHUDDER, all over her body, and this almost exhausting, profoundly DEEP exhale of RELIEF/RELEASE, with more INTENSE SHUDDERING, and then the begging 'Don't STOP, OH PLEASE, DON'T STOP! RIGHT THERE! YES, RIGHT THERE! OOOOHHHHHHHHH! DON'T STOP!' that eventually changes to, 'OKAY! OH, THAT WAS GREAT! OKAY, YOU CAN STOP, NOW....MMMMMMMMM! OH MY GOD, WHAT ARE YOU TRYING TO DO TO ME? OOOOOHHHHHHH!' and the INTENSE SHUDDERING and TWITCHING BEGINS AGAIN, until she throws herself away from me in a heap of deep breathing and trying to recover...I LIVE FOR THAT MOMENT to make my partner feel that INTENSE PHYSICAL AND MENTAL RELEASE, ABSOLUTELY LIVE FOR IT, and it can't be faked (not even Meg Ryan could fake that, Ex, not even on her BEST day!)...


ExNameForUse replies on 4/21/2024 7:45 am:
I am glad we both agree

uncommon1 66M  
1418 posts
4/20/2024 6:08 am

If you're going to be in a
relationship, be honest
an true . . If you can't, stay
single.


ExNameForUse replies on 4/21/2024 7:47 am:
So simple, yet for some, it is like nuclear physics.

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4134 posts
4/20/2024 6:47 am

Ex there is nothing fake about me or my performance
Ohh yes I know when it’s real as her inner thigh shakes uncontrollably for extended period of time afterwards…l also know how to bring iT!
big hug gentle caress kiss on head swat on the bum Ex enjoy your weekend gorgeous!


ExNameForUse replies on 4/21/2024 7:51 am:
It is what I was thinking when I asked myself, and everyone else here if it is possible not to notice the difference. There are those tiny signs the body is sending so that is clear whether is real or not... not noticing them means only not interested in knowing her at all

DancingDom 74M
22570 posts
4/20/2024 7:12 am

I don't like the idea of faking. I would rather have direct and honest communications so we both can achieve what puts a smile on the other face.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


ExNameForUse replies on 4/21/2024 7:51 am:
Totaly agree with you, DD.

likeithot19 62M
6013 posts
4/20/2024 7:49 am

    Quoting ExNameForUse:
    And do guys really believe in those fake ones? Do you not know the difference? Is it possible not to spot the difference...
    This excludes Meg Ryan's scene of faked orgasm of course
Feel behind the knee of the woman. If it is dry, she faked it
It wet she is not being truthful
I have a friend who 9 times out of 10 says she did not cum
yet we both know different... and she keeps showing back up...


ExNameForUse replies on 4/21/2024 7:54 am:
I did not know about that trick, so to speak. Never noticed that with myself too... will pay attention next time what is happening there

likeithot19 62M
6013 posts
4/20/2024 7:52 am

    Quoting casio26:
    A duel, simultaneous organization is a rare treat.
Yes and no, if meeting for the first time, yes. BUT
if you are not strangers, it is all in the play


drmgirl622 68F  
26082 posts
4/20/2024 8:03 am

Believe me, you know when I'm getting to that point.....no faker here!


ExNameForUse replies on 4/21/2024 7:54 am:
Same here, dear Dreamy...

grywolf2 73M
3096 posts
4/20/2024 9:28 am

How can one truly experience the best of any relationship if they fake their part?


ExNameForUse replies on 4/21/2024 7:55 am:
Not that I can understand it either, dear grywolf

brandygirasol 55T
9430 posts
4/20/2024 10:18 am

    Quoting grywolf2:
    How can one truly experience the best of any relationship if they fake their part?
Grey Wolf... As a sub/slave part of my job is to make a guy feel ten feet tall❤️... And if I have to fake it then so be it... Ha👄


rosaenaluin 65F
11002 posts
4/20/2024 11:42 am

I never understood that fake thing, at all.

"just to get it over with, is what i heard some friends say..

If you want to have a good sex life, why fake it?

Why not tell him, or her, on a saterday afternoon, while drinking some tea, how you like it, what drives you crazy , up de wall, and so on?
And, ask him, what drives him off the wall, crazy with hornyness?

I never faked it, i choose my lovers wisely.

