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Daddygirl_57 54F
0 posts
10/4/2020 6:55 am
Morning question:


I have noticed the last few , people think they can demand things from others. They use , I am Dominant, that might be the case but you not mine. So you really have no grounds demand anything from .
So why Dont we just get people and maybe you get more out of someone.

Hornybakoman 50M

10/4/2020 6:57 am

Because everyone wants to be in control one way or the other


Wicked_Tongue 61M
690 posts
10/4/2020 7:16 am

Its got nothing to do with control... its all to do with the fact that they have no clue about what being a dominant really means, or even the true nature of a Dom/sub dynamic.


subjim63 60M
415 posts
10/4/2020 7:18 am

these so called dominants believe submissives automatically submit to anyone who acts bossy or bitchy. not true. being submissive doesn't mean you are weak. just the opposite. it takes strength to give up control to someone else


curioss1970 52M
262 posts
10/4/2020 7:34 am

so true


alwaysassertive 64M

10/4/2020 7:56 am

who knows. I say fuck 'em, but I say that a lot anyway. Some people don't understand that others have feelings and emotions, because they themselves don't have any.
So fuck 'em.


NoNonsense_Dom 70M  
1544 posts
10/4/2020 6:48 pm

    Quoting Wicked_Tongue:
    Its got nothing to do with control... its all to do with the fact that they have no clue about what being a dominant really means, or even the true nature of a Dom/sub dynamic.
Agreed mate, and they think that not using manners and showing respect is OK. These fuckers are only after sex. They know nothing of the lifestyle and the dynamics within. These people are also straight out dangerous.


NoNonsense_Dom 70M  
1544 posts
10/4/2020 6:53 pm

Daddygirl we are people who share a common interest in BDSM. I am dominant and you are submissive, BUT that does not give me the right to demand anything from you. We share an interest and should be able to talk as equals about those interests. If ever that 'friend' dynamic was to change then things could and would be different, but a whole lot of water has to flow under the bridge before that happens. There is a get-to-know-you process that has to happen. So if anyone 'demands things' of you, or anyone else for that matter, just block their sorry arses because they are not worth spending time on.


DancingDom 74M
22620 posts
10/11/2020 12:48 pm

Any decent dominant basically compels or inspires a submissive to meet his/her requests. Demand............they only build resistance/resentment.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"



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