When he is all about HIM, throw him out of your bedroom/life, and/ or buy him a sex doll.

And, sometimes it makes me happy, when he comes, and it is not necessary for me, to orgasm too...
That can happen, anytime of the day...


ExNameForUse replies on 4/21/2024 8:02 am:
No matter how wisely we choose our partners it may happen that orgasm won't happen, for god knows what reason.... but if the relationship seems to be worth investing the time and effort, I would try to communicate if it seems there is some problem.
Though, just like you I do not need to come to be fully satisfied... my body sometimes can't reach that point which does not exclude the pleasure itself and the pleasure of knowing that my partner is enjoying... and sometimes it is vice versa... as long as we accept that there is no norm and that not having an orgasm is better than faking it - I can live with that quite happily.

rosaenaluin 65F
11002 posts
4/20/2024 11:47 am

Oh, and i dont believe someone can fake squirting, there is a lot of liquid involved, most of the time...how can you fake that?

That is so terrible intens, comes out from your toes, totally wasted, after that.

Not every woman is trembling, screaming, huffing and puffing, moaning, and all that...


ExNameForUse replies on 4/21/2024 8:04 am:
Unlike an orgasm, I don't think that squirting can be faked. It may happen that the bladder is losing the battle there... just my thought on this, not sure if I was right.

Artschoolgrad 46M
8694 posts
4/20/2024 12:15 pm

totally agree!!


ExNameForUse replies on 4/21/2024 8:04 am:
Thank you, Arty, your comment made me think of all this

grywolf2 73M
3096 posts
4/20/2024 1:15 pm

    Quoting brandygirasol:
    Grey Wolf... As a sub/slave part of my job is to make a guy feel ten feet tall❤️... And if I have to fake it then so be it... Ha👄
Well, I like your work ethic.

Happy 420, Brandy!


DancingDom 74M
22570 posts
4/20/2024 3:36 pm

    Quoting rosaenaluin:
    Oh, and i dont believe someone can fake squirting, there is a lot of liquid involved, most of the time...how can you fake that?

    That is so terrible intens, comes out from your toes, totally wasted, after that.

    Not every woman is trembling, screaming, huffing and puffing, moaning, and all that...
My view is that much of the so called "squirting" is the woman loosing control of her bladder.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


JohnnyLightning 65M  
9650 posts
4/20/2024 4:19 pm

A fake Rolex sticks out like a sore thumb.

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.


ExNameForUse replies on 4/21/2024 8:06 am:
Like all fake accessorize

rosaenaluin 65F
11002 posts
4/21/2024 8:22 am

DD,

Uhm, no, it is not, it comes from a totall other place, anatomic speaking, not from her bladder,
otherwise you should smell the urine...

It is not urine, there is a distinct difference, between those two fluids..


rosaenaluin 65F
11002 posts
4/21/2024 8:29 am

Also,

When a woman, is not thát much interested in her man, anymore,
but hangson, for hangson sake,
she might fake it to make him feel good and she can take care of herself, afterwards,
when he is out of the room/house....

Dont want the hassle to have to explain why she does not orgams, anymore,
if he was ever able to notice....

This could very well be just one reason, why women do that....?!

I would rather file for divorce, then stay in such a dead relation,
but that is just mé.


ExNameForUse replies on 4/21/2024 9:48 am:
There was a joke where a husband asked his wife why she never tells him when she has cum, or had an orgasm, and she responded that she doesn't like calling him while he is at work

rosaenaluin 65F
11002 posts
4/21/2024 1:21 pm

ExName,
Hilarious!! ! response!
You made my evening!!


ExNameForUse replies on 4/22/2024 2:46 am:

rydermantel 69M
25181 posts
4/29/2024 2:34 am

I have a thought on this.

My initial reaction was that we are all getting older and tired and just out of shape.

But still, there are younger people out there. They want instant gratification because we are constantly bombarded by so much. Is it really necessary to carry a phone with you everywhere you go? Essentially time has relatively shortened compared to what it was, let's say 50 years ago. Even my family doctor said the same thing. He is only allowed 15 minutes per patient and that's it. 15 minutes! We live in an assembly line world.


ExNameForUse replies on 5/3/2024 12:37 am:
Ryder, we are living in quite a disturbing time and that includes disturbed intimate relationships to the core. Just my thoughts...


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